Do guys like flat girls?

Question

I'm a flat girl. When I'm out I notice that I don't get half the attention from guys that my busty friends does. Do guys feel attracted by flatt girls?

Dongtai · Accepted Answer

Physical features like having big breasts or a big butt and thin waist will get you noticed more easily and frequently then a girl with neither of those. But the attention isn’t necessarily “quality” attention. They may get noticed by random guys but might not get approached by guys “they” notice.

Anyway. There are other ways to get noticed by guys like having long hair, being in good shape and or having a really good personality. Personality is the biggest thing. People cliche it a lot but there’s a reason why hot girls get cheated on with girls who are physically less attractive. You can have an attractive body while not being an attractive person.

The answer to your question isn’t a yes or a no. Most guys like big breasts. But it doesn’t guarantee they’ll like the girl who has them. It increases her chances of getting noticed and that’s it. I’ve dated plenty of girls who had B’s or A’s (they had booty though) and I couldn’t keep my hands/mouth off of them. But it has more to do with the girl and how she affected me.

Get a man’s attention with your body and all he’ll see is a body. Get his attention with your soul and he’ll see “you”.

MDollarBill · Accepted Answer

All breasts matter! All are beautiful. All are perfect. All are desired.
Every guy is passionate about his "ideal" parts, true, and there may be statistically more guys who like 'em bigger, but it's not all guys. Every shape and sized has its fans. Don't dismiss what you've got. Somebody loves exactly that.

GraveDoll · Accepted Answer

im flat chested. and it has never affected my game. Most guys yeah the see sex when the see big asses and tits ( i think it a primal thing) but i feel like i know it was my "looks" and not my "assets" that caught his attention and that i can live with. plus i feel more dainty anyway and the guy seem to baby me more.

plus us flat chested babes will always look younger. seriously it true. and wearing tanks tops and not worry about a guy staring at your chest when you trying to be serious is never a bad thing. plenty of guys who like tiny tits just as many guys who like big tits.

KitKnickKat · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it’s nice to have smaller boobs because you know that guys like you for you and not your tits!

simonqq · Answer

For some reason I generally fall for girls with smaller though I love breasts of all sizes. When it comes to looks the face is the most important and the body as long as it's healthy I will likely be attracted to it. If it's you in your photo then you are quite beautiful and I love that hair. I would probably pay a lot of attention to a girl like you.

archiz · Answer

I get what you're feeling
but you need to know that you have more to offer than your boobs and that you are not just a sexual encounter.
based on your profile pic, you look very cute.
Some guys are into small boobs and others aren't so you will get guys into who you are.

Sentimental_Stoic · Answer

101 opinions already , so that's enough info for u but then I thought what's the harm, I'd still say what I feel like...
That attention you're talking about, from the guys, is for the boobs... not the girl they belong to... Trust me that kind of attention attracts not the very honest and the right kind of guys...
So it's their boobs getting the attention, not them...
Nothing bad with that though... But still, I just look at the girls face, her smile, her eyes when she smiles , her lips.. arghh I often start looking at the lips when someone's talking to me and then have to remind myself to look into the eyes 😂😂
So I'd definitely feel attracted by a flat girl , considering I'm attracted towards her face and personality...

Freddy78361 · Answer

They do but they don't see them as quickly as women with larger breasts.
What. I mean is that men are visually stimulated creatures. Our eyes focus in on breasts.
That doesn't mean we don't like smaller cup sizes. It means that we are initially drawn to larger breasts.
But there are some really good things in it for you: people assume (wrongly) that you are smarter, more classy, less of a slut, a 'good' girl, your breasts won't hang by your waist in a few years and you won't have a sore back from compensating for the weight on your chest.
The down side? Jackasses won't drool over you from a distance. And men will probably ask you out second unless they know you.

RACSKC0B · Answer

Depends on the girl, for me at least. I have dated more girls with smaller chests (like B small C cup), then anything.
So I imagine it probably depends on the guy as well.
Don't let it bother you, for every complaint you have about not having a bigger chest, girls with bigger chests have a complaint that makes them want a smaller chest.
And if you're only worried about it because you think that's what guys want, stop. You're worrying about what a guy you don't even know if you know already or not prefers. That's just silly.
You're beautiful already, be comfortable in your skin.

Thomas__Shelby · Answer

Breasts are to women as muscles are to men.

They’re really more a show of adulthood, growing up and sexual maturity. It subconsciously tells men that she’s healthy, fertile and can nurse children. It’s a subconscious trigger of attraction, aka a “turn-on”.

We subconsciously want partners that serve our primal needs. Women subconsciously want strong and powerful men, which is why being muscular and tall can triggers their primal instincts of attraction.

So if you’re flat, don’t worry. It may take a lot more effort for you to get a guy all hot and bothered, but if your face and personality makes up for it then you’re ok.

Finchie40 · Answer

Me personally likes girls with more then a handful boobs but that isn’t my deciding factor on whether I like a girl or not , I been with girls with smaller boobs as long as she has a pretty face and beautiful eyes and a great personality and she has a nice figure that’s all that really matters to me. A guy will only notice a girls boobs first if she is wearing
Something that shows off her boobs , but it takes more then just boobs to get my attention , if she has nice boobs and a not so pretty face I wouldn’t be interested , Most
Girls look at a guy’s package especially to see if he is well hung and then she will look at his face so again don’t think cuz you have smaller boobs that guys won’t
Find you attractive , I know a lot
Of
Guys that like
Girls with smaller boobs , so everyone has their preferences on what turns them on and everyone is different

JackSmy · Answer

Why do you want attention from those users and abusers that are just wanting to fck you and dump you, like the 'larger' ones experience?
I ADORE, and HONESTLY LOVE women with the smaller, even tiny breasts, if I like them, when talking with them, and getting to know them!!!
OMG!! Most of the women I have felt to closest to, LOVED the most, have had smaller, and even "tiny" breasts, based on social norms!!
I LOVED them, because of WHO THEY WERE!!! All of them were wonderful women, and all had smaller, even 'tiny' breasts!! I Loved them for WHO THEY ARE, not their breasts or bodies!!
Some of the smaller ones are actually quite cute, and maybe a little more sensitive, than others, as I found, with some. . .

jessicasissy · Answer

I like flat girls even more than big chested. I love nice small boobs and there are plenty of men that do also. Don't focus on your appearance so much and instead on focusing on being happy with who you are. If there are things about you that you'd like to change, and are changeable without surgery, then work on those things. Most important is being happy with you, when you are you'll attract far more men than you thought possible because being happy with you turns into confidence which is a big turn on for almost all guys.

RydiaMagnifique · Answer

I find it a blessing being a B. Less attention means less discomfort. My ass gets more attention which is great because that means when I'm walking by, I don't notice. I never understood why I get creeped out by the attention. I suppose it's because the sight of my body turns some guys into crosseyed, drooling, braindead zombies. *shivers*

Anonymous · Answer

I love girls who have 32AA - 34C be boobs, especially when they are petite. There are lots of guys who love small boobs and lots of porn sites devoted to small boobs. Act confident and it's even sexier. Most guys don't care about the size as long as they get to play with them.

DrMeow · Answer

some like girls with small breasts some prefer other sizes but the person who is attracted to u (romantically) wouldn't care much about your appearance and would be more attracted to your personality/you as a person

jemismyname · Answer

i couldn't care less how big a girls boobs are!

besides, do you want to get attention with your boobs?

maybe just get attention by saying "hey" and talking to guys that you like. if they don't have anything good to say, then who cares about them anyway?

Jjpayne · Answer

For me, it's all about how a girl presents herself and her confidence. There are outfits made specifically for flat girls, just search Google images. And your personality. Just be confident and fun. Or find that niche that helps your personality to shine the best. I'd much rather be with a girl on the pool tables or killing it on an arcade game over the sexy girl flashing her legs while drinking at the bar. Take action and be the life of the party to make her jealous

Maraneva · Answer

Your friends will attract people interested in the body. You'll attract people interested in the face and heart. I can't say the distribution is equal because more guys will be inclined to look at a body with more curves. It's instinctive but I'd say just a little less than half the guys will actually do like a flat shape because otherwise most of my friends from school and college would still be single🤷

blank_expression · Answer

Yes, the flat girls are attractive. There are many reasons why I would choose a flat over a huge boob girl but I doubt you would want to hear them. Also, there are studies out there that these guys that go for big boobs are usually poor or haven’t been completely weaned. I think that about a third of men prefer small ones.

yseaguy · Answer

I do, absolutely. I like women of all shapes, but, everything else being equal, smaller chest is probably more likely to have my attention than bigger. But mostly I like proportionality. And probably like nipples more than the breasts themselves, and you usually can't see them out and about anyways.

George4love · Answer

I love flat girls specially with big nipples big areola.. Breast size not matter me in a girl big areola attract me a lot... Otherwise every girl in the world have attractive breast no matter it's small or big only taste and nature of every man have different some like big and some like small flat..

nodnol32 · Answer

No doubt boobs are attractive. But if I was to date someone, she can be as flat as possible. Her boob size would be the least of my concerns. To me who you are as a person is more important and do we connect? If you are the best person out there for me, I'd choose to be with you than any busty woman.

HorrorFan · Answer

What we like (actually want to put effort into) and what we react to visually aren't always the same thing.

If all you care about is meaningless attention from strangers in public places, then yeah, your friends with bigger boobs, butts, etc. are going to get more attention, obviously.

Besides, there are other ways to get attention but they may require more effort than just being well endowed and standing there.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

It's true. Larger boobs are more likely to attract more attention from guys. That doesn't mean a flat-chested woman is less of a woman. We have other features that guys can find appealing.

Alexiis021 · Answer

As a girl that struggled with this well into her early 20s.. I got really annoyed with people saying “ love yourself “ or “it doesn’t matter “ .. got a boob job 2 years ago and I’ve never looked back..

But each to their own and I hope you find happiness x

Spoon1996 · Answer

I have the smallest boobs out of my friends going from A-c cup depending on my weight. I’m by far the thinnest and I’ve always had the most attention. Even when one of my friends was a smaller dress size than me. I do also have the biggest bum though. Normally It’s either boobs or bum you get so I like so wear clothes that exaggerate it

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Would you want to be with someone who is drawn to you just because of the size of your breasts?
Small breast are attractive, be confident with what you have, that confidence will shine through and be more attractive then any size chest. Meet someine who really wants to be with you for you, dont care about random guys in the street

dantheman1118 · Answer

Men have simple minds and simple patterns/habits. When I see huge boobs my eyes automatically go right to them. Only because they are there. I don't sit and stare but it's something I notice right away. I'm not even a huge boob guy tbh. But they always get noticed. I personally prefer smaller chested females.

JosephJoestar60 · Answer

Every man is different so it's not fair to say sweeping generalizing comments like this.

It's like saying do guys like chicken? Yes, but some dont like it raw. No, but I love when its fried.

Lots of men have very different tastes in their partner

Spyke_34 · Answer

Personally it's not something that's a big deal, we've all got different things in different shapes/sizes etc... I'm a personality guy myself & it's Eye's & Lips... Everyone is different, everyone is unique & perfect in there own ways, we all want to change things about ourselves... So no I wouldn't say its a big deal at all in my opinion 😊

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Different people have different tastes.

I think it won't be a real problem when someone is romantically interested in you.
In my early teenage years, I had a big crush on a girl and she didn't had much assets. So it's not a problem when it comes to love.

Radio4men · Answer

yah naturally men in the western women go for thicker girls. Its just natural.
In Asia, Asian men go crazy for thin girls.

You have to understand there is a social construct for everyone.
I workout like a horse and eat everything I hate. It is what it is. can other fight it.
Or do something about it.

You can always force yourself to eat when you don't want too. and workout.

emmily2396 · Answer

How does having small boobs make you flat? I have small ones but I am curvy everywhere else and I don't lack attention from men. And just because they get attention it doesn't make them happier. Lots of men just want sex...

nawtee_me · Answer

personally I prefer smaller breast to larger ones. You say flat, are we talking a cup? or turn the bra inside out to make it fit... lol kind of flat? ;) I am sure you are beautiful just as you are and besides, more that a mouthful is a waste anyway...

AmeerX · Answer

It has nothing to do with flat chested.
I have liked multiple girls with flat board chest. Reason being good personality. Rest is just mumbo jumbo.
And by the way your dp looks great to me. You are alright look wise anyways. It is something else

Flower7 · Answer

I've heard a lot of guys saying they don't care about breast size. So I don't think they would mind very much if someone was flat-chested.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah prefer it myself. That said guys like to see your body. Even a guy who prefers small breasts will look at large breasts going by because they’re often visible. He’d just rather see small breasts. They hide a lot though.

maybe guys are all checking out your butt from behind and you don’t see it.

Guardian45 · Answer

Guys DO like flat girls.
Guys DO feel attracted by flat girls.
I know that busty girls get attention, but that shouldn't demoralize you, because you're missing the point!

Guys like girls. Period.

Personally, I prefer curvy girls, but my first girlfriend was flat. And I didn't love her any less than any of my subsequent GFs. Would I date a flat girl again? Yes, because attraction is not just about her bust, but her brain!

Infernion · Answer

It differs from guy to guy, for me there is such a thing as too big, but I don't think i could say there's such a thing as too small, just in my opinion. Of course I have a preferential middle ground, but I'd take small breasts of giant ones every day of the week.

mojj0 · Answer

I'm more attracted to a pretty face and figure than boob size so yes I do like flat girls but that's not to say that I wouldn't look and also appreciate a girl with bigger boobs

JPrez · Answer

I could go either way if we’re just talking chest as I look beyond just the physical features. A good firm set of C’s is just as attractive as perky A’s.

jojixlight · Answer

you're cute you don't have to worry about it, I think it's good if someone loved you for your personality not for how your boobs are lol

Anonymous · Answer

You’ll be all right. Plenty of guys will be attracted to you. Some initial attention goes to the busty girls, but for long term relationships, it’s a level playing field. Besides, when your busty friends hit 50-60 years old, the long legs/big tits will become big legs/long tits.

Metlahaed · Answer

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Reaperbot666 · Answer

might be the guys in your dating pool. but yes there are different types of guys. who like different types of girls out in the world. body wise, personality wise, attitude wise, etc.

SjE78 · Answer

same way i react to larger chested women... if they have a good personality and i get along with them then I dont care what breast size or body shape they are

sawno · Answer

I find b cup to small D attractive so I'd likely say yes to this. Small A is not attractive but it's not a deal breaker either just makes you stand out less.

Adam1978 · Answer

You should have bigger boobs then the guy. So as long you got boobs your fine, size isn't important, if your as flat as a kid your not a attractive choice.

AllieOops · Answer

You just need yourself a good push up bra and you will get your share of looks - unless you are a total carpenter's delight - flat as a board. :(

letssee89 · Answer

I tend to like them more. Women with smaller chests tend to be thinner than their bustier friends (or not friends). Plus, anything more than a handful is a waste.

humanearth · Answer

Flat girls are just as great as them other ones. Sad part is some guys have bigger boobs then some women. I'm in the same group as you flat chested

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well yes ofcourse there are many guys darling who like small boobs

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Since I am drawn more to face than than bust, I will definitely noticed the larger bust... however, the prettier face tends to garner my attention unless the pretty face is attached to a pain in the ass personality. After all, I enjoy eye contact.

Anonymous · Answer

I doubt anyone goes looking for a flat chested girls, but personally I care about face and butt more. If you have a nice face (which you have) and a nice ass, then I don't care what size your tits are. Face>ass>tits for me

handymanny506 · Answer

As long as you are confident in yourself, you are attractive.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Boobs aren't the only body part that attracts guys. Just pick out your best features and highlight them.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

My Missus is 'flat'. I'm very happy with her. Whenever my eyes (on their own) notice a bigger set, it's just a visual reflex that has no deeper meaning.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Most guys like to see some cleavage. But just because we prefer it doesn't mean it's a deal breaker.  As long as you have other good physical features you will attract guys.

YHL6965 · Answer

I care more about personality personally but, when it comes to looks, a curvy girl will get my attention while a flat girl won't really get my attention but, again, it depends on her personality, on her way to be.

Anonymous · Answer

Maaaan. I wish I was an a cup. I hate having fluffy boobs. It’s hard shopping for swim suits that won’t be overly revealing. 😭😭

bodukem · Answer

I personally perfer flat girls but any attractive girl with a good personality will get most guys attention.

_SOARER · Answer

It's a preference thing  I find petite or slender women very attractive  I don't normally check out women because its lustful. But when I do its normally because a woman is "flat"

olderirishguy · Answer

I love flat girls. I think small and tiny boobs are so sexy

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