If i ask a girl out to a date, a dinner date for example. I dont expect much besides some decent conversation, getting to know each other, some flirting, and propositions for the next date. Possibly poking the question of sex out there just to see her reaction to get an idea of what kind of pace she is comfortable with.
I do not, expect to get laid, or for everything to work perfectly. I am not evaluating her bank account and I dont expect her to be evaluating my financial situation either.
In fact women that expect me to just to buy them tons of nice things without ever getting to know me is a huge turn off.
Dont get me wrong i like spoiling girlfriends to new pocketbooks or nice dinners but I want to get to know her and make sure she will actually appreciate my efforts before I do that.
PROTIP If you mention buying you gifts or sending you money within the first few dates, im out. Im not a sugar daddy and I dont want a gold digger. I work my way up to nice gifts, I dont just toss them around in hopes to get laid.
I expect her to show up and be open to having fun with me. That means for the date she is with me, not on her phone, not flirting with other people, and engaging in conversation. I expect it to be a great experience and want to see if we have chemistry.
If he asked me for something too fancy for the first date I would start thinking he had ulterior motives, so I would question it. If I want something fancy, I can easily go with my family and friends whom I know.
I expect that the man approaches the woman, and I'm more traditional, so he needs to be a gentleman. Don't cater to me or put me on a pedestal, but don't treat me like you would another man. (If men want traditional women who will do for them, they have to put in effort too. Random fact but just saying *topic for another day*) And he needs to stand out somehow someway... Whether it's his appearance, the way he communicates/his charisma, his confidence, or just his idea of the date that draws my attention, something has to draw my attention and single him out. Otherwise, there's no point in wasting my time on it.
My expectations when being asked out: -Show up on time -He better not dare spend the entire date on his phone!!! I hate when people do that! Unless it's an emergency, that is very rude. -Make a genuine effort to get to know me and talk -I WILL offer to pay my half of the meal/dinner, or wherever we go. You don't have to like it, but it's how I was raised and it's just courteous -Where we go is not as important as if we have a good time and enjoy each others company -Don't expect sex on the first date. It's not happening
Hattie is right about Red Lobster... the biscuits!
No, but seriously, my expectations are that he's a guy that respects me, values my opinion and goes back and forth on good conversation. I'm down for Subway, to be honest, as long as is good company.
to actually meet and sit down somewhere, eat if i food is involved, talk to get to know each other a bit and to see if there is any point in going further (a second date).
I expect to have a great dinner her Choice at my expense, good conversation and to make sure that she gets home safely.
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and here's the perfect example of how women don't act lady like anymore and only act like a bunch of filthy fucking whores with no morals or manners only decrepit decay of social engineering
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