Would you date a bad girl or a bad boy?

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imthatsteve · Accepted Answer

Everyone has a different definition of bad.

Some may consider me bad for smoking weed and dropping acid while others would consider that kinda tame.

Some would think im good because i can count the girls I've been with on one hand.

Im into the punk look and id like a girl who knows how to have fun but if im going to date them then i need someone reliable and trust worthy.
I won't even say that they need their shit together cuz we can all lose our shit sometimes and it might bring us closer if we work through things together.

I-am-a-nobody · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I really dig chicks who smoke and drink Jack Daniels straight from the bottle.
I'm sure she'd really enjoy me quoting Bible verses to her, like...

Deacons likewise must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain,... 1 Timothy 3:8

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

The bad boy image is alluring to some women but any woman with half a brain knows they are a bad investment for a relationship, and the ones who don’t usually learn it later on (although some women don’t). Many young girls get involved with the bad boys thinking they can change them but end up learning they can’t. The bad boy changes on his own volition and in the rare occasion that he does, he’ll go straight for a new chick who didn’t waist her time trying to change him. Stay away from them ladies

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. The whole bad boy personality doesn't appeal to me at all. Never did.

I don't want to "fix up" or hope he changes his ways. I want a guy that has his life in order, doesn't have a criminal record, and treats me with respect!

AmandaYVR · Answer

I reject these terms.  They distill people down into mere caricatures too much.  I think the only way to discuss it is by going over the specific traits in detail.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

No, I actually try to avoid people like that. They are usually nothing but trouble.

anniisa · Answer

Nope. I was over that phase by the time I was 15

SarahNiemann · Answer

Nah, I guess Hollywood wants us to believe that they are more exciting! But there is nothing reassuring about having an “exciting” partner with whom to raise children! I think kids would prefer a reliable, honest, faithful, “boring” father, over a “bad-boy” dad who’s cheating on mom!

tibit · Answer

Not anymore, its a pain im the ass, they are unpredictable and can also ruin your life. I've dealt with enough people who have had drug and alcohol problems for life. Not that they are bad people but they seriously need help. Also getting held at gun or knife point when they are in a mood isn't fun. There is nothing glamorous about it. Joker and harkey Quinn aren't a wonderful love story. I've lived it and trust me, you don't want it.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’ll pass. I want a good guy whos a good man and gonna be a good husband, father, son, brother, etc. Bad boys are shortlived/fad/trend... they’ll eventually grow out of it when people are tired of puttin up with their shit

Bluemax · Answer

Usually what people call a "bad boy/girl" isn't what *I'd* call a bad boy/girl. My definition of a bad girl would be someone who is cruel to other people (and NOT just me). So no, absolutely not.

Orange_bb · Answer

No. I need a good house man who can be a good that to my kids. I am not wasting my time with useless people

Kaneki05 · Answer

Longs if she's only coming back to my place she can be as bad as she wants longs if she don't cross the one line. She still loyal to me in bed she can shake her ass all she wants. Would it make me jealous probably so, But jealously can be used good in bed i would assume...

TheFartSaver · Answer

No, I managed to skip that phase completely and I'm happy about it.

Jess4U2 · Answer

Yeah when we experience that in the house hold we experience trauma at times where these false beliefs that develope from that can be what determines our destiny either we become the aggressor it victim. By believing that was the way to be and ok. So it's best seek help it advice.

Harris2020 · Answer

not a chance. I dont like that kind of person sorry. I hope your family relations can get better family first family forever!!!

purplepoppy · Answer

No I don't want to spend half my life visiting a husband in jail or taking beatings because the bacon wasn't crispy.

princessde · Answer

Note date but I hooked up with a bad guy and it was so much fun but next time when we met to hookup again, his dick did not get hard ( supposedly he had erectile dysfunction ) coz either he fucked other woman a lot or he missed his girlfriend who shifted abroad

iFarted · Answer

Im too old for a girl in that phase. I get it, young, rebellious and living life, she's just not for me. its good that one experiences it then grows out of it.

Unit1 · Answer

Never. Send these bitches straight to 6ix9ine or Wiz Khalifa so that they can dance there half naked and twerk. I won't turn down a pussy to drill however :)

R3DthatDude · Answer

I’ve been attracted to a woman opposite of what I’m used to before. But she was just a really cool person. She dipped and smoked. Never thought I’d be attracted to anyone that did those things.

slatyb · Answer

If "bad" means anti-social or unhealthy, then no. If it means unconventional, then yes.

MissGeorgia · Answer

I have done. It was probably the best relationship I've ever been in.

humanearth · Answer

I did the bad girl shit when I was young, might do it again if my dies before me. Thats if my dick still works then

SClassWizzard · Answer

Looking at my 1st ex with the amount of daddy issues she had and whatnot, i'd say i've dated a bad girl yeah lol

Paul09 · Answer

People seem to be confused on what the word "bad" means. And no, I would not. I do not need more negativity in life.

NewZion · Answer

Yeah. Bad girls are hot, at least to me. They don't play that "shy shit".

whatchamacallit021 · Answer

They like run around games, but if you want to fuck and that's it. Yea, go for it

RealMonsters1000 · Answer

Eww no.. Never.. I hate them.. And their friend groups. I would never want to be around soulless animals like that.

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe I might consider it if she doesn’t get me in trouble 😊

Porcelaine · Answer

I hate these labels. But no, I wouldn't. Those types are for girls/boys who've had too much media exposure or saw one to many Hollywood movies.

ryancg · Answer

I only ever find myself with bad girls, guess they're just my type and I never go looking for them, it just sort of happens.

Iron_Man · Answer

No because I would not like her personally or like her character and life style. I would just be taking advantage of her beauty for sex and I don't do that so no I would not date a bad girl

Cryptic-Game · Answer

I want a good woman, not an evil woman. Anybody who wants a bad person is insane.

jestergent · Answer

No because want to stay STD free. Bad girls are high risk.

nonratracereality · Answer

there's good and bad in everything. So at times you're bad or good. But constantly bad wouldn't work because you need balance.

KeziL · Answer

No. I might have at some point in my teenage years, but now I just wanna find a good guy to settle down with.

Elliegirl · Answer

I dated a guy who could be considered a “bad boy.” It didn’t end well. He ended up being less a bad boy, just a bad boyfriend.

BoxySama · Answer

I am a bad boy, but not really I am extremely dark, not Evil

Chriscunning · Answer

Yeah I would. They not as serious, more easy going, happier to try new 'kinky' things.

NorthwestRider · Answer

Bad like in murdering people or assaulting people? Or bad in having fun like being super naughty/kinky and doing stuff that the religious prudes think it is immoral like BDSM and going to night clubs?

Sandeep4491 · Answer

When you are bad I am your dad... and I do not date my own daughter 🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

absolutely not again. I've done it and learned that bad people will not change and will only hurt you as long as you care for them.

sensible27 · Answer

Things with no well defined definitions have their meanings up to the users for some part.

Machiavellio · Answer

If the bad girl is a drinker and a smoker that just means she's a mess, a waste of time, lifeless soul.
Bad girl is a confident girl that keeps her body and mind in shape and has no time for negativity.

American_Centurion · Answer

No not really. I always think of that Kesha girl riddled with STDs and fake rape accusations.

BenimKralligim · Answer

Yeah, No one is perfect and I like to try new challenges 🤙🏻

Anonymous · Answer

I love bad girls-they usually are slutty so you get sex early and its often eager. They are no good for long term though (is ANY woman? - jk).

AD240pCharlie · Answer

What the hell does that even mean? You need to clarify what makes someone "bad" before you ask that.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure I have just for easy sex but not for real girlfriend

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. A bad girl is of high price, high maintenance, many complications, and low value. It would be dating down. I can't afford to date down.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

I don't judge anyone until I know them , nobody is bad as we see

AdithyaR · Answer

Absolutely not. A bad girl is not in the slightest compatible with a nerd like me.

DIRKINOFF · Answer

Not a fan of dating. But if I did I would likely date me a bad girl.

michael1469 · Answer

Yes, she was an ex stripper, man that was 6 months of just constant sex... oh the humanity...

LGRock · Answer

Depends. If we're talking the kind that's riddled with STDs, always going to jail, drinking, and smoking then hell no. I only mess with hotties.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on what your understanding of a bag girl/boy is. How would you describe the term?

AcidT0y · Answer

It depends on what you mean by bad girl. Like she smokes and drinks or what?

ShhIWontTell · Answer

Dated a few “bad girls”. Probably been labeled the bad guy. Meh. They were fun but I knew better than to trust them or take them seriously.

OddBeMe · Answer

What would “bad” be exactly? Just smoking and drinking? Harder drugs? Doing crimes?

JosyJosy · Answer

oh bad as in the picture nope no deal

blutwolfe · Answer

Yes because I am that

Desconhecida · Answer

Only for fun

TheTyGuy · Answer

Maybe. If I was attracted to a bad girl I might just have to see.

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