Would you rather go on a date with Bad Guy/Woman or Nice Guy/Woman?

[Apope16]

Which would you rather go on a first date with?

Badass Guy

Badass Woman

Nice Guy

Nice Girl

[ChrisMaster69]

I think the entire thing is very stereotyped (and incredibly shallow).

I have worked guys that are 100% badass, some are members of the same shooting club (long range large calibre),

I would not want to meet any of those on a dark night., however the compassion and caring they show is often humbling, these are guys that have put down people both close up and at range.

Then you have women, my ex was very badass but pretty the perfect nice girl, she dressed pretty but was also a WUMA instructor and fought competitions etc, but various blokes on their arses.

actions not looks show who a badass is (luckily this Apha bollox was not mentioned).

a badass is someone that stands Their ground when the shit hits the fan, how they dress and act is simply a ‘fashion’.

example couple of mates work in the city doing money stuff at weekend they dress bad ass as it fits in with motorbike and car scene. However if any shit comes down they tend to hide behind everyone else.

Me I want a woman that is confident, intelligent, a feisty and great personality, not a follower, do I care if she wears combat boots, ripped jeans and can bench press a car engine, nope, do I care if she wears pretty colours and bows, no. Do I care if she’s there shoulder to shoulder when the shit comes down, damn fucking right.

people need to rethink what defines someone or just be followers and sheep.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

That depends. Is he a genuinely nice guy, or a self-proclaimed Nice Guy?

Genuinely nice guys are who most people attracted to men want to date. They are polite, pleasant to be around, and actually care about others even when it doesn't benefit them. If they are rejected, they continue to be nice because that's who they are.

Self-proclaimed Nice Guys are the guys you see bitching about how they deserve sex or a date with someone they like because they showed them basic decency a few times, and when they are rejected they start treating the person they were interested in like shit. They are only nice when it serves them, which means they aren't genuinely nice

[proNutro]

Are we talking about an actual nice, decent guy? Not one that says he’s nice, acts nice and fake for the ladies but really is just a suck up.
If he was a genuine decent guy, kind hearted, isn’t vulgar, respectful and so on the heck yes I’d rather go on a date with a guy like that. I don’t have time for “bad guys”

[Anonymous]

I got pretty lucky. My husband is right in between. He’s done some bad boy things in his past and sometimes that trait still pops up in him here and there, but at the core he’s a sweetheart. So he’s kind, but not a pushover. The perfect blend, I think.

[2018life]

I'd say I like a good mix, my boyfriend is a perfect description XD

[Apope16]

What bad boy things?

[Opinion Owner]

@apope16 Experimenting with drugs, partying a lot, having a lot of sexual partners, skipping out on classes... those kinds of things when he was younger. These days it’s more the bad boy in the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

It depends, sometimes people who label themselves as "nice" aren't really and they tend to be incels. I would want to go on a date with the genuinely nice guy not the fake one. Also the nice guy has to meet my standards, if you aren't my type you aren't my type end of story.

[SphynxUK]

Can you explain what the differences would be on a first date?
What is a bad guy likely to do? How would he behave?


This is a genuine question.


I don’t see ‘types’. I either get a good or bad vibe about someone once I meet them in the flesh. I tend not to notice or judge a reputation through may or may not have, if that’s what you mean?

[EmbraceThePain]

The nice woman.
The world isn't a movie, so all of that lust and adventure with dealing with "bad boys" or "bad girls" is just bad drama in reality and a waste of time from what I've seen.
Also, I like to think of myself as a fairly simple man.

[DrunkAss]

I relate better to the girls who aren't reputable for being "nice". But in my opinion they are the true nice ones because they speak their minds. That's why they aren't considered "nice". The nice ones keep their thoughts to themselves usually. It is very rare to encounter a real-life saint. So I prefer the ones who are just real.

[DrunkAss]

As a caveat, I'm not choosing among the cream of the crop. We're left in a dichotomy these days of asskissers and snitches, for example, or simps and players. But I've no fondness for asskissers and snitches. I cannot understand their motivation very well. So I like the real ones, the real girls, even if they are kind of a bitch/asshole. At least they're really assholes. And I find a real girl easier to work with than a fake one.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Can the incels/femcels in the commentsection look at poll again before saying that women are into badboys or shit. Why is there no fucking question without mental ill incels or femcels who trashtalk women. Lol i am not sure whether this femcel in her 30s is actually an incel with a pink profile or she is just a fucking attention whore and talk shit to get validation by idiotic guys

[hi_it_is_me123]

It is also kinda weird that women in their 30s+ become femcels/attention whores to get validation by looser guys who would not want this woman due to her age anyway. I have seen this quite often. Some older women in their 30s+ trashtalk women aka hate on women to get attention by loosers but little did they know that these guys ain't date/marry these women anyway due to her age since guys that give her likes are shallow retards who only like pretty young girls. So stop being a pick me girl in your 30s+, you idiot, you only get attention by incels/mgtow incels who would not date you anyway.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Lol what i like about men is that they would call men who trashtalk men for female attention simps but unfortunately women dont do to female simps..

[Apope16]

What happened? Which profile?

[Anonymous]

It's amusing there's more votes for "badass" guy than a "good" guy. And women really do wonder why they end up being used & treated like shit. ROFL. Pathetic & stupid ones that is.

[AzzaBlue]

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Many women in western countries are spoiled dumb overgrown children who refuse to grow up. For these types of women, nice guys make them dryer than the Sahara Desert. When these women get hurt by pump n dump they will go on forums like GAG and ask "where have all the good men gone?" They are absolutely infantile.

[Opinion Owner]

@AzzaBlue Quite true. I'd personally rather settle for a "nice guy" that can be relied on than loser-child-stuck-in-an-adult's-body that is screwing half the town whenever he's not around.

[AzzaBlue]

I used to really hate these types of women, but now I almost pity them. (Almost).

[DancingwithWolves]

@AzzaBlue Why pity them? There's that old saying of "you made your bed, now lie in it". These women get involved with "bad boys", get used & tossed, and end up with bad reputations so they can't get much "better" in a way. They do it themselves.

[Nazgol]

Nice guy but have a bit of badness to them. Dont want one extreme or the other

[Apope16]

Badness how?

[PaynefulPleasures]

I love the bad ass type ✌️
I've dated years ago Mr. Goody 2 shoes, but it doesn't cut for me.

[Unbeatable]

Their good heart is their biggest insecurity

[PaynefulPleasures]

He has a great heart wonder man just no chemistry between us

[PaynefulPleasures]

Sorry typo wonderful man

[Unbeatable]

Bullshit

[CakesNCream]

None. I dont like bad guys because they're fuckboys and nice guys are incels.
If i had to chose between the two I would go for a bad guy but im not settling for that

[CakesNCream]

Choose*

[jackInTack]

Nice guys aren’t incels. That’s plenty of nice guys who get dates. These guys range from attractive to ugly.

Incels have mental health issues that make them unattractive to girls. They call it being “nice guys”. Not the same thing.

Under the same category, these guys suck and finish last but they “think” it’s because their nice. Boring guys, doormats, clingy guys, insecure guys, ugly going out of their league, too feminine (he’s one of the girls), or too shy to make a move. Those guys usually suck. And they blame it on being “nice”.

[CakesNCream]

@jackInTack they can't all be linked to a "Nice guy". It either means decent guys or incels. I'll stick to incels since its incels that use the term the most as an excuse to hate women.

I want the decent guy that gets dates and knows how to respect a woman

[jackInTack]

I’m saying those bad versions aren’t Nice Guys. Real nice guys are the “decent guys” you were talking about.

But if that’s how you want to define it. We agree, we just use different definitions for the same thing. 👌

[putthefootdown]

I love how the most popular so far are nice girl for guys and nice guy for girls. Even though he's not so scary, that particular bad guy. I like nice girls. They are sweeter but not over-bearing or too uhh lovey. So yeah. 😊

[AdithyaR]

None.
The badass ones are too unruly for me.
And "nice" ones generally are just putting up a facade and are actually pretty horrible people.

[Eyering]

I wonder why many girls are into bad guys. What's the psychology behind that?

[Sabretooth]

it's a pandemic.

[Pighttussy]

Shouldn't you be telling us?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

She has just begin her journey lol maybe come back after two years @Eyering please do update after 2years ✌️😂

[Eyering]

@Pighttussy I voted for nice guy so I can't explain

[jackInTack]

Bad boys appeal to her at a primal level. We like to think we use our minds and logic more than our primal processes. Like body language, if someone you knew well tried to shake your hand, but instead put his other arm up by his with a fist that’s pointing at your face, all while keeping a friendly smile, you and every one else would respond like he’s being aggressive. That’s because he’s communicating aggressive on a primal level. You know he’s not going to do anything, but you still respond the way you do.

The bad boy is dominant, leads his own pack, and confident. In the wild, he would be the smart choice.

Guys have the same issue, if a hot crazy girl wanted to get with him for the night, a lot of guys would have problems saying no. It’s because his primal urges to reproduce as much as possible overrides his logic.

Girls could still go for the bad boy, even though she knows it’s a terrible idea, even if she says she prefers the nice guy. The attraction on a primal level overrode her thought process.

[Sabretooth]

@jackInTack a bad boy is just that ''a boy''. it's a mask to cover his crippling insecurities.

[Eyering]

@jackInTack Love your response!

[Leavesbound]

I prefer a nice innocent wholesome girl who is an evil slut in our bedroom.

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t like to date a bad woman that means she probably has a high body count or she probably has a criminal record

[TacosRAwesome]

Badass because one of us needs to come up with adventures.

[Drumlin2001]

For a fling, bad girl, for a relationship a good girl (with a bad streak!)

[Anonymous]

Lol Karen feminists getting no votes hahahaha

Also Ironic how women always say they want someone who is nice and treats them right but have a track record of exclusively dating guys who are not and do not

[Joseph69]

I think beyond the list, when you get to know someone, you want someone nice.

[Equitube]

Bad, nice, or in between. As long as she's got money.

[HaveNoName]

Flawed view. People who go with assholes, dont see them as assholes.

[Joshua0213]

Nice girl, "bad girls" are annoying as hell, dated one in highschool and never again

[SaraSmithishere]

I like how the badass woman is in her 40’s

[Manmore112]

Nice girl who’s been nice just to me and treats me with kindness

[iseekpinetrees]

Not into rapsheets sry.

[Anonymous]

Bad girl but she has to be younger than that woman in your photo

[Anonymous]

Women who look cool and are dominant but with good caring hearts and who loves to help others. women hate me though :(

[bannacookies]

Nice guy, & bad girl.

[FreyaRed]

Bad girls like good guys and I'm a bad girl. lol

[taeh_ie2]

Why not a mix of both?

[Coulis]

Don't sleep on those nice guys.

[karaspara]

Nice guy I’m way through my bad boy stage

[Apope16]

At around 28 women are on to nice guys as looks fade

[jackInTack]

@Apope16

It’s not really that. It’s just the older you get, the easier it is see, comprehend, and logically avoid situations that can give consequences. It’s true, you act more impulsively when you’re young. Mentally and brain wise, you haven’t developed enough yet that you fully comprehend the consequences of your actions until you’re about 24.

Like how it’s hard for young guys to say no to a hot crazy girl offering sex. But a 30 year old would usually say no.

Bad boys appeal to her at a primal level. We like to think we use our minds and logic more than our primal processes. Like body language, if someone you knew well tried to shake your hand, but instead put his other arm up by his with a fist that’s pointing at your face, all while keeping a friendly smile, you and every one else would respond like he’s being aggressive. That’s because he’s communicating aggressive on a primal level. You know he’s not going to do anything, but you still respond the way you do.

The bad boy is dominant, leads his own pack, and confident. In the wild, he would be the smart choice.

Guys have the same issue, if a hot crazy girl wanted to get with him for the night, a lot of guys would have problems saying no. It’s because his primal urges to reproduce as much as possible overrides his logic.

Girls could still go for the bad boy, even though she knows it’s a terrible idea, even if she says she prefers the nice guy. The attraction on a primal level overrode her thought process.

At 28, you’re so mentally developed and mature that you can see and comprehend how that’s going to come out. You have the full out brain power to say “fucking no, that’s going to kick me in the ass later.”

[Ripper_E]

depends on your definition of either

[IveGotNoName]

A smart guy

[IveGotNoName]

Bad guys are lame, and nice guys are usually putting up an act. Same goes for women.

[Unbeatable]

Im bad ass and courteous. Nice is fake

[Unbeatable]

Oh and i dont mind, but probably a bad ass who's also courteous

[lilmonster66]

nice guy with a badass personality.

[Apope16]

Intriguing

[msc545]

Nice girl. I've had enough of the others.

[legalboxers]

I want a normal girl!

[MzAsh]

Nice guy

[loves2learn]

Nice please.

[Anonymous]

Nice looking nice girl

[JEndigoBleue]

Both.

[little_rose]

A nice guy

[Wise4myage]

I like nice girls.

[Sabretooth]

nice but a tom girl.

[Asianguy123]

Good guy/ good girl

[Anonymous]

Nice guy of course

[Anonymous]

Nice woman