I think the entire thing is very stereotyped (and incredibly shallow).
I have worked guys that are 100% badass, some are members of the same shooting club (long range large calibre),
I would not want to meet any of those on a dark night., however the compassion and caring they show is often humbling, these are guys that have put down people both close up and at range.
Then you have women, my ex was very badass but pretty the perfect nice girl, she dressed pretty but was also a WUMA instructor and fought competitions etc, but various blokes on their arses.
actions not looks show who a badass is (luckily this Apha bollox was not mentioned).
a badass is someone that stands Their ground when the shit hits the fan, how they dress and act is simply a ‘fashion’.
example couple of mates work in the city doing money stuff at weekend they dress bad ass as it fits in with motorbike and car scene. However if any shit comes down they tend to hide behind everyone else.
Me I want a woman that is confident, intelligent, a feisty and great personality, not a follower, do I care if she wears combat boots, ripped jeans and can bench press a car engine, nope, do I care if she wears pretty colours and bows, no. Do I care if she’s there shoulder to shoulder when the shit comes down, damn fucking right.
people need to rethink what defines someone or just be followers and sheep.
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That depends. Is he a genuinely nice guy, or a self-proclaimed Nice Guy?
Genuinely nice guys are who most people attracted to men want to date. They are polite, pleasant to be around, and actually care about others even when it doesn't benefit them. If they are rejected, they continue to be nice because that's who they are.
Self-proclaimed Nice Guys are the guys you see bitching about how they deserve sex or a date with someone they like because they showed them basic decency a few times, and when they are rejected they start treating the person they were interested in like shit. They are only nice when it serves them, which means they aren't genuinely nice
Are we talking about an actual nice, decent guy? Not one that says he’s nice, acts nice and fake for the ladies but really is just a suck up.
If he was a genuine decent guy, kind hearted, isn’t vulgar, respectful and so on the heck yes I’d rather go on a date with a guy like that. I don’t have time for “bad guys”
I got pretty lucky. My husband is right in between. He’s done some bad boy things in his past and sometimes that trait still pops up in him here and there, but at the core he’s a sweetheart. So he’s kind, but not a pushover. The perfect blend, I think.
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It depends, sometimes people who label themselves as "nice" aren't really and they tend to be incels. I would want to go on a date with the genuinely nice guy not the fake one. Also the nice guy has to meet my standards, if you aren't my type you aren't my type end of story.
Can you explain what the differences would be on a first date?
What is a bad guy likely to do? How would he behave?
This is a genuine question.
I don’t see ‘types’. I either get a good or bad vibe about someone once I meet them in the flesh. I tend not to notice or judge a reputation through may or may not have, if that’s what you mean?The nice woman.
The world isn't a movie, so all of that lust and adventure with dealing with "bad boys" or "bad girls" is just bad drama in reality and a waste of time from what I've seen.
Also, I like to think of myself as a fairly simple man.I relate better to the girls who aren't reputable for being "nice". But in my opinion they are the true nice ones because they speak their minds. That's why they aren't considered "nice". The nice ones keep their thoughts to themselves usually. It is very rare to encounter a real-life saint. So I prefer the ones who are just real.
Can the incels/femcels in the commentsection look at poll again before saying that women are into badboys or shit. Why is there no fucking question without mental ill incels or femcels who trashtalk women. Lol i am not sure whether this femcel in her 30s is actually an incel with a pink profile or she is just a fucking attention whore and talk shit to get validation by idiotic guys
It's amusing there's more votes for "badass" guy than a "good" guy. And women really do wonder why they end up being used & treated like shit. ROFL. Pathetic & stupid ones that is.
Nice guy but have a bit of badness to them. Dont want one extreme or the other
I love the bad ass type ✌️
I've dated years ago Mr. Goody 2 shoes, but it doesn't cut for me.None. I dont like bad guys because they're fuckboys and nice guys are incels.
If i had to chose between the two I would go for a bad guy but im not settling for thatI love how the most popular so far are nice girl for guys and nice guy for girls. Even though he's not so scary, that particular bad guy. I like nice girls. They are sweeter but not over-bearing or too uhh lovey. So yeah. 😊
None.
The badass ones are too unruly for me.
And "nice" ones generally are just putting up a facade and are actually pretty horrible people.I wonder why many girls are into bad guys. What's the psychology behind that?
I prefer a nice innocent wholesome girl who is an evil slut in our bedroom.
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No I don’t like to date a bad woman that means she probably has a high body count or she probably has a criminal record
Badass because one of us needs to come up with adventures.
For a fling, bad girl, for a relationship a good girl (with a bad streak!)
Lol Karen feminists getting no votes hahahaha
Also Ironic how women always say they want someone who is nice and treats them right but have a track record of exclusively dating guys who are not and do notI think beyond the list, when you get to know someone, you want someone nice.
Bad, nice, or in between. As long as she's got money.
Flawed view. People who go with assholes, dont see them as assholes.
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