Would you leave your boyfriend if he had lost him job during covid and had no money at the moment?

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Challywally · Accepted Answer

Did he file for unemployment? Is he making a plan on what to do next? Looking at jobs or making a plan if he is not comfortable working yet with covid?
I also am unemployed and it came out of nowhere. One day I was an essential worker and the next day they had to let some go due to business slowing. Not anyone's fault. It took me over 3 months to actually receive my unemployment checks though!
Frustrating time for sure!
I think if you truly love him and he is making some sort of action plan, this shouldn't be an issue. Only you can truly know! How is it affecting you? (This is rhetoric) meaning- is he spending all your money or relying on your income? Is he being irresponsible with money? Or does it just bother you he doesn't have money? Is he complaining? Or are you sad he can't support you as much? (I feel like these might sound rude, I have not judgement or rudeness in these and again, rhetorical) I just think getting to the bottom of why this is a problem for you and the relationship will help you decide- which is valid. It is a very unpredictable time! For sure! But I also think if this is a question you are asking.. it may mean the relationship is not as good as it should be to stay in it (but only you can know that!) Best of luck!!❤❤

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Accepted Answer

If he's a hard-working person, and a good friend of mine. I still want him as my mentor and anchor.

If he's lazy, unplanned, spends irresponsibly (like still goes out drinking with friends) and doesn't try to look for a new opportunity, YES.

jimmy2 · Accepted Answer

Well first there no boyfriend, so lets say girlfriend. I would help her even if she broke. Love covers much more

startingfitness · Accepted Answer

Most will say know but you know women have left their husbands over thinhs like this.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

No I wouldn't... But I would encourage, support him in finding other employment... You don't leave someone for something that was not their fault, out of their control... Now.. if can't keep a job because of their own fault,/making or too lazy to want to work, just trying to live off you, well that's different...

AmandaYVR · Answer

No way. I'm glad the tribe has spoken and you can now stop extrapolating from your experience with this one girl. She's dumb and shallow.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

no I would not leave him because he lost his job for that can happen to anyone ! my love for him is worth more to he and I then what his money can do ! his lost job just means that he will have to file for unemployment compensation and not spend his money unwisely and he will have to look for another job ! thanks

Miredda · Answer

Nope, just because i won't let him be the only earning person in our relationship. So even if he falls down, I can be there to back him up and support him until then.

PaganWarrior · Answer

No, because I love him and I'd try to help him in every way I can until he's back on his feet again. I'm hoping my partner would do the same for me.

Anonymous · Answer

No. You don't do that to someone you love. It amazes me that this is even a question tbh.

BlueScorpio · Answer

No, right now is a difficult time for everyone. A lot people are out of work or losing their jobs right now.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No as long as he put in job apps for when everything is back to good

Catlover1999 · Answer

No I don’t think that’s fair since it wouldn’t be his fault.

G3tAClue · Answer

Never. He’s the love of my life and that is worth way more than his bank account.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

No I’d never do that, it’s cold hearted. When the going gets though help each other out to the good times again

Anonymous · Answer

No, of course not. A lot of people have lost their jobs due to covid. If being unable to hold a job becomes a pattern though, then yes, I would leave.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend lost his job over a year ago, been difficult trying to find a new one

Jaded_heart · Answer

NEVER  I'd actually give him some extra love so he doesn't feel down. I got his back.😋

CuteNerd9 · Answer

No! That would be a terrible disgusting thing to do to someone.

yucychan · Answer

No. A lot of people lost their jobs due to the pandemic, it's no fault of theirs.

AzureGirl · Answer

No? I’m with him for him, not his bank account.

silvermoon84 · Answer

I’m single but if I were in a relationship I wouldn’t leave him if he lost his job

elizamichale1 · Answer

No not at all I would support him with all i can

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly? No way. You've gotta be evil to do that. I love my partner, not his wallet and I want to be there for him when he needs help.

nailsandhair · Answer

no because i am not with the person because of monetary reasons

lilbishlilbish · Answer

um if i was dating someone no? id try to help him out or try to make sum money myself

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would not if I had somebody

kylagrae7 · Answer

Definitely not, just as long as his character didn’t change :)

Agape93 · Answer

No. My girl lost her job and I’m still with her

Lilyana15 · Answer

No y'all together you suspossed to stick threw the good times and the bad no matter what if its true

sheikalana · Answer

Of course I wouldn't leave him for that reason.

Iron_Man · Answer

That sounds just wrong totally

BlckGrl · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not!

EyesOfGod · Answer

Fucking gold digger.

Anonymous · Answer

nope

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