True or false: if a guy has never dated by 30, there’s something wrong with him?

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btbc92 · Accepted Answer

That is false. And please don't listen to other's opinions of you. I had to learn to stop with that a few years ago. I never dated either, and I know what I want and that is to be single and alone. As long as you know what you want, you have to take your time and actually enjoy life as it goes. But if you want a relationship, then worry not for one. But build relationships with women once you know what you are seeking in a partner and why. That is far more important than to worry about your singleness. It is not a curse.

Yads_Is_Back · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. There’s a guy I go to med school with who is about to start his residency, and he’s 32. He is open about having never dated yet. He’s popular and very well-liked among women; he’s very attractive and trust me we wish he would give in just a little bit. But he’s very goal-oriented and all he sees rn is getting his career and then worrying about family later. But think about it... He has women on him now, so just imagine how he will have them at his feet when he graduates.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Men need to stop judging themselves based on anything in relation to females, and instead judge themselves based on their purpose.

I bet you will never see a question titled ''True or false: if a guy has never found his purpose by 30, there's something wrong with him?'

All you see are men obsessed with female validation. Yes, that is a part of life, and can be a good thing, but there are much more important factors to worry about.

_SOARER · Accepted Answer

It is true. a normal man desires to be with a woman. He makes it happen. He works and puts himself in a position to be with a woman. It shouldn't take anyone 30 years to date a woman.

I think after 25 it becomes unreasonable. A man should have his own place, job, and passions by then. if he doesn't, there is something wrong with him.

thruholewizard · Answer

By something wrong with him I guess you mean not normal... Yes it is abnormal not to have a single date by the time you are 30. Are you sure what sex you like?
What do you do masterbate a lot? maybe you have low hormones?
Or is there a reason? Get some help, see a professional to see what could be the reason.

cute_short_nerd · Answer

He’s a smart man😕 bro’s before hoes.  Fries 🍟 before guys.

sawno · Answer

Previously yes, but in modern times its hard to compete with older men since we are all picking from the same dating pool now. Its time to start dating though.

Anonymous · Answer

How about this one? If a kid starts fv<k! ng at 8, is something wrong with him/her? Explain to me what normal is. We already know what the laws are, but what is ACTUALLY normal? Who determines that? In ancient times, it was normal to be married by the time you were 8.

Grond21 · Answer

No, this is definitely not true. I'm over 30 and I've never dated. gone on dates, but never been in a relationship. And despite interest from multiple women, I chose not to.
And there's nothing wrong with me

Anonymous · Answer

it would depend on what the reasons were that he didn't date anyone by then , some guys are late bloomers or perhaps he always had a really low paying job but by his 30's he found a better one and suddenly more desirable.

Not_Average · Answer

I would say the chances are strong that something is off with you. Instead of trying to rationalize your situation, I'd suggest that you work on yourself and always strive towards self development.

Bandit74 · Answer

I'd say it's generally but not always true. I don't think it's normal/healthy to get to that age without having dated someone and I say that as someone who is in that same position.

1CentWorth · Answer

wrong? maybe from a ma;le point of view, but if that's just the way he is, then that's just the way he is.

Hermes-Paris · Answer

Seems Odd. I would wonder why a woman was 30 and never dated.

AzureGirl · Answer

No, it just simply means he’s been single. There could be a million reasons why.

BeMuse · Answer

There is something wrong with everyone. People that get together just deal with those flaws.

Anonymous · Answer

yes. it shows that maybe he is too picky and only wants the women that don’t want him. like the ones that are out of his league.

Anonymous · Answer

If being unlucky is "wrong", then yes.  I'm one of them, never had a date, in my late 30s, and very depressed about it.

Twalli · Answer

There are possible reasons. If I wasn't paralyzingly shy, my girlfriend wouldn't be my first.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah because even by that length of time you would definitely have a woman approach you

Cryptic-Game · Answer

False. There could be legitimate reasons why he hasn't.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Guy? No. Girl? Probably.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No; he's just never dated before age 30.

Imuglyandiknowit · Answer

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