What's your opinion on the Black pill?

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I've seen other people who have made posts about it & it's basically in a nutshell, if you don't have the looks, it's game over in the dating field. There's even a site that's dedicated to this stuff.  I'll be honest a part of me wants to believe it's false but another part of me says it's true.

Barbaric · Accepted Answer

It is true. Studies and statistics don't lie. Behaviour is more of an indicator of truth than are people's words.

Whether you become "black pilled" or "red pilled" based on those statistics depends on the way you deal with those results. The difference between the two really is hopelessness vs realism.

I disagree with the black-pilled way. The feeling of hopelessness. Most men aren't hopeless, their biggest enemy and the biggest barrier to their success is themselves. There are usually things they could do to improve themselves and their attractiveness t women. Most often, black-pilled guys are guys looking for an excuse to fail, an excuse not to try to better themselves in any way.

If instead you look at those results and look for ways to use it to your advantage, look for ways to succeed, that's possible.

When you say that women are mainly attracted to 20% of guys, and not attracted to 80%, that 20% sounds like a small number. But it's really 1 in 5, it's not such a tiny number. Try to put yourself in the shoes of a woman. Go anywhere, outside, online, look at the guys you know. How many of them would you, if you were a woman, find attractive? Probably even less than 1 in 5 men.

It's not actually that hard to be the 1 in 5, especially today. The easiest example would be weight. If you live in the West, around 70% of men are overweight. Of the remaining 30%, the majority of those are scrawny, or they're "skinny fat". They're not overweight but they're not in shape either. They have little muscle mass and a bit of a gut. "Dad bods". Most men are lazy. If you go to the gym and lift weights 3x per week, and you don't eat shit all the time, physically you'll be in the 20%.

Most men don't approach women. They're too shy or too afraid to make a move. When they do try to attract a woman they go the "nice guy" approach, pussy-footing around the girl, trying hard to impress her, acting really soft, trying to "friend" their way into her pants, being overly cautious and being afraid to flirt, disagree or say anything that might "rock the boat". All very boring and predictable. If you can approach women confidently and not be such a pussy about it you'll do better than most men.

If you can become one of the 20% and you succeed, why would you care about the 80% of men who don't?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh none of this data is faked, the numbers are real. And of course much of this has been covered up. It is all true though.
As a side note, you can ignore any of the nay-sayer commenters on this question, most are too old to understand how dating works in the modern world.
Now, as to how you want to feel about it, that is another matter. Ironically I hate the term "black pill" because it is usually in reference to nihilism, which is the wrong response here.
I think there are a fair portion of men that, once they figure this out, at least find the right way forward. If something is disadvantageous to you, the next natural question is WHY is it that way? WHO is responsible for this? And once you figure that out you can join the movement to change things and hold people accountable. In the case of the above, there are many factors which contribute to this, but feminism, modernism, liberalism, Marxism, secularism,, and progressivism are all major contributors. The opposition is conservatism, traditionalism, masculinism, and associated movements. Those are the ideologies that you need to align with to advocate for YOUR best interests. And remember, no one else will do it for you. (and for a fun example of how big tech is not on your side, I just discovered that "feminism" is in the auto dictionary for spelling, but "masculinism", which is a word, is not)

jkm1864 · Answer

I think it's a self fulfilling prophecy really and they do it to themselves. I have problems with confidence and depression but I know for a fact that I do have lovable characteristics about Me. The thing is when I was lonely I was in a downward spiral of self hate and I didn't find love till one day I learned to not give a shit about what others thought about Me. I learned to be comfortable in My own skin and when I learned to do that the fun Me came out. After I came to that point then I found love because unlike those good looking guys I wasn't given love on a silver platter I had to earn it by loving myself first and then other people could love Me.

Anonymous · Answer

it’s 100% true
women generally only find a small margin of males attractive while men find the larger majority of women attractive.
our standards are much more broad than women’s are. Women are much pickier and pettier than we are.

And when it comes to preselection women have always used preselection mainly because they don’t want to have to do the footwork of trying to vet out a guy themselves so if other females find a guy good enough then she’s already done the work for her. They assume a guy with female attention must be good or the girls wouldn’t be around him. While if a guy is attractive but women generally avoid him... they will assume it’s for a reason and avoid him as well.

slatyb · Answer

Complete silliness. That would imply that 80% of women never find partners, or that 20% of men have multiple partners. Women choose partners for more than appearance, and there aren't enough of the top 20% to go around, so some women will accept partners who are less physically attractive. My friend, 27, 5-5, and bald, has a girlfriend. I haven't kept in touch, maybe they are married by now.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Ah, so it's not just nihilism, it's insulting, dehumanizing nihilism that says that humans are capable of no cognition deeper than stimulus-response.

Hope is scary, but not that scary. There ain't nothing that scary.

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

So 80% of the women that went on that site or whatever not 80% of the women in the entire world I find that possible because most people will go to a site to spread negativity then they would to spread of positivity just look at the news you see mostly negative things on it instead of positive beings

blutwolfe · Answer

According to statistics like half of people are married in the US, like you can just google it, far cry from only 20% of men being acceptable

Ripper_E · Answer

Women have higher and unrealistic standards when it comes to men. I keep saying this but they don't believe me lol I'm not saying every woman is like that.

JCNEEGAR · Answer

Let's not lie to each other, That's the way how it works. That's true

Don-_-Don · Answer

I think it's the result of too much over thinking in terms of dating.

stuntbrain · Answer

I like pills of all colors

scarlett774 · Answer

I don’t think it’s accurate

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