Women are at their prime in their 20s while men peek in attractiveness around their 40s. For women it's because of her ability to give birth to children. For men, it's because they got their shit together in their 40s compared to when they are in their 20s.
Younger women are fertile and beautiful, older guys have learned how to succeed in life more and the fact that they're old means they've survived this long which today isn't a huge deal but used to be not guaranteed at all.
These encounters aren't the "first rodeo" for the guys. They know more of what they can expect. They more of what they would like. They can appreciate the attributes of a woman with more patience, understanding and appreciation than the younger guys. Thank you , ladies.
My assumption for the reference men here is men usually with health maintained properly gets tougher as they grow. It's like ripening with a good taste (of sex as well) so this attraction. Where as in girls, they look hot as soon as puberty and even they get hot as days goes by but afterwards due to libido or due to life events gets declining
I do not consider older men to be hot. I think men look best in their mid to late-20's and then they just start looking old. I think women generally look their best in their early to late 20's.
Because it's all about fulfilling that biological need to reproduce. A younger woman is more fertile where as a older man has more resources to provide for a family.
It's pretty simple when you just consider what each sex values most in the opposite sex (by their very nature).
For a man, a woman is about passing on his genes via the most healthy mother who is most likely to also provide good genes and be a good mother to his children. Younger women obviously fulfill that need better than older women.
For a woman, a man is about resources to support her and her children, and older men consistently offer a women more and better resources.
Young women are more fertile and older men are more mature, look and act more masculine and charismatic therefore both are sexy for opposite gender. Young men behave like children and they are less masculine, their faces look childish so they appear less manly. Here you have it. This is the explanation
In most cases, Men age better and have a maturity mixed with that child that never leaves his spirit, also a knowledge that younger men do not... WOMEN, more physically mature and quite shapely at younger ages then guys of the same generation. Men are supposed to have a gruff kinda ragged edge to them that we do not posess untill around out 30s. Women for most part are at thair most sexually appealing in mid 20s to 30s for most guys... at least this is just what i have gathered in my time..
I feel like when it comes to younger women... it has to do with looks and “freshness” but when it comes to an older man, it’s all about maturity level.
Brcause the older man is seen as this suave and charismatic older bachelor and of course a beautiful woman is a beautifulwoman, so, together, they give off this sexy fantasy
Well, younger women for me even age 30, she can still get pregnant and have a baby together sure the age difference is 23 years older but she would be hot for me
Generally, women look for height, wealth and the ability of the man to protect them, which is more likely to happen in maturity, while genetically men look for young women as they are still able to get pregnant and supply them a child
most older guys are more knowledgable, are more inclined to settle down where as many younger guys (while not all) are more interested in doing their own things, aren't ready to settle or deal with life's issues
I don't think every woman would agree with that. But there are a lot of women who for many different reasons will date and or marry older men. Often because they like the maturity of the older guy and they happen to just match. Some women are interested in money and power, so they go with men who are even older.
There are so many different reasons that no two situations are the same. So I'm only speaking in broadly general terms. But different people like different things.
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Women are at their prime in their 20s while men peek in attractiveness around their 40s. For women it's because of her ability to give birth to children. For men, it's because they got their shit together in their 40s compared to when they are in their 20s.
This man explains it perfectly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3x9kDtj6dmU
Younger women are fertile and beautiful, older guys have learned how to succeed in life more and the fact that they're old means they've survived this long which today isn't a huge deal but used to be not guaranteed at all.
It varies so many reasons.
For man the main reason one is fertility.
For young females is financial security and secured job or business owner is A for them and to be loved.
I am business owner and single I tend attract females between 25-27.
These encounters aren't the "first rodeo" for the guys.
They know more of what they can expect.
They more of what they would like.
They can appreciate the attributes of a woman with more patience, understanding and appreciation than the younger guys. Thank you , ladies.
My dad was 58 and my mom was 33 when they made me 😂😭
It really depends on the older guy tbh
Many women want the the old suave sophisticated man who also has a rough disciplinary side 😂
My dad was strong, successful, healthy and well known in our neighborhood. So my mom liked him. If he was some old loser she wouldn't have
My assumption for the reference men here is men usually with health maintained properly gets tougher as they grow. It's like ripening with a good taste (of sex as well) so this attraction.
Where as in girls, they look hot as soon as puberty and even they get hot as days goes by but afterwards due to libido or due to life events gets declining
I do not consider older men to be hot. I think men look best in their mid to late-20's and then they just start looking old. I think women generally look their best in their early to late 20's.
well then if that's the case then you're well beyond your best looking years
Thats a bit harsh, don't you think? 🤔
@Guardian45 not really no
@Rob17792 as are you. Shouldn’t you be in, like, a hospice or something at age 42?
Wow you're funny since i'm only 10 years older than you
@Rob17792 That's still a decade dude.
and your point?
Older men are seen to have wealth and power and know what they want
Younger women are seen to have youth and fertility and very easy to manipulate or control
Because it's all about fulfilling that biological need to reproduce. A younger woman is more fertile where as a older man has more resources to provide for a family.
It's pretty simple when you just consider what each sex values most in the opposite sex (by their very nature).
For a man, a woman is about passing on his genes via the most healthy mother who is most likely to also provide good genes and be a good mother to his children. Younger women obviously fulfill that need better than older women.
For a woman, a man is about resources to support her and her children, and older men consistently offer a women more and better resources.
Young women are more fertile and older men are more mature, look and act more masculine and charismatic therefore both are sexy for opposite gender. Young men behave like children and they are less masculine, their faces look childish so they appear less manly. Here you have it. This is the explanation
In most cases, Men age better and have a maturity mixed with that child that never leaves his spirit, also a knowledge that younger men do not... WOMEN, more physically mature and quite shapely at younger ages then guys of the same generation. Men are supposed to have a gruff kinda ragged edge to them that we do not posess untill around out 30s. Women for most part are at thair most sexually appealing in mid 20s to 30s for most guys... at least this is just what i have gathered in my time..
I feel like when it comes to younger women... it has to do with looks and “freshness” but when it comes to an older man, it’s all about maturity level.
Brcause the older man is seen as this suave and charismatic older bachelor and of course a beautiful woman is a beautifulwoman, so, together, they give off this sexy fantasy
Agreed
Well, younger women for me even age 30, she can still get pregnant and have a baby together sure the age difference is 23 years older but she would be hot for me
Generally, women look for height, wealth and the ability of the man to protect them, which is more likely to happen in maturity, while genetically men look for young women as they are still able to get pregnant and supply them a child
most older guys are more knowledgable, are more inclined to settle down where as many younger guys (while not all) are more interested in doing their own things, aren't ready to settle or deal with life's issues
Bc older men are sexy af and so are young women, duh.
Younger women are fertile when young...
Older men are ‘apparently’ stable!
So young woman and old man works! We age differently
I don't think every woman would agree with that. But there are a lot of women who for many different reasons will date and or marry older men. Often because they like the maturity of the older guy and they happen to just match. Some women are interested in money and power, so they go with men who are even older.
There are so many different reasons that no two situations are the same. So I'm only speaking in broadly general terms. But different people like different things.