How can people be so racist even in 2020. I have so many guys refusing to date single moms who have mixed race kid?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Frankly, there is something to be said about "Racial Purity". Every race has a desire for the purity of their genology, it has been a very natural way of preserving ones legacy for thousands of years. Black, White, Hispanic, Russian, whatever - it's actually unnatural to want to blend your legacy with another race unless it was their "Game" that led you to make that decision or you actually want to create a new type of crossbred race.

"Game" can mean many things from the way they act, the way they play, their lifestyle, or even the size of their "hands"... This is most commonly the leading factor to mixed race pregnancies and is usually unplanned, which plays a strong part of the "Decision Making Skills" factor.

Racial crossbreeding has and will continue to happen, and also happens to be the "Plan" of many racially purist cultures, like that of many strict muslims who aim to "breed-out" anyone that isn't muslim by creating a race of crossbred humans that no longer have no racial purity in their legacy. It's a thing - sadly.

It is considered "Natural" only when it is done out of true love for one another and the desire to build a new family legacy.

If you're dating with a mixed baby, frankly that speaks volumes in your decision making abilities and you may want to seek professional guidance in deciding what exactly you want your life & legacy to look like before moving forward, unless you want more blended pebbles in your bag... #CheaperByTheDozen

Cheers!

MannMitAntworten · Accepted Answer

That they “bye” is not just for you benefit, but his. That isn’t the guy you want in your lives. It is better he does this now rather than bullshit enough to where your heart is invest and perhaps your son grows a bit of attachment only for that guy to show his true self as prick.

Again, neither you nor your son need this in your lives. It is a silver lining in the long run.

Juststrollinagain · Accepted Answer

Lmao... I am black and I would be suspicious of a black man with a biracial kid because many of them seem to be immature and self hating -.- I have had them try and show off thier biracial kids to me. I never strayed away from dating a black male who was appropiate first.

lanadelrey25 · Accepted Answer

I love how right after her underwear pic she's like, I also have a little boy :)

Browneye57 · Answer

It has nothing to do with your kid's appearance, and EVERYTHING to do with the simple fact you're already anchored. No reasonable guy is interested in raising someone else's crotch-fruit. And you have no business dating in the first place, your entire purpose is now to raise these children you've bore.

YHL6965 · Answer

A lot of men are not fan of single moms, especially young ones and that's probably the main reason. Having a kid of a different race will just constantly remind the guy that this kid is not his. Most men don't want to deal with the consequences of a failed relationship on your side.

Nach-yo-Man · Answer

He apparently didn't think he had the gear to compete... 😏 sorry, making light of it. People need to feel important. If there not going to put in the work to be better they have to believe they're automatically better then others. Don't be mad, be happy you found out early. Racist is just another shade of narcissist.

Twalli · Answer

I wouldn't care of your kid is mixed race, or even a completely separate race than me. As of now I cannot financially support a child, so. I would turn you down for that. Once I can we would need to make sure you kid likes me before we consider becoming official or exclusive. In my mind, your kid is more important to you than I am until we're married and then it can be a tie at best.

BeMuse · Answer

He bailed at “Oh OK”, but confirmed you weren’t just shoveling bullshit to get rid of him first. It didn’t even have anything to do with the race of the kid.

PixelNight · Answer

It may not even be the race of your child, it may just be that you have children. I find a lot of guys are reluctant to date moms in general.

razzmatazz090 · Answer

When a white girl has a kid that is half black it's a turnoff to me because I assume she was with a black guy because she is obsessed with sex, and only will want rough doggy style sex, without intimacy.

Anonymous · Answer

People don't' necessarily want to raise anyone else's kid, period. Add in a kids that don't look like them and its even harder to get someone to wants to be part of that. Maybe just date black guys. Where is the boy's father? what happened between you two?

BCA6010 · Answer

The vast majority of guys, especially in your age group don't want to deal with someone else's kid, period. It's that simple.

JDavid25 · Answer

They may not be racist, but they just might assume what type of woman you were bein a single mother of a "mixed" child.. I guess in the end they done wanna deal with that one way or another..

scarlett774 · Answer

The guys that do that to you don’t deserve you or your son. by the way your son is adorable !

AaronKrieger · Answer

Could just be the fact you have a kid and that just because it's 2020 doesn't mean racism is extinct.

Muskrat42 · Answer

I wouldn't date a single mom because I love children.

If I become attached to them, and they to me, what happens when she gets an offer online from someone richer or better looking and she drops me on a whim?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I have no problem dating a girl with mixed kids, I have cousins who are mixed race and I love all people the way God wants me to:_)

JCT666 · Answer

Maybe they just don't want to date a woman with kids? Mixed or not. Most single mothers are damaged goods and all men should be wary of dating them.

PiffDust · Answer

Wowww, i'm so sorry dude, that's disappointing to say the least.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

For everyone saying that many people don't want to date someone with a kid and that's why he said "no", then why didn't he say "bye" right after she said she was a mom?

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

At least he said 'bye' and didn't just completely ghost. Silver lining.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Wait. You're sending pics of your kid to strangers online? Why would you do that?

Fuentes · Answer

I think its the KIDS not the moms choice of men and why would u show strangers pics of ur kids anyway lol

_DARKNESS_ · Answer

It’s not about the kids race, or being a single mum. It’s because the guy doesn’t wanna be with a lady that already has a kid.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Are you really surprised that men don't want to date women that make decisions and mistakes that will last a lifetime?

Joeharbor · Answer

Bc he would feel like a pussy when people notice he's playing dad to a kid that isn't his... not really racism, just masculinity

Anonymous · Answer

i dont know why. Personally, i would give a single mom with a mixed child a chance. I dont see the childs race as an issue

zagor · Answer

Be honest - how many guys with a kid at home did you date before you had one of your own?

JimboGB · Answer

"Single mums" of course, you made that about race. You're pathetic

Anonymous · Answer

It’s mostly because you’re a single mother but some guys want the step kids to be the same color, it will be obvious he isn’t the father when you’re together if the guy is white

Anonymous · Answer

Lol XD  that's great. Is that a real conversation?

Anonymous · Answer

White guys don’t want a black step kid. It will never look like a real family and there is just something off putting by it.

asshole_ · Answer

Likely not that they're being racist they likely just don't want to date milfs

Anonymous · Answer

Those kids are MUTTS. Women who date out are undesirable

Anonymous · Answer

This post gives off a Jerry Springer Vibe. You post a Sexually Provocative Picture of yourself and then show a picture of your kid in the next photo.

JosyJosy · Answer

? racists will forever be a thing

Anonymous · Answer

Because they’re racist low lives

chriscdi · Answer

thats green, in a way, you dodged a bullet

joeldalton · Answer

lol,, that’s not racism.

Iron_Man · Answer

Everyone is different

FearlessGoat · Answer

That sucks

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