How can people be so racist even in 2020. I have so many guys refusing to date single moms who have mixed race kid?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Frankly, there is something to be said about "Racial Purity". Every race has a desire for the purity of their genology, it has been a very natural way of preserving ones legacy for thousands of years. Black, White, Hispanic, Russian, whatever - it's actually unnatural to want to blend your legacy with another race unless it was their "Game" that led you to make that decision or you actually want to create a new type of crossbred race.

"Game" can mean many things from the way they act, the way they play, their lifestyle, or even the size of their "hands"... This is most commonly the leading factor to mixed race pregnancies and is usually unplanned, which plays a strong part of the "Decision Making Skills" factor.

Racial crossbreeding has and will continue to happen, and also happens to be the "Plan" of many racially purist cultures, like that of many strict muslims who aim to "breed-out" anyone that isn't muslim by creating a race of crossbred humans that no longer have no racial purity in their legacy. It's a thing - sadly.

It is considered "Natural" only when it is done out of true love for one another and the desire to build a new family legacy.

If you're dating with a mixed baby, frankly that speaks volumes in your decision making abilities and you may want to seek professional guidance in deciding what exactly you want your life & legacy to look like before moving forward, unless you want more blended pebbles in your bag... #CheaperByTheDozen

Cheers!

[MannMitAntworten]

That they “bye” is not just for you benefit, but his. That isn’t the guy you want in your lives. It is better he does this now rather than bullshit enough to where your heart is invest and perhaps your son grows a bit of attachment only for that guy to show his true self as prick.


Again, neither you nor your son need this in your lives. It is a silver lining in the long run.

[Juststrollinagain]

Lmao... I am black and I would be suspicious of a black man with a biracial kid because many of them seem to be immature and self hating -.- I have had them try and show off thier biracial kids to me. I never strayed away from dating a black male who was appropiate first.

[lanadelrey25]

I love how right after her underwear pic she's like, I also have a little boy :)

[Browneye57]

It has nothing to do with your kid's appearance, and EVERYTHING to do with the simple fact you're already anchored. No reasonable guy is interested in raising someone else's crotch-fruit. And you have no business dating in the first place, your entire purpose is now to raise these children you've bore.

[YHL6965]

A lot of men are not fan of single moms, especially young ones and that's probably the main reason. Having a kid of a different race will just constantly remind the guy that this kid is not his. Most men don't want to deal with the consequences of a failed relationship on your side.

[Nach-yo-Man]

He apparently didn't think he had the gear to compete... 😏 sorry, making light of it. People need to feel important. If there not going to put in the work to be better they have to believe they're automatically better then others. Don't be mad, be happy you found out early. Racist is just another shade of narcissist.

[Twalli]

I wouldn't care of your kid is mixed race, or even a completely separate race than me. As of now I cannot financially support a child, so. I would turn you down for that. Once I can we would need to make sure you kid likes me before we consider becoming official or exclusive. In my mind, your kid is more important to you than I am until we're married and then it can be a tie at best.

[BeMuse]

He bailed at “Oh OK”, but confirmed you weren’t just shoveling bullshit to get rid of him first. It didn’t even have anything to do with the race of the kid.

[PixelNight]

It may not even be the race of your child, it may just be that you have children. I find a lot of guys are reluctant to date moms in general.

[razzmatazz090]

When a white girl has a kid that is half black it's a turnoff to me because I assume she was with a black guy because she is obsessed with sex, and only will want rough doggy style sex, without intimacy.

[Anonymous]

People don't' necessarily want to raise anyone else's kid, period. Add in a kids that don't look like them and its even harder to get someone to wants to be part of that. Maybe just date black guys. Where is the boy's father? what happened between you two?

[BCA6010]

The vast majority of guys, especially in your age group don't want to deal with someone else's kid, period. It's that simple.

[JDavid25]

They may not be racist, but they just might assume what type of woman you were bein a single mother of a "mixed" child.. I guess in the end they done wanna deal with that one way or another..

[scarlett774]

The guys that do that to you don’t deserve you or your son. by the way your son is adorable !

[AaronKrieger]

Could just be the fact you have a kid and that just because it's 2020 doesn't mean racism is extinct.

[Muskrat42]

I wouldn't date a single mom because I love children.

If I become attached to them, and they to me, what happens when she gets an offer online from someone richer or better looking and she drops me on a whim?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I have no problem dating a girl with mixed kids, I have cousins who are mixed race and I love all people the way God wants me to:_)

[Clor4]

i dont know why. Personally, i would give a single mom with a mixed child a chance. I dont see the childs race as an issue

[JCT666]

Maybe they just don't want to date a woman with kids? Mixed or not. Most single mothers are damaged goods and all men should be wary of dating them.

[PiffDust]

Wowww, i'm so sorry dude, that's disappointing to say the least.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

At least he said 'bye' and didn't just completely ghost. Silver lining.

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

For everyone saying that many people don't want to date someone with a kid and that's why he said "no", then why didn't he say "bye" right after she said she was a mom?

[Drumlin2001]

Wait. You're sending pics of your kid to strangers online? Why would you do that?