When you are in a relationship, why do some guys think it’s ok for them to look like a slob when you visit their house by wearing sweat pants, messy look, etc.? (Page 2)

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When they normally make an effort to look presentable and they think just cos you are at home not in public they don’t have to make an effort with their appearance anymore.  I think it’s a sign of respect for me if they can at least make a bit of effort with their appearance like I do for them. Just simple things like wear clothes that don’t have holes in them and need to be thrown out, shower, brush hair etc...  I find it a turn off to see them not taking care of them self. I would’ve thought a guy would want their girl to be turned on by them? Fair enough if that’s just how they are... but why be fake in the beginning trying to look nice if that’s not what they normally do?

bluetoblack99 · Answer

Probably how he always is. As long as he doesn’t act that way in public you shouldn’t be concerned.

sheikalana · Answer

I think it's because they just feel comfortable enough around you to look and act like that.

Yep12345678 · Answer

How is it fake? How you dress in your own home is separate from how you look when you go out. Women do the same thing. Get over yourself.

themythos · Answer

im at home, im getting comfortable. Ill clean myself up (shave, shower, clean clothes) but im not trying to impress anyone.

mjgallager · Answer

If you can't be comfortable around a person they aren't worth your time, let alone your life.

Anonymous · Answer

They got the girl now. Why try putting up appearances? ... Besides, you can't say you decide to get all ready and gussied up only to sit on the couch all day lol.

Jltakk · Answer

meh, a girl I liked always dressed in pajamas and looked a bit sloppy at home, didn't change how I felt about her.

Ragnarook · Answer

You are totally right. Maybe some guys don't get it that they do things for themselves and it should just be natural to have some respect for the other person and for themselves.

OddBeMe · Answer

It’s passive aggressive. We don’t like to be handled.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Hey you are at place our comfort zone. You dont like it leave.

Anonymous · Answer

Because if there not fake in the beginning then the women leave. Women will still stay around if you don't dress your best later on if they like you enough.

becreative321456987 · Answer

My opinion? Cuz it’s his house. Get over it or leave

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like the same complaint almost every husband has about his wife.

mrgspoter · Answer

Oh there is no worrys there boxers is all I useualy wear unless it's really cold

Tslav_ · Answer

We don’t care bout your standards you fucking Nazi

Juxtapose · Answer

Geez, you sound like you're fun at parties.

Agape93 · Answer

They get complacent and forget we can replace them

Unit1 · Answer

Who's there to see us like that if we live alone?

jahaims · Answer

Because it is. It is their house.

es20490446e · Answer

Chose people that you already like.

RingOfFire · Answer

Because they supply the cash.

michael1469 · Answer

... and ya sont think woman do that shit too?

Anonymous · Answer

You sounds like a real peach. lol

Kdude010 · Answer

Smh women always having something to b*tch about

Dougzy · Answer

not me

Anonymous · Answer

You're so shallow

Anonymous · Answer

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When you are in a relationship, why do some guys think it’s ok for them to look like a slob when you visit their house by wearing sweat pants, messy look, etc.? (Page 2)

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