Guys who act like doormats?

[readthis87]

Girls, what is it that guys do that you consider them your or a doormat. Be specific in your answers.

[McQueen]

Any guys who are/were doormats, I do not feel sorry for you and I actually laugh at your stupidity!

I knew a guy once in college who fell for a bimbo who resembled a bigger version of Kim Kardashian. He would never shut up about her and would often change the subject repeatedly to her. When I met her, she was the complete opposite of the description he blabbed about. She was an empty vessel, looks were everything, she friend zoned him, was with an a**hole boyfriend, never seen her without makeup, got the friend zonee to do her homework, spoke about her problems, extremely shallow etc. If that wasn't bad, the friend zonee's friends (me eXcluded) became her "followers". Because I wasn't worshipping her like a goddess, she immediately thought I hated her. I said to her I simply didn't find her interesting at all and that gave her a reality check - yet it didn't change anything.

Definition of a doormat:

*Friend zoned

*Persistant on gaining a relationship

*Manipulative (don't deny this!)

*Slave or GIMP

*Low self-esteem

*Douchebag in disguise

*Nice Guy TM

I'm not being dramatic here, but the guy I was talking about sounded like a kidnapper. He said he was going to make her fall in love with him and tried to dismiss this as a joke. HE REALLY WAS DISGUSTING!

[Anonymous]

Guys who are doormats usually come in handy for girls much later which I will explain. Girl's initially prefer guys who are a**holes who treat them like crap. But then the girl gets knocked up with his child it's time to make the doormat guy own up to badboy's responsibilities. Take the Maury Povich show for example where she runs out a cheats several times, gets preggers by badboy's who in the end proves he's just the a**hole she picked, yet he wants nothing to do with her and she wants nothing to do with him. Then the idiot doormat guy stands up and OH I"LL raise this child! The audience goes wild while he's showing the world how all men should be suckers and idiots and live happy ever after with a cheater raising her child. I've done my share and I was available in the day when those girls were running with badboy ignoring my existence, but I'm done with being a doormat for chicks who rejected me in the past who've now suddenly discovered I actually exist. Yeah I do but like I was to them then they don't anymore.

[jessjessxoxo]

Girls don't treat guys that they generally like as doormats. If a girl treats you like a doormat, chances are she's just not into you, and is dating you so she can have her own personal slave. I have seen my 'friends' do it to guys that are interested in them, and basically leading them on. It's a one- sided relationship. If she's constantly treating you like a doormat, dump her and find someone worth your time :)

[SignificantOtter]

Guys who become "doormats" are generally those who also land in the friend zone a lot. These are typically dudes who don't man up and go after what they want. They're people pleasers, worried about not rocking the boat and are generally very supplicative to other people hoping that by acting this way, other people will like them.