Why do guys behave this way?

Anonymous
I will explain the backstory behind this one particular guy. I met him through friends of mine that i have known since childhood back in 2019. Me and him hooked up a few times in the past. Then i got into a 5 year on/off relationship with someone else. This guy (previous) began to hit me up out of the blue last year, asking me how i was, etc. I was nonchalant with him, but he kept being insistent on a hangout and smoke sesh. So i gave in but made it clear i do not want to hook up and i want to catch up as friends. We hangout, whole time this fkr is all over me. I kept saying to stop, that i came to just converse and hangout. Kept being persistent. I did not hook up with him. After that night, i began ghosting him and he would continuously hit me up. I would be very dry, reject him, and not show interest and he would give me attitude. This was all a year ago. He ended up blocking me but occasionally he will unblock me and hit me up. Recently, he added me on snapchat, i ONLY added him to see wtf he wanted. For the past 2 days he has been asking me to “smoke and hang” i have told him straight up that i gave him the chance last year and he ruined it by trying to coerce me into hooking up and he said “nah” then proceeded to ask me again “so no?” And i ended it by saying “no bro i told you several times no” and he blocked me. Why does he not understand?
Why do guys behave this way?
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