Personally I'm the same. I don't really know why I used to dislike holding hands while walking, it has nothing to do with being embarassed. I just felt like it made us a target of some sort, maybe I'm just paranoid. I'll hold hands in public, but it's just kinda annoying if we're trying to walk.
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My wife and I seldom hold hands in public, and then usually just to stead the other as they move around (we ARE almost 70). We've never seen it as a source of embarrassment, rejection or anything else. If this is the worst thing that happens in your relationship, you will be very blessed.
If that is all you have to worry about in your relationship then you have it good
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There is nothing wrong in holding hands, actually if i had a girlfriend or wife, i'd always love to hold her because it makes me feel always close to her and makes me feel that she is mine all the time, also her little soft hand will give me a nice feeling 😊
People are just different, all i know is that someone should never be embarrased from the one that he or she loves...I was the same with my ex I felt embarrassed etc holding her hand in front people and in public , it upset her she walked off her nan spoke to me gave me words of wisdom and I apologised and I asked for a hug, I promised her ill try harder in future and fron that moment on I loved holding hands till we broke up , my advice is just talk to him give him words of wisdom
I think if you're proud of your girlfriend, you will hold her hand. Maybe it's just me, but such public displays of affection come with having a partner. I'd be offended too if my girl didn't want to hold my hand in public
You are considering breaking up over this? Damn that's fucked up.
Compromise. Let him know on a date you would appreciate it if holds hands while strolling.
Oh my, you're one of those. A GIANT PITA. Knock it off or you'll get dumped.
What's the point of walking around in public holding hands?
You've been dating him for three years and you are just finding this out now? What have you been doing in the interim?
Can you walk arm in arm?
Maybe try something else that he is okay with.
Oh darn.
talk to him about it
well that just sucks
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