I have a crush on a 19 year old boy. Is that bad? Lol?

[babygigi]

[simonqq]

You can have crushes on anyone but it should stay that way. It's completely fine fantasizing about anyone you want but in reality it's not always a good idea. Someone that is 19 is very different compared to those your age and I reckon anything sexual which 19 year-olds are interested in isn't legal in majority of countries with a 13 year old.

However it's nothing bad having a fantasy or finding them attractive or crushing on them but further than that is a bit problematic.

[nawtee_me]

I am not sure for your age. However if you extend it out five years when you are 18 he will be 24. Now it doesn't sound so bad does it? It is a meter of perspective, except that you are only 13. He could go to jail if you two were to do anything. That you wouldn't want that and he probably wouldn't either. Best thing is to be friends and wait until you are older and see what happens then.

[SimpleRhubarb]

It’s not bad. You’re growing up and looking for grown-ups.
What would be very, very bad is if you pursued him and dated him. He would be a bad guy for that—a pedophile.
Daydream, but don’t get your hopes up.

[scarlett774]

It’s ok to have a crush just don’t act on it because that could get both of you into serious trouble.

[Mikelaughs]

cutIt's cute, and quite normal for you to have a crush like that !
However, might get very complicated if you were to be involved with him.
How do you know this guy?
Follow me if you want to talk about it

[babygigi]

I don't know

[Mikelaughs]

What dont you know?

[Giggltr0n]

Have a crush on whoever you want but you need to realise that him being older than you and an adult, then he is most likely going to be sexually active and if this "crush" ever gets pursued then that's something he is gonna want to do and you have to be aware of where your boundaries are and what you can morally justify.

[Marcuslrh]

Its normal just dont get your hopes up for it to be anything more than that because that's just not realistic and even if anything did happen he would be going to jail for getting with a minor I would hope

[BreadNbutter]

That’s fine but you do understand it’ll be statutory if he and you act on this crush. Don’t pursue him what so ever.

[DavidFox]

Good advice

[DavidFox]

You remember crushes at that age. lol they took over our lives

[BreadNbutter]

@DavidFox lol right? Entirely.

[DavidFox]

That being said, crushes still seem to distract. Does it get easier?

[BreadNbutter]

@DavidFox oh I don't know, I have a hard time crushing on people these days. Wish I could feel that again but for now lol I’ll read.

[DavidFox]

Oh really? Yikes you mean crushes go away.. oye. Do you mean read about romance?

[abhi_97]

Yes it is, you should be doing your homework and getting stars on your cheeks.

[babygigi]

You could do my homework for me

[abhi_97]

Are you incompetent?

[CubanLove]

Its normal but date around your age for now. He’s technically still a “teen”

[honeybunSs]

Of course. As long as you don't act on it it's okay.

[honeybunSs]

*of course not

[JoyGirl]

No, but he can’t be with you, because you are 13. Sorry, love. 💜

[MarkyMark77]

nah its pretty normal and cute haha. do u usually like older guys?

[babygigi]

I don't know

[MarkyMark77]

@babygigi well dont worry its normal. can u tell me how i look too? ill send u a pic. is that really u in profile pic?

[babygigi]

Okay

[MarkyMark77]

@babygigi you have to follow back so i can send u a photo. can u do that?

[mich15smith]

just don't go for it. do your homework or something

[allaboutyou2]

Having a crush on an older boy is natural, you just need to wait a few years before doing anything more than just crushing.

[Anonymous]

Yes you're only 13; you need to avoid older guys like him. They will use and abuse you if given the opportunity.

[Anonymous]

At 13 I had crushes on all my male teachers in their 20s and 30s so... normal

[jasco]

Well he won't be able to date you due to your age but uh yea sorry fam

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it's bad. Well, I mean, it's okay for you to have the crush. Just don't act on it.

[dudeinohio]

A simple crush is okay... just don't act on it.. you are far too young.

[AkshiJanjua]

no its normal but dont fall prey to older guy's manipulation

[flashgrandad]

Not bad, but just keep it as a crush until you are older please.

[Iron_Man]

Crush on your school work

[DavidFox]

Where did you meet him?

[babygigi]

My brothers friend

[DavidFox]

Sounds like in that case you will get to hang out and spend time with him anyway. Have fun and you don’t have to attach romantic feelings to him to get to know him.

[babygigi]

What good is it if there are no romantic feelings? Lol

[DavidFox]

So like you don’t kiss or do anything physical but you can still do activities with a group of people, still have conversations and share life. If he’s a good guy he will become a good friend for you.

[DavidFox]

Tbh at 13 I probably hasn’t even kissed anyone, romance wasn’t a priority back then.