Crush on a 17-year-old boy and I'm only 13?

[35230]

Hi I have a crush on a 17-year-old boy from camp and I'm only 13 I only saw him for that week and I don't know his email or phone number what should I do

[tatianamay]

Don't pursue him.

You're just 13, that is way too young for a 17 year old. In teenagers, even a year or two can be a bit too much. I don't think he'd be interested in you because of the age-gap. Don't do anything, your crush will slowly fade away. I remember when I was around 12, and I had a massive crush on my brother's friend who was 17. Of course I did not do anything about it. Crushes and attraction are totally normal, everyone has them, but *sometimes*, you should just not act on them. If you develop a crush on a 13 year old or a 14 year old, that is fine, but a 17 year old? Nah.

[RK42018]

Why should age rule your decisions that much? I've had great relationships with all different ages you're telling her its fine to go hook up with someone her own age stay away from older guys they're no good but if she wants older guys and she is mature enough to click with him then why does a number matter most likely the crush will fade even if she gets him but that is the same thing that will happen with a boy her age most likely so why not let her have what ever age she desires maybe she'll be treated better then some little boy playing with her emotions

[cinnamonwaves]

Absolutely nothing!
He's too old for you
Focus on your school and enjoy being a teenager and forget about boys for now
You'll have plenty of time to date, when you're older

[DonRollins]

You can try to track him down and see if he is interested just be aware he could rush you into sex or if you want to have sex you'll have to be careful don't end up pregnant and ruin your life.

It's also possible you just date and kiss and cuddle or whatever nothing too serious that's all I really did til i was 17. I still say wait until your 16-20 at least to date but I understand that is not reality just hope you can understand what are possibilities are. Best of luck with your future teenhood

[Anonymous]

This same thing literally happened to me. We didn’t share emails so I had to go through people that were at her camp that knew her. I finally got her email after a week and finally got a reply a week after that and she actually was interested in me. We officially “dated” long distance for 2 months and it was the most miserable relationship not because of her but because of the circumstances and never getting to see her. The breakup was even worse because I had to call her and tell her over the phone.

[Anonymous]

You could try searching the school he went to on facebook maybe you'll get lucky but please i gotta ask what makes you so drawn to him like is it because he is older and the thought of it bring wrong or taboo excites you? Or is it just because everyone says its wrong or is it you're really just horny from teen hormones and want someone experienced for your first time im really curious with this one

[35230]

I have a crush on him because he's cute, handsome and sexy

[Opinion Owner]

What if you find him and he wants only sex not a relationship would that be ok with you?

[Jamie05rhs]

This happens a lot.
I'm afraid there's nothing you can do, unfortunately.
I still think about a girl I met at camp when I was 13 (although we were the same age.). But she's long gone and I'll never see her again, and I just have to accept that.

[MarkyMark77]

@Asker do you think he knows you like him? can u follow me and i can give u some advice?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Just enjoy the memory of him now.

If you are destined to meet you shall at right time and right place or at wrong time and wrong place life is funny like that 😉

[MTC29]

You're a little girl, and he's old enough to know better (or go to prison).

Leave him alone.

[SafiyaHearts]

Try to wait it out a little bit. Sometimes it takes some time. Maybe try to wave to him.

[EnglishEuropean]

Ships that pass in the night. At a safe distance, naturally. Nobody wants a maritime collision.

[Birdlegs]

Nothing do absolutely nothing

[Avicenna]

You're way too young for him

[Anonymous]

if you can't find him not much you can do

[Anonymous]

Hmm 🧐🧐