Is it wrong I’m 22 and have a crush on a15 year old boy who was my best friend when I was younger?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

Not really. But it's not appropriate because you are an adult and he is still just a kid. It is natural to find somebody attractive at any age. But at the same time, depending on the region of the attraction, it is not why to be crushing on somebody that is off-limits. So I highly suggest that you let that go. And find somebody else if you desire to have a relationship. He is way too young.

[Elliegirl]

Yeah, girl. It’s kinda wrong. Like, since he was your best friend when you were little it’s understandable where the crush might come from, but you can’t do anything with him. He’s underage. At the same time, sometimes a crush is just a crush. If you wanna like him and think he’s cute from a distance, you can crush on him, I suppose. Just don’t act on it!

[centerline]

acting on it can get you in serious trouble... not to mention he is so immature at 15 that it woldnt work for very long with you...
its best to hold onto the fantasy if you wish, but find someone else to have some fun with until the kid gets a couple years older...

[Rocco7070]

No, not at all, just be honest with him and yourself, beware however, dont get into trouble if your playing, otherwise, its fine, never know how much wisdom some 15 yr olds have and how much a boy that age could value your friendship

[Rocco7070]

If you continue by just reading on down, almost every comment insinuates you lookin to get intimate, you never said that. Also, if you are, you'll get to train him , but do be careful.

[Kaneki05]

Yup that's wrong. Wait a couple years if your gonna do anything. Well 1 year if you lived here.
Then it goes from been wrong to just kinda i wish i was him moment.

[_SOARER]

You shouldn't act on the feeling
He is too young to have any sort of intimate relationship.

The feeling, especially because he is your best friend is not to abnormal. Maybe when he grows older you can try and see if he feels the same way.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Why do you care what anyone thinks? If you like him, you like him. Just do what you want, trust your instincts and do what feels right. The only thing to worry about is the law but it doesn't stop you from having feelings.

[TheLittleInnocent]

Long as you don't act on it- you can get arrested. How were y'all best friends?

[JustinTheGreat]

Yeah that’s weird
how were you guys even best friends? We’re you 12 best friends with a 5 year old? 15 best friends with an 8 year old? 18 best friends with an 11 year old?
like what...

[scarlett774]

Yes he is a 15 year old Minor and you are a 22 year old woman, that’s very peculiar, don’t act on anything because that would make you a pedophile.

[In_Trance]

It's not inherently wrong however if you worry about the opinions of others (which you do since you asked this question), it's not going to be the most popular opinion

[Arjunaguy]

That's an illegal relationship you will be in jail if you do anything to him

[charlesG]

She better what she really should be charged with contributing to delinquency of a minor. She better watch herself.

[Liam_Hayden]

You can't help a crush. What you can do is not act upon it until he is at least of legal age where you live.

[Anonymous]

Yes. If you did anything, would legally make you a pedophile.

[scott04sa22]

My ex biggest crush 21F met her 17M year old husband. Just don't do anything sexual.

[Dchrls78104]

In my country you could be arrested as a paedophile.

[Guardian45]

Certainly not for him. But YOU could go to prison for that!

[Anonymous]

i dont think so
just can't legally do anything sexual for a couple years

[Anonymous]

Generally when a woman wants a younger guy it's because it's a control thing with them.

[lordcooler]

yes he is consider a minor and that makes you a pedophile. change your ways pedo.

[glowtimelow]

That’s kinda concerning...

[JosyJosy]

Bit odd, just don't get sexual

[Ripper_E]

No, just don't act on it.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

What age were you when he was your best friend?

[Asker]

14 years old

[SuccessfulHornDog]

and he was seven? why was such a younger person your best friend? I'm a little curious what you bonded over.

[Asker]

I can pm you if you’d like me to explain more into detail but we shared emotional, passionate, yet exciting bond based off the attribute of trust and we connected because of that even being kids I felt like we both understood each other well. It came so naturally even tho many people would find this strange they wouldn’t understand unless they were in our shoes

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You should wait until he is older for both of your sakes

[Wise4myage]

Odd, but not wrong unless you act on it.

[ILoveAnime]

Yeah. He's a child

[F1nski]

<very wrong>

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's wrong