Girls, Why do girls unmatch so easily on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

Literally have girls unmatch with me if I say ANYTHING that isn't perfect prince charming. How can women be so picky? Nobody is perfect!!

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by ”anything that isn’t perfect peince charming”? Examples?

[Asker]

Like I told one girl that I was supposed to try a date and she unmatched me. Another we had a date planned that we spoke about and she told me we didn't. Then I sent her a screenshot of our conversation and she unmatched me. Another I asked if we could go on a double date with my brother and one of her friends maybe and she unmatched me. Another kept making excuses for 4 weeks!!! Then when she was supposed to come she sent me a text that was one of her "friends" saying chicks before dicks!! She isn't going! I had another that said to visit her and then backtracked. Another that I told her my brother and I crashed and she said,"Not my problem!" And stopped messaging me. The list goes on and on and on it's fucking ridiculous

[Opinion Owner]

These women aren’t looking for anything. They never had the intention to meet up with you in the first place. They’re using the dating app to just pass time, for validation and maybe if the planets are aligned right and they happen to find the ”perfect” super good looking guy they would consider meeting up with him, but generally no. They don’t actually want to go on a date with you.

[Asker]

Why would girls waste their time then? You have no idea I have like another 20 stories. So many have said YES to a date. Then the stupidest reason to not do it. I had one tell me I was slut shaming my ex when I told her she cheated on me! The audacity of these sluts!

[Opinion Owner]

Because like I said, something to do when they’re bored.

[Asker]

Do you know people personally that do this? That will download an app, sit at home all day. Message a guy and lead them on for days, weeks, or months and never even give so much as a date? That is some sadistic shit

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I do know about people who’ve done and do this. A few of them downloaded the app when they felt lonely and decided they wanted to meet someone. So they started chatting to people and said yes to dates but after saying yes and it got more real they realized they weren’t actually interested in the person like that and didn’t want to meet anymore. But yeah many of them were just on there for fun when they were bored and for example used tinder as a game to see who’d they match with, collect ”hot guys/girls” in their matches and compare to friends matches, to see what kind of messages they’d get and stuff like that.

[Asker]

Wow.. that is absolutely incredible to hear the truth after all this time. I have a mixture of sadness, depression, and sorrow at the moment. I feel like my feelings have been majorly played with. I accepted dates from most of the girls that I consider less than ideal as well trying to be opened and this is how I'm repayed. Thank you so much for your input