Am I a hyoocrite if I only date white women, but I hate black women dating white men?

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I'm black and I have a white girlfriend, most of my exes have been white too. I dated a black girl once and I never will again.

The reason why I prefer white women is that to me they are more feminine and don't have that attitude that many (not all) black girls mask it as 'strong, independent black woman."

Anyway, I've noticed recently that many more black girls are dating white guys and I have witnessed a lot more of these couples in recent years. Honestly, it actually bothers me. Even though, I would never date a black girl again but I can't help but have this feel of disgust whenever I see them. My girlfriend who doesn't date white men feels the same too.

It's like, what did black guys do to you? It's one thing for a black girl to date a man of another race, but white guys? It's like black girls have forgotten the dark history of white men and their atrocious enslavement and abuse towards black women.

It sickens me. Even my white girlfriend thinks all this is weird.

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Mistyped question title before anyone points that out...

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Christ, the amount of emotional butthurt from an honest question is just shocking.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Funny how racist minorities can be while proclaiming to be the victims of racism. Have whites forgotten their dark history with Africans raiding their coastlines and enslaving them for thousands of years before the america's were even discovered let alone became nations? The answer is yes and so have you. Instead of being racist maybe you could try being you know, not racist.

As for what black men did to black women, well, refuse to date them then tell them that other people can't date them either. Abandon them and their children and refuse to marry them (74% of black children are born out of wedlock, over 60% will be raised without a father), cheat on them (70% cheating rate within the black community when the average for every one else is 15-20%), and generally treat them like shit. So that might be why.

Or it could be that white men just treat them better which would explain, why the most stable marriage with the lowest divorce rates are between white men and black women (and the worst with the highest divorce rates are between white women and black men).

What the real issue is, is that your insecure. You rejected them and then they go off and are happy without you and that makes you angry because clearly you were not needed. Your afraid that white men might be better then you, more desirable then you (statistically accurate), make for a better partner then you (again, statistically accuate) and your afraid that these black women will realize that, realize that they can do better then you. Your white girlfriend is a regressive so she thinks its weird because she is self hating and racist not unlike yourself.

So yes your a hypocrite, your a bigot, and your a racist on top of being inadequate as a man (not because your black, its your personality).

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's hypocritical AF. And this is coming from a black dude who likes white women more and grew up with an abusive mother. I agree with your points about white women, at least, and can see where you're coming from with black women (no one wants a ghetto chick, and most ghetto chicks  happen  to be black), but to get upset at black women with white men? It's like you just want black women to be alone and suffer. I myself may not shun all black women like you do, but to deny them being with white men, or anyone at all, makes  you  sound like the prick. What's worse is, if you're a BLM black dude getting mad at black women, which it sounds like you are with that whole / "dark history of white men" sh*t. You sound like an A-hole, to be honest with you. A whiny, self-victimizing BLM a-hole, which is even worse.

Hangry22 · Accepted Answer

Damn make sure you teach your daughter this sick mentality. What if she goes and date white guys? Then both of you will die in disgust thinking how weird it is. But then both of you will be looking your own daughter with disgust if she turns out black/brown. Make sure to grow her as very dependent that she doesn't have a mind of her own

ct1243 · Accepted Answer

It seems you’re only dating your girlfriend because she’s white. You hate black women you just said it. This is why I don’t date black men because they have self hate issues. I only date outside my race because of my experiences with black men.

Sand72 · Answer

If you ask me that how racist starts! I see no issue at all, everyone is independent and should choose who ever they would like no matter what color the skin is! You bring up ancestors and that’s about the poorest excuse a person can use! I had nothing to do with any of that so why raise an eyebrow on me! If anything my ancestors fought for the freedom of slaves, many dues because of it! In your eyes because I’m white you blame me because of the in human of what people have done in the past! We all need to think differently im not saying to forget what happen not at all! What we need to do is work together and fix the mistakes that were done in the past and make the future better not for me or you but for the future of others! Nobody can change the past but we can change the future by looking at the mistakes that were created in the past and that will never happen with an attitude like that! Everyone is independent and that couple you see that irritates you, perhaps get to know them first and maybe then it will explain to you why there together whit or black!

PhilEvans · Answer

Yes, you're a racist hypocrite.

Sorry to be blunt about it, but it's not your place to criticise other people's relationship choices. You're even racist against your OWN race in the way you refuse to see black women as being as "feminine" as white women.

Ranasal_Gansen · Answer

lol wow so much stupid in one post. Who cares who they date? Black women probably hate black men just as much as you hate black women. It is what it is so what. I don't get mad if Asian women date white men or something like that. I don't take it as a personal insult or anything. like who cares?

Reign_Interrupted · Answer

How stupid can you be? Who someone else chooses to date isn't your business. You think because you don't like black women, no one else is supposed to? Haha you're an idiot. Please don't procreate.

Bubbatech24065 · Answer

what You do is What YOU do...

You can't know what it's like to be the opposite, thus you can never Relate.

if your Friends were in that situation, would you Reject them for being in a relationship or still be their Friends.

any other opinion is meaningless.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yeah, it is hypocritical. Lmao

I only date white girls because I'm not huge on interracial relationships/mix racing. Thing is I view other people the same way. If a black guy and a mexican girl dated it'd annoy me a bit.

pigoat · Answer

It is the definition of hypocrite  Who ever voted anything other than yes Should kill themselves because they are wasting space on this planet  Listen to me man

Jack9949 · Answer

Aren’t you going against what MLK wanted? He wanted black people and white people to leave the past behind us. Its counterproductive to our unification as a society if we judge others based on the actions of those that came before them.

likelyOK · Answer

It’s total hypocrisy since you do it yourself sounds like you have deep seeded self hatred.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely a hypocrite, not all white peoples ancestors enslaved black people , in fact it was mostly black peoples in Africa that did that to their own people and sold them to white slave owners and other races if you go by that logic

Slime95 · Answer

That sounds racist.. If you have a problem with the whole race dating a black women

magiusX26 · Answer

this an an example of why sometimes you have to get out of your feelings and keep emotiins out of it.

sheikalana · Answer

Why does it bother you to see black women dating white men?

Not_Average · Answer

Why do you base your personal views in 2020 off of slavery which happened how many years ago?

SexyAshh · Answer

No who cares. You have the right to your own opinion and what you like

Anonymous · Answer

DUDE, LOL. What did you expect, sympathy? You're a fucking racist

zagor · Answer

If you are living in the 1800's, or for that matter in the 1900's, then it is weird.

FeministHater_ · Answer

lets be real here black women are not into white men, you hardly see black woman with white man, but there's plenty of white women and black men

J9inva · Answer

It disgusts me to see a white woman with a black man. Probably as much as it disgusts you to see a black woman with a white man.

jasco · Answer

Fam honestly why do you care what other people wanna do with there lives

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