Why aren't ugly people attracted to ugly people?

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im ugly as fuck but im not at all attracted to ugly girls or below average girls,
im only attracted to hot girls

but seeing how the league thing works: only ugly people can date ugly people,
and: only hot people can date hot people... wouldn't it make more logical sense that ugly people were also attracted to ugly people like themself? then everyone would be happy, why didn't god programme this into human biology that if ur ugly u will fancy ugly people like yourself?
its kinda pointless me being only attracted to hot people cos with my looks that will never be a reality because of the league thing and the only girls that im allowed to date is also hideously ugly ones

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to be honest id rather jus stay alone than date a ugly girl

no hot girl would ever date an ugly shit like me

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and they dont deserve to either

Vero4567 · Accepted Answer

Attractiveness is subjective and it depends on perception e. g. someone will view you as
ugly, while it's the opposite for another individual. Personally, I prioritize personality rather than physical attributes and looks are secondary to me. I had encountered a lot of
good looking guy and "hot guys" with an asshole behaviour, so there's no guarantee that a beautiful woman or a handsome man is a good human being. In fact, on a longer run looks does not really matter, as we grow older, our appearance will not remain the same - the skin, hair and body weight changes. But a nature of human being will remain as it is.

So, what makes you think you are ugly though?
If that's you in that picture? Honestly, I don't find you ugly at all.

Myk13 · Accepted Answer

There aren’t really different leagues. It’s just a childish way that we judge people. Not only others, but ourselves too. In my world, I say that I’m a 10 out of 10. Placing myself in the top league. You can do the same thing. Like we all know, looks aren’t everything. You may be 10 times the person that I am. I still believe that I’m a 10. It’s about self confidence. How long have you been telling yourself that you are not a 10? Long enough to convince yourself that it’s true. Well, it works in the other direction too.

Levin · Accepted Answer

Change your energy , change your life.

I'm sure you can find a girl you fancy to date. But surely your attitude and behaviour has to change? Your self talk is so destructive that it is difficult to see how you could move forward. Your beliefs become your reality.

Anonymous · Answer

Because ugly people are human and thus find hot people more attractive than ugly people.

Although this is a rather general statement. Some hot people might find ugly people attractive for reasons other than looks and some ugly people might find other ugly people attractive for different reasons.

R3DthatDude · Answer

Your statement is false and self limiting. First of all you might think your ugly but someone could think your really hot. I see it happen with women a lot. What’s ugly and what’s not ugly is all perception of the person making the judgment. Your ugly might be someone else’s beautiful, just like how I like big booty women, you might like small booty women. No one is wrong. But if we all were living by your standards of beauty, then I would say it’s because everyone likes beautiful things.

joedunn500 · Answer

dude YOU are not ugly. got loads of stories about girls (hot ones) lol that will cheer u up. Follow me and drop me a message.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Just clean up as best as you can, make yourself interesting - learn to play guitar or piano, take vocal lessons, learn to paint, etc. - then ask out a lot of women, ignoring the rejections. Leagues are in your mind. I'm average af and often date so-called "hot" girls because I ask.

Anonymous · Answer

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Just move in place in the world where they like white man an it is exotic to them, if you feel that bad about yourself.

I'm not one of those who will try to comfort or try to deny your opinion...

Just your clothes, hair cut, unshaved and possess that brings up all your disadvantages does not help at all.

knight2468 · Answer

The problem is that people don’t agree on beauty standards. I know very handsome men find average girls hot and hot girls find average guys hot.

FeministHater_ · Answer

that's how society in general is, we want something we can get.

Cryptic-Game · Answer

I think some of them are.

Silent_kisser · Answer

That's what I am thinking too...

zagor · Answer

Because ugly is ugly. Simple.

Iron_Man · Answer

Who knows some are

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