In one way or the other it has felt like i have been a SUGAR daddy but wit out the sugar,,,, lol because i help a lot of people I'm a giver to people who need help but then you get the people that see thst and they just take,, and that messes it up for everyone ,,, so I feel like the sugar daddy with out a SUGAR baby ,,, and after being a giver for so very long and have watched many people just be takers ,, I look at things different now, let me explane,, so I have other app I go on ,, and they have many girls thst are on there to sell their photos,, I always say no thank you because I'm way past the horny state lmao,, it's true pictures just do get in for me,, any way , many girls tell you there story and some are sad some it's a con , or lie some are just hungry , 7 out of 10 keep trying and trying. ,, last year I feel for some girls short and she burnt me ,, so I just say no thank you maybe 3 months ago some one asked if I wanted to buy I said no thank you, she told me her story and sent a photo and another and a video I said sorry no thank you and she sent me another video I said no really you don't have to do this please no thank you and she said she wanted to , she said out of every one she has talk to that I was straight up with her and I never even asked for a free pic and she said she wanted for me to have them , she said I made her feel good and was nice so it was a gift from her to me , she said I was the first guy to every not try to take from her 2 days later she had sent a text and a little video and it was great because as we were talking about every thing she Gerard what I was saying and anyway the video was short but it was cool I looked back in our text for her information and I sent her 100 bucks 2 days later she sent me a message that said she wasn't asking me for money she wanted to just do thst for me and I said , yes thank you I know that ,, and I said as I just wanted to do that for you to ,, she said she wanted to send me something I said no really I'm good you don't need to do that,,,, but anyway my point is I don't want to trade money for pic or videos I do what I do because of what I feel , she asked me I said no. She gave not asking for anything it was because of what I made her feel like in side it came from her heart when I feel that I can then be my realself and do the same , we still talk to this day when we see each other there is a respect and a friend ship there she has never asked me for anything and she know if she really needed is I would do it and she knows I am all ways horny 'lol and that I could ask her and she would do anything for me for nothing just because but I won't go there so , if I was every asked to be a SUGAR daddy I would say no thank you but if I meant a SUGAR baby and we became friends. And things just happen and was a true friend ship I would do my part my point is I give and give and give and never ask of anything in return so I think when I'm asked to be a giver I say no,, but if I'm not asked and I see the need I do give from my heart
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Nothing you ever get as a handout will ever help you to feel better about yourself. Only when we challenge ourselves and appreciate our accomplishment can we truly feel better about ourselves. Dependency and feelings of inadequacy go hand-in-hand. As one increases, so does the other.
Guys willing to pay for something will only do so while it is new. When he knows what to expect, he replaces it with something else and passes the used goods down the line to someone who doesn't mind second-hand goods. When that person gets bored, he'll continue passing the goods downward. Look at where this will take you long-term. People tend to be too short-sighted when making decisions. Would you want your daughter to take this path?
Lol I don't know why this is a thang these days 😂 I’ve been asked to be someone’s sugar baby before and a ton of people have told me to do it... but it’s not my style. Do you booboo but be safe!
I've been one multiple times.
Used to get paid $1000 by one just to have coffee and listen to him vent about work each week.
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Been a sugar daddy is pretty pointless other than you lose money. But been a sugar baby is smart make money easy. So if any women wanted to pay me i wouldn't mind lol but yeah find a girl who would pay me not really a thing. If i was a girl for sure would be more chance to get money that way and i would try.
Hell no. Im rich. I like take care of a girl but one who wants me sexually loves me cares about me, then if i feel like it id allow her to have benefits of my finances. Its not a trade. Its each of us doing it out of the goodness of our hearts.
And that's what i've said sooo many times that, all comes down to Financial gain... and when shit hits the fan in few years time, all of "you sugars" you'll melt and cry that nobody Loves you!.
Instead of getting a "steady working person and a strong" relationship, you rather try to chase 2 rabbits at once! But be careful, might catch... NONE!I'd love you to be my sugar baby Not that I have any money You lok hot though
Probably not. I don't mind supporting someone (Not that I have the means), or even having them living with me at the same time, but it'd have to be more personal. It shouldn't be about me supporting her.
I might consider it but there are plenty of attractive single women my age.
I wouldn't be one or the other. Because I'd be sacrificing my self respect in both situations.
I'd be a sugar baby, but not a daddy, but the personal agreement would have to be right.
Sugar daddy , wait a second I'm broke
Ok I will be a sugar baby , wait a second I'm ugly
Is there an option for sugar redditor?These transactional relationships really make finding people difficult because sugar babies are everywhere.
Go to seeking arrangements dot com.No, I would not. I'm too old and too unfortunate with girls.
I would do either... hey why not. As long as I am gaining something from it.
Baby to a daddy from 25 to 35, attractive. Am I asking for too much?
I would never pay for something like that, if I can't get a girl to be with me I'm not going to pay money for her just to hang around, sounds like a win win for her and lose lose for me and my wallet.
I would want if he's really handsome, and able to make me rich
nope i prefer real buddy, real girlfriend without any greed
Nah. I couldn't do it
I would be a sugar baby tbh... but I have to be able trust my sugar daddy of course.
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I don’t have any experience doing it, but you look hot, you seem like a good candidate.
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