It was quite a pricey cafe so that could be why there were so many of them.
Anyways it got me thinking, would you ever be in an arrangement like that?
Sure if I had a butt load of money why not, thats how it usually works, most women only respect some kind of power like money. So if I found myself old and wealthy why wouldn't I date a long pretty freaky girl that is at least upfront with her intentions?
It's not a bad arrangement, dudes want fun, young, energetic, enthusiastic, pretty lady's that are freaks in the sheets, and the young ladies want to be provided for, cared for and to get a piece of the pie, not the best of intentions on either person's part but it is a very honest straight forward type of relationship, no games or lies.
Yeah I'd prefer to be appreciated for who I am too, but that apperently is to much to ask for, only one girl has given me a chance in the past 14 years, seems to show they only care about looks or money, hell I've been in a relationship over a year now and have never had to tell a girl "thanks but I have a girlfriend", nope aside from my girlfriend every single one has just used me or overlooked me.
So I've given up on that fairytale of a girl that likes me for me, they all only like very attractive fit men, or wealthy men, either way I'd have to change who I am just to be excepted.
Yeah I've thought if I lied more I could get more attention, I could lie about my status, I could lie about my intentions and be one of the guys claiming they want something serious when really I just want something casual fun that may or may not end up being more. I also like honesty to, I can see why some guys lie but dosent mean I condone it.
Hell for a while I tried just being honest like girls said to do cause some said if you just want a hookup just say that from the beginning, quickly found out that wasn't so much advice as it was passive aggressiveness, just another bs dating game. I honestly feel like I tried, don't feel I was ignoring hints or refusing to learn from mistakes, just nothing seemed to work, well till I found my current girl, we are real similar, both overweight, nerdy, shy overlooked virgins that don't get offended or scared off when we share emotions.
If this for somereason ends I think I'm done dating, my back up is just paying for affection, I can't play the games anymore.
If I was rich I would pay some one for sex and cuddles.
But I wouldn't have a fake relationship where I need to take her to get clothes and all that and pretend she's my girlfriend or something.
Since I would still be looking for a girlfriend. Just while I am might as well be getting something nice while single. Than just going without sex while single.
And when someone could say there is one night stands for that but I have no clue how to talk to a girl like that and that takes a lot of effort getting to know just one person all night just to never see them again.
So I guess you could say sorta? But it wouldn't be one like you mentioned with me paying for her at an expensive cafe.
If we started going out and eating with each other or just hanging out then that becomes more a friendship with benefits but I still wouldn't be paying for everything.
Never I honestly find people who actively look for sugar daddies, pathetic. If you want money, go work for it. Being a 20 something year old and still asking others to fund you simply because you just want money is entitled and selfish behavior. If you have your parents pay for you as a child/teen and then look for a sugar daddy to pay for you as an adult, then you miss out a lot of development that are essential for life.
Not at all. Im not with men for their money and a lot of guys online literally look for women to take care of them so that they can be sugarbabies. So it goes both ways but im not interested in being involved in either
Its dangerous. A lot of People with money not only like to spoil you but they mainly want to control you. If you try to escape them, they can pay off police and others to keep in touch with you. Be careful. Its not the way to go
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These days I'm so strapped for cash I couldn't even afford a Splenda baby. Which is just as well, as far as that goes, since it just seems like a form of low-key prostitution with an implied exclusivity clause and a frequent customer discount. (Admittedly, that's assuming that hooker business models work the way I think they do; there are probably other options for clever or creative women). Not my type of thing.
Nope never, i'll never pay for such dumb things, a girl is only present with me and entertaining me just for my money, no thanks!
I prefer to have the real thing, i don't need to go to expensive cafe's or even a cafe, we mighy spend our time at home eating pop corn and watching a romantic movie while hugging each other and it will make us feel like we are on the top of the world, also knowing that everything we are doing together is real and not just fake for the sake of money...
It works for some old guys or rich guys but not for me, i'll never be a sugar daddy even if i was rich!
Fuck no! That being said im traditional so i do pay my girlfriend an allowance and pay for everything but i dont owe it to her. I can just say nah no allowance and she will just be like ok. Its more of a shared lifestyle than it is me owing her money.
Thats how its supposed to be. How else she going to take care of me and my house if I'm busy pimping her out as a wage slave for chump change?
F*ck no. And any girl that gets knocked up on purpose with a guy she likes; you better be careful; because they will most likely leave you for a different girl they fell in love with and begin a life with them. Which I am sure is not a good feeling.
I have been but reversed. She never gave me money per say but Bills were paid so that all I had to worry about was the money that the Grad Assistantship did not cover... Does that Qualify?
What's not to enjoy... She grabbed me out the damn hall and put me through the door into the Hospital Equipment room... And preceded to show and inform me how it was going to be. Two things I learned:
-20 years in Nurses are STRONG
-Way later that her husband's ship was out... It's a great life for 21-24 and in grad school.
do they wear tags that do say that? "Her Sugar Daddy" "His Sugar Baby"
or how do you know they are... lol
It's more expensive in some ways than a girlfriend, but it does have its advantages. If I could afford it, I wouldn't be against it if the timing in my life called for it.
The biggest advantage is you can change sugar babies without any distress or drama, because it's essentially a business arrangement.
Right. It's a much more straight forward arrangement than a lot of relationships! LOL
Pretty sure I'd never do that. I can't find a way to ever defend the practice. It's so close to prostitution, but somehow more perverse, I just can't come up with a justification for it.
I don't think so, but you never know. Maybe some really great broke guy will come along when my career gets going.
I very much enjoy spoiling a beautiful woman and paying her bills, without ever being allowed to have any penetrative sex with her. If she has a boyfriend whom she's having sex with regularly, that's even better.
No. Why bother with all the fake shit when you can just visit a prostitute?
No. There’s plenty of women out there who are willing to be in a relationship, plenty of them as well who just want an occasional date, sex n’ a good time out.
No. Why would I pay for something fake when I can have the real thing?
No. I'm not giving money to or paying for, anyone's company..
Even if, or especially, if there's sex involved.
Get a real job!
I hope not. But who knows a few years from now will happen.
Sugar daddy? No way! I've got a lot of better things to do with my time and money.
Sure. If I was a bit more flush I would offer to pay college expenses in exchange for...
No thanks!
I want a woman to want me for more reasons than that.
i advise against any relationship based on money
No, I would not get a prostitute. I rather spend money I earned on myself
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