I think this is control by manipulation. Perhaps controlling in other ways to if it is accompanied by some other behaviors. Controlling or not though, it is a manipulative behavior which is just as abusive and perhaps even more harmful. He essentially is not taking no for an answer (in my opinion this is basically rape of a mental/emotional form). Yes, you give in and so it is not officially him doing anything wrong from the physical perspective but it is still emotional abuse to get what he wants. Anytime a partner manipulates the other for sex or anything else on a selfish level it is not good. The fact that this seems to be ongoing and he clearly knows how to manipulate you at this point means he is acting knowingly in the abusive behavior and it has to stop. This is where the control comes in because of how he manipulates the situation.. The thing I fear is that the one day you don't give in to him at this point does it become a physical abuse situation as well? Definitely need to figure out a safe way to escape the relationship or get him help. Getting him help could make him irate though thinking he doesn't have any problems. He clearly tries to switch the blame to make you feel guilty for not being his personal sex toy. Just my thoughts. Feel free to message me if you have any questions or want to discuss further.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
Dump him. This game is intolerable.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!