I can really relate to this so much. Most of the guys I've really, really liked had JUST started dating like a week before I met them and then go and date that girl for a long time. I know it hurts like hell, but don't take it personally. Dating requires chemistry but also timing, and to quote How I Met Your Mother, timing's a b*tch. We are like 7 billion people, you'll always keep finding someone you can like and can like you, I promise you, even if it seems hard. Girl, I was home schooled and I work in the family business. I have literally 0 chances of meeting new people, less so during pandemic lol, but I still managed to meet a great guy I just started dating. Focus on yourself, to grow and get comfortable in your sking, take care of yourself, excercise and get all dressed up FOR YOU. Also, don't loose contact with this guy, don't stalk him lol just make him your friend (without friendzoning him as if he were gay hahah) and who knows? Maybe in a few weeks he won't be dating her anymore. Worst case scenario you make a great new friend, best case scenario you keep contact and by getting close to him he can get to know you better and see all the wonderful reasons he should date you ;) I'm not saying steal the man away hahaha just befriend him and don't loose contact.
00 Reply
Most Helpful Opinions
+1 yI've taught and trained hundreds of girl friends and wives the skills required to become a really great fuck. I started being taught by a 36 yr. old former call girl when I was 19. She loved to fuck and was highly skilled but said there was no one teaching men or women the skills that make sex totally satisfying and enjoyable. She taught me to pay attention. She repeatedly told me that when a girl or woman did something different that I really liked, that I should stop and ask her to explain exactly how she'd done it so that I could teach other girls and women how to do the same thing. I must have learned a hell of a lot in the five and a half years we spent together because, just before she and her very rich ex remarried, she told me that sex with me was the best she'd ever had. ... Take it or leave it but my advice to you is for you to find a sexually experienced older man that you truly trust to keep his mouth shut and ask him to teach you. Be his whore, his slut and make it your job to learn how to fuck him better than anyone ever has. Don't get stupid and practice with anyone else, which would expose him and yourself to STDs. He might be married and have a much stronger libido than his wife does. That's how it was for me so I went back to teaching young women and wives, meeting and 'power meating' my wife's married but rarely fucked sister and fucking their sexy, but shy and reserved, widowed mother.
01 Reply- +1 y
You sound creepy and retarded.
2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. You have to look at the positive side there's a reason if you believe in your self then you must understand there's a reason for it ,,, I look at it like this first of all if it was meant to be you would be in the picture you seen in stead of her,,, but it wasn't meant to be ,,, this is a test for you ,,, let's see how long you feel you can't get over it then let's see how long it's going to last between this girl and guy and then let's see if you still want to go out with him after he breaks up with the girl,,, right now you should be Happy for her,, and in time if you pay attention to everything that happens in the next few months you will be Happy he didn't pick you. Or it wasn't meant to be that you not date him sometime things that didn't happen the way we wanted them to are a blessing
00 Reply
Just move on. You barely know this person. You have to understand why you're crushing on somebody you don't really know. If it's somebody that you know for a long time then you need to be honest about how you personally feel. But if he's not interested then he is free to make that decision. But in the end you have to move on. You can't hold on to something like that.
01 Reply
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
51Opinion
- 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 y--------This won't be the last time this happens so brush it off and keep moving forward. It is what it is... one day you will be that girl and another girl will be looking in and saying what you are saying.
Shit happens. Roll with the punches.30 Reply
+1 yI'd say move on but I know your girls get even more motivated when a guy has girls after him or has a girlfriend or a date. I'll never forget the first time I took a girl out to the local nightclub that I used to frequent as a single and often would send Mennonites never meeting any girls or getting any attention and I go there this one night with this beautiful girl and I never had so many girls hit on me and my entire life that I did in that one night and that's happened to me more than once so men you want girls to hit on you in a nightclub find a cute friend and tell her to pretend to be your girlfriend and take her out to get somebody girls like to compete.
00 Reply- 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThe heart wants what the heart wants & if your crush likes someone else the only thing you can do is the simplest thing of them all. Respect it & move on. On the other hand does your crush know you like him & have you told him? If you didn’t tell him as they say you snooze you lose.
03 Reply
Asker+1 yI haven’t told him but it’s too late now because he has interest in another girl..
- +1 y
Is he dating the other girl?
Asker+1 yYes I believe so
408 opinions shared on Dating topic. You don't need to go one extreme or the other. Just be his friend. At your age, relationships come and go fairly regularly. By being his friend, when lust wears off, he may see you as someone who feels right for him. Just make sure you are a true friend and not just waiting around for the opportunity to have a special connection with him. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Keep yourself open to potential opportunities that may arise in the future, no matter who they may be with.
10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yWhy do yo continue to post this kind of stuff? Are you truly Christian? Are you truly born again? Seek God for guidance, not this world. This world will destroy you and lead you to destruction. You clearly have to examine you soul. You didn't get what you want and feel down, did you ever stop to ask : "What Does God Want"? The things of this world DO NOT SATISFY, they only eat away at you. You are physically beautiful woman, but looks fade and this world abuses. Your spiritual health matters far greater. You don't need a plethora of online supporters to tell you reality. You are a very pretty woman, but it's clear you are very insecure and NEED to Trust in Jesus. Don't consult this world, consult The Word of God.
00 ReplyTo be honest, seeing people hanging out doesn't indicate a romantic relationship. It could very well be platonic.
That being said, if they do not reciprocate the feelings you have, just let the feelings lie there or let them go. It won't do you any good to hold on; as coach said, roll with the punches.
Who knows? You might find somebody you connect with on a much more closer level :)00 Reply
+1 yDoes he know that you like him for boyfriend material most guys can't put two and two together when it comes to women it's better for you to just walk up and ask him out on a coffee date that way you'll know one way or the other if he accepts then you're in
00 ReplyMam, it he likes someone else and she likes him back, I don't think you can do anything about them. You have to move on.
And about men not liking you, I don't think it is true. You look very beautiful mam and you are thinking this only because you are upset. You must stay confident in yourself and things will work out.01 Reply- 3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yYou stop fixating on it. Not everyone you're interested in is going to reciprocate. That's called "life". You dust yourself off on keep on moving. If you stagnant or stay in one place, you will die a million little deaths until you're actually dead! Just... keep... going forward girl.
00 Reply
+1 yDon't say that somebody is out there for you but for right now you shouldn't think about him because you'll end up liking him even more find somebody else and let him like that other and be there for him if he needs anything.
00 Reply- 2.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 ySorry to hear but that is life.
It will hurt some but will pass.
Someone new will always catch your eye.
Stay positive, work on improving yourself and following your life goals, go out with friends and meet new people.
Go out with others.00 Reply 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sum her out of the equation. If you know what I mean...
11 Reply
Asker+1 yNo I don’t know what you mean :(
- 6.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yFind another one. Duh.
And dating at work is a really bad idea, for a LOT of reasons. There's even a quip for this..."Don't shit where you eat."10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYou can do stuff to make yourself appear more attractive like wear clothes that show off your boobs/butt, flirt with him, make hints like lightly touch his leg and hug him (just be a bit touchy feely basically but not too over the top). If you do hug you could even get his hand and put it on your butt if you’re feeling cheeky. Give him compliments too like tell him he looks nice, ask him if you look nice. If things go well then suggest you hang out sometime?
00 ReplyGIRL GET OVER HIM! It’ll be hard but better for you.. you don’t need that
00 Reply
+1 yGrow up and get over it. She's obviously not into you, so don't be a creepy dumbass.
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Find someone More Worthy of An Amazing YOU!!! xxoo
00 ReplyAs hard as this seems, you should let it go. Trust me, I've been through this countless times despite my age.
00 Reply960 opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm guessing you get a lot of flirting attention, but what you're really wanting is good emotional connection
10 ReplyYou also don't want to... in an attempt to try to make yourself look good for a date, setup profiles of strangers send messages to them and get them to break up with each other.
00 ReplyFrom the questions you posted about him in the past , you waited too long to do something.
Find out if he is ACTUALLY dating her. It might of just been hanging out.00 Reply
+1 yYou should move on, there's nothing for you there now.
01 Reply- +1 y
If you try to pursue you might develop some weird love triangle, which is never good.
- 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yi'm sure there's interest but he liked her better. you can be a rebound
00 Reply 744 opinions shared on Dating topic. Such is life.
But you are 18 and very pretty. There are plenty of guys out there that like you.
Soldier on.00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yDo you actually read the responses you get on this site? Because if you did it would be pretty impossible to believe that men have zero interest in you. Would you care to rethink and/or reformulate that conclusion?
00 Reply- 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yDon't do that to yourself if he can't see your beauty then that's his loss. You have to get back to doing your and enjoying life you got this
10 Reply
+1 yYou feel like men have zero interest in you..
Yeah that's retarded00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Crush? Do you really like the guy? Or are you just infatuated with him? Do you care about him? How much if you do?
00 Reply
+1 yIf you love, take interest in the man. It will surely come to you.
00 Reply940 opinions shared on Dating topic. U are kinda cute Asian tbh
U can steal this dude no problem from her just gotta try00 ReplyGet him to like you more, you will have to get dirty...
00 Reply10.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Same thing you do when the place you want to work at turns you down - look elsewhere.
00 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yJust send him some of the attention seeking pics you post on this site
00 ReplyWell a leash and collar fixes all. But blowing his mind dun dun dun helps to get his attention back on you.
00 Reply- 887 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yMove on like anybody else. People don't like clingy people.
00 Reply 2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Lol. "Men have zero interest in me"
You're basically the dream of millions of guys.00 Reply
+1 yKeep your head up and I am sure you’ll find someone else
00 Reply
+1 yJust tell me you need him won't you showing it lightning by kissing
00 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yRealize your worth and know that decent men don't like attention whores who are high maintenance :)
00 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yDon’t be a rebound. Have respect for yourself. Move on
00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yStop getting crushes on people that have zero interest in you.
00 Reply- 595 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yYou get over it and move on.
00 Reply
+1 yMove on. His is not the only fish in the sea.
00 ReplyDid you try to sell your soul?
00 Reply
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yShow them boobies and rub it in his face
10 Reply
+1 yhe could just be a playa
00 ReplyGo to some other guy.
00 Reply19.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Move on find a new crush
00 Reply
+1 yJust move on. The Beatles got rejected, too.
00 ReplyFind someone else who likes u
00 ReplyNothing you can do. Move on.
00 Reply4.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Next time take the initiative
00 ReplyYour very beautiful & sexy!
00 ReplyWhy you care that's life find a diffrent guy
00 Reply
+1 yAs i already said... your are sooo hot
00 Reply- 3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yFind someone else
00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. move on
00 Reply
+1 yFind a new crush.
00 ReplyMove on.
00 ReplyTalk to me 🤠
00 Reply- Show More (5)
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Holidays
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News