My friend likes my crush and she likes him back, what do I do?

[fatmucho]

I am 14 and I got rejected by my crush, but I keep talking about stuff she likes and I think she started to like me more, but then my friend likes her too and does everything she likes as well, but he's more silly than I am, I'm quiet at school, but at home im like my friend, but she doesn't know that, and she likes him back, but they aren't together yet, but what do I do with her, or to me?

[DonkeyDan]

Ah the perils of a teenage crush and competing for the affections of one girl with a friend. There is little you can do other than be yourself. Ultimately she will choose who she likes more, but one of you will get hurt. Have you spoken to your friend about her?

[fatmucho]

no i haven't, I dont want him to stop being my friend :(

[DonkeyDan]

There's no reason he wouldn't be your friend anymore just because you both like the sane girl. At the end of the day neither of you have the choice as to who she goes out with, if she even chooses either of you.

[fatmucho]

true I guess

[MakeUpModel91]

You have one of two choices here
1. Let him have her and be happy for your friend.
2. Tell your friend he will have to find someone else to like as you like her.
Either way it's a horrible situation to be in.

[fatmucho]

I dont want him to stop being my friend, so I guess ill go for option 1 :(

[xazo54]

''Happy for your friend' oh not this again. no @fatmucho your feelings totally matter and you dont have to be happy about it trust me.

[fatmucho]

@xazo54 thanks man

[MakeUpModel91]

I don't mean you have to be happy I just mean you could lose him as a friend. Sometimes in life you have to sacrifice your feelings for others. If he is also a great friend he will understand you like her and back off but if they like eachother you might have to just let it be.