I have no motivation to flirt with anyone?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me we’ve been broken up for about 3 months. I started to talk with a few guys i found attractive. I am not looking for a relationship and i feel so tired and drained for one right now. This guy wanted to meet up with me for a while but i kept on bailing on him. I feel like I have no motivation to talk to any guys or hangout rights now. I dont know why this could be happening he is a really nice guy i would totally give him a chance but I feel guilty for being like this because it seems like i am missing a nice guy because i have no motivation. What should i do?

[AmandaYVR]

Timing is wrong. Get off the dating apps and don't talk with guys who aren't interested in you sexually or romantically. You're not ready. Wait til you feel more positive.

[Ninani]

Work yourself through the emotions post breakup. You need time the get over your ex before you're ready to find something else.

[Anonymous]

Take your time. There's no rush to find a new relationship. Two years is quite a while. Not surprising it would take a bit longer to fully process and be ready to move on.

[Dave31989]

you haven't really fully gotten over your ex. you need closure, and he's not giving it to you

[tata1993]

It seams like you need time to focus on only yourself and to heal. Take your time! Take all the time you need

[chriscdi]

this is what people mean by not being ready to date