Incapable of flirting?

[John-Belmont]

I know I'm going to get called a nerd for this, but online I'm good at flirting, I'm cool, I'm calm, I'm collected, I can talk to anyone easily... but face to face I'm a dork who can't keep track of his own words... this girl I've liked for a while and have been hanging out with without telling her how I felt, I finally told her. I thought I had everything I needed, I was mr. cool, I would convince her that we were made for one another so easily, but when the time finally came to tell her I stammered, I mumbled, I didn't know what to say, and then finally I just freaked out, apologized a couple times and walked away... why am I such a loser?

[cherrykitty]

its normal. I never thought it was that hard to ask out someone you like or tell them how you feel till I DID IT! And I am not a shy girl when it comes to guys,

Basically What I had to do, was stand in the mirror and look at my body langue and get use to the idea of saying things to my self. When you get nervous around a girl Take a breath and Think of something that calms you down. Like your happy place. Look her in the Face ( You can look at her eye brows or cheeks, if you don;t want to make real eye contact, just scan her face) and tell her you get nervous around her, and you really like her ...

If you don;t think you can do that then!

Sit down with a pen and papper and write her a letter, Don;t go over board about how you think your to are made for one another or anything like that,

Just Write Something along the lines of, I get nervous around you, I like your pretty, I like ( What ever you see in her) and basically tell her what you want her to know, and then Tell her in person, Your sorry about when ever that happened, tell her this might clear some thing up and hand her the note ...

I had one guy write me a poem ... and that was the sweetest way a shy guy has ever asked me out. and Some Girls like Nerds ...

I'd rather have a noob pwning, level 80 troll hunter. who can watch mythbuster with me and play wow with me, then some Guy who goes to parties and in mr. look at me, I can talk to girls and I probly have some type of STD waiting for you in my pants... and if she does not like you then its okay too. Heck There might be a girl who likes you right now and you don;t know it.

My boyfriend did not know I liked him till like 2 months after we started to talk, so yeah, he had no idea I liked him at all. He just thought I liked hugs, But I did hug a lot of people but he was the only guy. so yeah.

And Remember BEST DATING ADVICE I EVER GOT! It was from a gay guy but it works ...

Don't date your friends, date people who could be your friend.

Cuz if you date a girl who is like your best friend, a relationship will damage the friends if and when it goes sour. dating someone who you could be friends with gives you something to build a long last relationship on but if it comes falling down your don;t lose someone who is Your best female friend.

[cherrykitty]

So what did you DO?! Did you write her a note? Anything?

[RI5OS]

Your over thinking it buddy. Don't THINK, just DO it! Practice it out loud what your gonna say if you have to. Practice being relax. I think your intimidated...practice makes perfect...a few more tries and you will be over your fear...

[martyfellow]

Reality is harder than a computer screen... We're not able to give psychoanalysis here, either.

It's normal to be shy. Maybe she'll find this endearing. Try this girl again!