Is it bad that my crush calls me dude?

[Anonymous]

I really like this guy and I am completely incapable of flirting but he seems to be flirting with me and we talk all the time and we've known eachother for a little over a year now. Have I been friendzoned if he calls me dude all the time?

Guys have been my primary source of friends for as long as I can remember, many of my guy friends tell me, "I'm one of the guys"

[SimiSyndicate]

I don't typically change how I address people, even if I have a painfully huge crush on them. Just saying.

You could be friendzoned, but you could be not friendzoned too if you ask me.

[Asker]

Thanks for the hopeful comment :D

[epiman94]

I wouldn't really worry about if he is one of those guys who calls everyone, or at least most people "Dude". Otherwise, you might be friend-zoned. Good luck, Dude!

[Asker]

By what I've seen he only calls his guy friends dude, I have never seen him call any other girl that but me :l

[epiman94]

Still, being called dude doesn't automatically equate to being friendzoned. Sometimes I'll call a crush dude just to see her reaction. Because little things like that bother some people. You. :p

[Asker]

I'm not bothered by it at all, and a few friends told me that I should be.

[epiman94]

Sorry, i assumed it did. If it doesn't bother you, why are you asking?

[Asker]

Because my friends think I've been friendzoned so I've just been worrying about it.

[serp777]

Yeah being a broski is generally not hot. Unless this guy is gay, he isn't thinking about banging one of the guys.

[Klaatu51]

it''s better to call you dude, than corny stuff like "honey","sugar", etc

[Nuns_in_Heat]

I call everyone bro or buddy, it means nothing. Doesn't really change until I'm in a relationship.

[psykobrahe]

No idea. Maybe he's open to dating a dude? By the way you have really amazing eyes.

[blondfrog]

Yeah you have been fz, but its a lot easier for girls to get out of it than guys he just sees you as a good friend that is not a bad thing.

[Blueeyes81]

If he had a petname for you, then yeah I'd say he has a crush. Dude=friendzone.

[Iron_Man]

Its not very classy is it?