Is this cold hearted?

[nelly83]

To have a crush on a guy. but at the same time, it doesn't really matter if you talk to him or not because " emotional feelings" are not a priority to you. You'd be completely fine either talking to him or not.

[20yearsolder]

It's not cold-hearted but if you have a crush on him then you probably ought to talk to him

[nelly83]

Not a necessity to me

[20yearsolder]

So you just want to crush on the dude, so just look at him from afar

[20yearsolder]

I think you're so hot but I don't want to talk to you

[nelly83]

It’s not that I don’t want to talk to him. It’s just I don’t really care

[20yearsolder]

I just don't understand if you are crushing on someone, why you don't care whether you talk to them or not. The only way the experience is going to advance any farther is by conversation

[nelly83]

My life won’t be made much different even if I had them in my life. I’m perfectly satisfied with my life

Life as a cold hearted person is different from the typical persons

[20yearsolder]

Then I guess I would change your terminology, it's really not your crush It's just someone you enjoy watching

[nelly83]

No I do admire them quite a bit. They excite me a bit too but it doesn’t mean I care

[20yearsolder]

So enjoy the view, if it turns you on then continue doing it. after you've had a nice viewing do you go home and rub one out

[nelly83]

Nahh they ain’t that hot.

[20yearsolder]

Once again, not much of a crush

[nelly83]

It is a crush. It’s just you don’t understand cold hearted people. You can’t relate to me

[20yearsolder]

Evidently either can anybody else, I seem to be the only person that is commenting on your question. Normally, a crush is someone that you want to be with, spend every waking moment with them and you don't give a shit whether you talk to them or not, not a crush at all. You can call it cold-hearted whatever you want to call it.

[nelly83]

I think you’re just too ignorant to understand that cold hearted people don’t put too much value on emotions.

[20yearsolder]

I think you're just a dumbass that's afraid to approach somebody so you come up with a stupid question like this. If you're interested in the guy, get off your ass and go after it. I know what cold heart it is, I happen to be a biker and I have no issue busting somebody up beside the head just because I don't like them. They looked at me funny, that's cold-hearted. I would walk away not given a fuck whether they lived or died so don't tell me what the fuck cold-hearted is

[nelly83]

Well if emotions don’t matter to me then why would I care so much about approaching a crush?

You’re just an asshole , not a cold hearted person

[nelly83]

Here’s a test if you’re cold hearted or not:

Would you kill your parents if I paid you?

Would you sell your wife if I offered you a million dollars?

If you said yes to both of these , then yes you are cold hearted

[20yearsolder]

I have no problem answering yes to those questions

[nelly83]

Anyone can say yes. But the fact that you can’t imagine not approaching your crush shows you just failed question 2.

See? when you’re cold hearted romance doesn’t really matter to you.

[20yearsolder]

All I can say is you're a chickenshit, afraid to go after what you want because you might get turned down

[nelly83]

All I can say is : you’re a sensitive chicken pretending to be cold hearted