Do I sound cold hearted?

[Anonymous]

i never say hello to my neighbors.

i don't have any attachments to my family. i don't love them either.

i don't care whether or not men find me attractive. i do not care if they find me unattractive either.

i have no desire to talk to men. men dont talk to me. i don't talk to them.

i dont believe in friendships. 95% of friendships fail any ways... why would I place so much importance on them?

I don't ever care to visit my relatives or family if I have nothing to gain by visiting them. I don't visit them because I know they would never help me with anything any ways.

I don't give gifts to my friends because friendships end all the time. there's no point in gifting someone if I'm not gonna talk to them any more a year from now.

I have no interest in dating because nobody has what I am looking for. 95% of them aren't good enough any way. Most people in relationships either have low standards or "settle" in a big way.

I am very big on tough love. I dont give out empathy easily unless the person truly deserves it.

[bobalife]

No, you’re protecting yourself from more disappointment and hurt. You’re being selective on investing care and time for valuable relationships (friends, fam, romance). You built a defense mechanism. But I hope you open the door abit to people because we can’t have good people in our life if we don’t open abit & give it a chance.

[IslaTheWitch]

You sound detached. Some people can mistake it with coldness. You calculate, probably (it's my pure guess), because you were hurt.

[Asker]

A cold hearted were once people who cared too much

[Anonymous]

You left cold behind a long time ago; you're an iceberg. However, if that suits you, and you're still civil enough with the people you must work with (if you don't work alone), then so what? It's your life to choose what to do with, so do whatever you want.

[Staximus]

Did your parents treat you bad or not treat you with much love during your childhood?

[Asker]

do you think im cold?

[Staximus]

You definitely have some walls up

[Asker]

i still can't tell what your answer is

[Staximus]

Why do you not love your family

[litty736]

You sound like me except the dating part. It would be nice to try it once.

[Anonymous]

Classic definition of psychopath At the very least a sociopath

[FlatLine4]

Talking to random strangers is harassment.

[Anonymous]

You need love

[Zestyassmf1997]

I guess.