How do you know if a guy is out of your league?

[Anonymous]

[White_King2000]

He treats you like a mo-ped. In other words he's willing to f*ck you as a one night stand or keep you on the hook as a bootycall friends with benefits or occasionally date but never anything serious and never around friends or family. Basically he cums and he goes until he finds a girl better than you.
This is why so many average 5-6 or below girls get hurt and end up still single at 40, the are shooting for a guy thats 7-9 and because 7-9 guys have shown intrest in them in the past these girls overestimate their value on the sexual marketplace which diminishes with age.

[ChrisG30]

Lol yeah, women ALWAYS have guys of all worth levels showing interest in them for a root/sex, but once it gets to the relationship, they learn the real value of themselves.

[White_King2000]

@ChrisG30 exactly right. I know a few women im related to who have set the bar to high but can't be told.

[slatyb]

There's no such thing as leagues. There's only interested and not interested. It's true that people tend to seek people that match them in maturity, intelligence, and that share some interests. If you are would like to know someone better, make an invitation. They may accept.

The person you believe is out of your league may be thinking the same thing about you. At your age I thought my hairstylist was attractive but far too cool to date a nerdy guy like me. She though I was cute but too intelligent to date her. We probably wouldn't have had enough in common to make a good match, but we each thought the other was out of our league.

[shereeyaa]

Ask him Messi or Ronaldo. If he debates then he is out of your league.

[FictionalCharacter]

Looks, personality, and upperclass family traditions.

[coachTanthony]

--------Just how you know anybody is out of your league..

when you tell yourself they are.

[foodOlivia]

It’s your mentality towards yourself/ how you see yourself in society that effects your behavior and confidence= I agree

[ChrisG30]

For a guy it really is that. Although I do believe people have an "unconcious bias" and put people in buckets based on how they are perceived to be valued in society.

[foodOlivia]

I agree

[matheus_lara_szajda]

Agree 100%

[Yads_Is_Back]

@coachtanthony Very true. And looks like your haters are loving on you again <3

[coachTanthony]

@Yads_Is_Back Thank you and they are dedicated little scoundrels.

[TheorionMage]

If he acts as if YOU are 'privileged' that he even acknowledges you!

Those males deemed to be irresistibly 'handsome' by most females,
often view themselves born into a destiny to be heredity's "Johnny Appleseed" genetic syringe---

Spreading that DNA semen as far... and as wide as 'opportunity' affords
but NOT hanging around once they've plowed your furrows!

The 'Law of Averages' assures SOME of his 'wild oats' will be nurtured to adulthood.

[MrBusinessQ]

I've been seeing a lot of this type of question lately. Leagues are subjective. They're a point of view. What's the defining thing that separates leagues? Looks? Money? Education? You might be going to college for your doctorate and paying for all of it straight of your own bank account, but if you have a butter face, does that make you out of someone's league? If you're a perfect 10 in every aspect of your looks, but you can barely afford groceries because your 9-5 cashier job barely pays, does that make you out of someone's league? Wealth and status only matter if you're a gold digger or looking for a sugar momma/daddy. Education and looks only matter if you're shallow. Look at their soul, their personality, look at what makes then who they are because that's the part that lasts forever. Bank accounts can change, jobs can change, hell even looks can change.

[Ozanne]

Question and MyTake trends here happen all the time. I too, have been seeing this type of question over and over. I'm not sure why it's so important suddenly, but.. I'm sure it will be replaced with a new trend in a week or so. ;)

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Ask him.

You're either in or out.

Guys and girls need to stop pussyfooting around and just get the answer they want.

Life's too short. Just get on with it, please!

It'll either go your way or it doesn't. Once you know, you take the appropriate course of action.

This all comes down to confidence too. You got to have it to do the above. What's stopping you?

[WesBrewer]

I have been told leagues are identified by status, education, income, assets, and looks. although I don't really care about leagues, if I wanted to date a poor girl who worked at Mc Donalds I would even if I was as rich as Bezos.

[jamesgoldman]

I'll comment what I used to follow when I still cared about leagues

Income, assets, status, intelligence and looks

I stopped believing in leagues once I started dating given both of my girlfriends outstripped me in every single class

[BCA6010]

When/if he rejects you. His opinion is the only one that matters in this scenario; don't worry about "leagues."

[perfectchaos]

Ok this is complicated. Rebecca Lynn Pope does a good talk about this. I dont even want to try to explain what she can do so masterfully.

[Natehunter199]

I find it funny that all the guys are answering a question that i assume was directed towards the girls

[Pejtu]

You just know it u dont have to think even
If he is like 6'0 or above he is good looking dude
And u are like avarage 5'2 Jessica u Probably know he is not even gonna notice u exist

[FCDALLASFAN]

Dudes don’t think that way. As long as you are a healthy normal lady you are in the game.


Only time status/league becomes an issue is with celebs and people with money.


In the real world it’s not a thing.

[SageWisdomMan]

Debating leagues or not is semantical. Call it what you like, there are people we all know are unavailable due to status, looks, or whatever else.

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in "leagues", everyone is a human being. If someone's ego is that big, there's a red flag.

[Altree]

I dont believe on leagues just different people likeing different things about different people.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

If you're bronze and he's diamond or vice-versa, then you are out of his league

[Kaazsz]

I’m in master league =D

[seanras]

If he doesn't hit on you or comes your way, he's not interested. Don't take "leagues" seriously, take the actual cues you get seriously.

[PersoncslledPierson]

no such thing to girls, girls can get any guy they want, even the hottest ones./... im, ugly... but if i was a hot guy... i would date ugly girls.,.. so leagues dont exist

[Myk13]

When you lack the self confidence that allows others to be placed above you.

[Liam_Hayden]

If you think someone is out of your league then it usually becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[dpy87]

Exactly. You start worrying if they're seeing other people and they get annoyed by you asking so they leave.

[Dsg1193]

Look at the previous people he dated & how they measure up to you.

[ChrisG30]

I'm out of your league because I'm the king of nerds.

[ChrisG30]

Queen nerds need only apply

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

He's nowhere close to you physically look wise, nor is he is close to you on a intellectual level.

[KingChris08]

When she won’t talk to me or act as if I don’t exist

[Anonymous]

Lmao no man is out of a woman's league. Literally not one.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about it. Ask him out. If you are out of his league he'll let you know.

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing. Go for whomever you like if they like you back, superb.

[mich15smith]

If he is more than 5.556km away from you.

[TacosRAwesome]

He doesn't give you the time of day.

[WowwGirl]

If you think that he probably is

[dsrice1966]

Most women are out of my league.

[LukeMerchant]

When you sort guys by leagues.

[humanearth]

When they have a

[human121]

By activities

[Asker]

What?

[human121]

By their activities

[Asker]

Never mind. 😒

[Anonymous]

If he's 6'5, looks like a model and a millionaire

[pizzalovershouse]

You dont conect