What's the furthest you're comfortable going on a first date?

Question

A hug, kiss on the cheek, make out, fuck, or anything in between?

Kaazsz · Accepted Answer

I haven’t really been in real dates in the sense that normal people do them.

I’ve had connections with girls, where we both liked eachother, and there was tension, and finally we get close enough and kiss and it’s like heaven when you get with someone you like a lot.

And in those cases I mostly had sex with them that same day we finally connected. And honestly I would prefer that scenario.

But I suppose that’s just unrealistic now. Now I have to run around asking girls out on dates and doing this bizarre shit where you “go on a date” and talk and “learn about eachother.” I've never done it, literally. And I’m not sure I want to but I suppose I’m going to have to at some point.

I guess I am lucky to not have had to in the past. Also, some girls I dated just chased me, and they wanted me and it went straight to sex.

I hate the idea of dating to be honest lol. It sounds awful! Going on dates with random ass people. It’s fucking weird.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Furthest I'm comfortable going, sleeping with each other, armed robbery, holding hands, really anything short of mutilation or a suicide pact I don't see a problem with. Relationships tend to be most exciting in the beginning and then cool off to a predictable pattern after the puppy love has worn off, do it big or don't bother.

Sometimes stealing a boat for a first date is far more romantic than dinner and a movie.

nush_09 · Accepted Answer

Date and one night stand or friends with benefits are different things.
if I'm going out on date with someone it means that I'm looking for some emotional connect before physical stuff.
I would hold hands, hug and little kisses maybe.
if you just wanna fuck go for one night stand or friends with benefits. no commitments then.

rareasrae · Accepted Answer

No touching on the first date, see how respectful he is

Jenom · Answer

Up to and including making out. I used to be ok with going all the way, but not anymore. If I'm really into someone and want to develop something with them then I don't want to do anything further than make out until we've got to know each other well and gained mutual trust.

Mels26 · Answer

make out, if the date is good and it’s somebody you have had a thing for for a while, you’ve both had a build up to the date, then make out is kind of a must :)
if the date is pleasant & it’s the first time you’ve maybe met somebody face to face from meeting online or something, a hug/kiss if we feel it.
sex, is never really a good idea... not if you want a future with that person, if you just wanted a date & sex, then go for it..

chrissykerdock · Answer

a blowjob i'll do if he makes out with me 1st... or i may just give one because i'm in the mood.

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

A kiss is as far as it will go, and that doesn’t even always happen

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve done it all. But the best is a passionate kiss that signals sex is likely in the future. As a man I feel impulses to (consensually) do more. But if I really like her for both her personality and looks then a long kiss is the best way to end things. It drives up excitement for later and I feel great that she likes me too.

Anonymous · Answer

Spending the entire weekend together at her place or my place completely naked the whole time just having sex and taking breaks to eat or rest.

I wouldn't commit the work week on a first date, nor would I make it a trip somewhere until a later date.

Dargil · Answer

Double hand shake with eye contact. Assume the one on the right is a girl. That is the green light for the next date.

supercutebutt · Answer

Ass to mouth but nothing beyond that. You don't want a gentleman to think you are a whore.

SouthGeorgiaGirl · Answer

If you both feel comfortable with each other, then I, as a woman have no problem with hot and heavy kissing and allowing him access to my b r e a s t s.

MecheD · Answer

All of the above... fact is I know how to protect myself so it’s cool to a degree, but also it’s cool to have standards it’s Otay to pass on it sometimes.

1starco101 · Answer

take your first date to the movie and see what movie she want to watch is it go good she might feel like lending her hand on your shoulder and holding hand then after the movie maybe she might want to cuddle you at night you will have the best date of your life

Ninani · Answer

I had both anal, oral and vaginal sex on a first date once. Completely depends on the guy.

Paolaa988 · Answer

Depending on how i vibe with him, i won't mind a hug and making out if we are feeling the connection but sex is a big no.

MrStitch · Answer

Depends how well I knew her beforehand, but definitely not sex the first time unless I knew her well.

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Holding hands, hugging, quick kisses, maybe a make out if it goes well. Picking me up off the ground, but I don't have sex on the first date unless my first date is my last date.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I'm good with a hug when we meet in person for the first time, and a kiss at the end of the date if I wanna see that person again

Melvinb6521 · Answer

I slept with my last girlfriend on the first time we met. Her last name is about to change in 2021.

Lliam · Answer

I'm up for anything, but all I would expect would be a hug and a kiss. I'll read my date's cues and let her set the pace.

BCRanger10 · Answer

In the past for me, I would only hug. Kisses were for after actually becoming boyfriend-and-girlfriend. Sex was for after marriage.

proNutro · Answer

I think a hug when meeting is nice but that’s about it. Possibly a quick kiss if it goes well. Nothing more though.

DeeToPlay · Answer

Anything in between is pretty much my comfort area. I don't enter my first dates with expectations which keeps my mind open for the chance to just go with the flow and have a great time.

JosyJosy · Answer

All of the above, it all depends on how it goes, how well I know the guy

Prettysammie · Answer

If there’s a connection then there’s a connection and there’s no reason to have limits.

cth96190 · Answer

The first date or the 20th date, I will not do anything before we exchange the results of full-spectrum STD tests.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Sex if the vibe is right, but it's not a requirement by any means, I'm happy just spending the time with a nice girl, and see how the evening goes

Anonymous · Answer

First date or simply a one night stand? Since if I decide that things are looking good... I'm more than willing to see where things will lead and there is no half way with me.

WesBrewer · Answer

A kist on the lips, but not a full 5 mins of kissing.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

A hug. Kissing is too intimate for me to do on a first date. Sex is out of the question and if she wants it on a first date I do not call her again.

IAMNathanael · Answer

You mean like a hello or goodbye? I'll go with a hand shake.

TessCasie · Answer

Hug and if i feel the vibe, kiss on his cheek at the end of the date.

Anonymous · Answer

If it went well (and I usually talk to guys a bit before going on a date so not a complete stramger) could go with a cuddle :p

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Depends if I like you... my boyfriend now... when we went on our first date we had sex 🤷🏽‍♀️

Altree · Answer

first date hand holding, I would say hug, but I hug everyone anyways thats not unique to dating.

Prof_Don · Answer

I’ll full-on make out on the first date if I feel the vibes. 🙂

Agem123 · Answer

I've had sex on a first date. He's my boyfriend now.

Darcy23 · Answer

Step by step, to be sure we are compatible, so a hug is enough.

Commander_Red · Answer

I wouldn't say making out but a kiss is fine if we have good chemistry.

BackAgain602 · Answer

My nerves are shaken up enough on a first date. Call me boring but a hug goes a long way for me on a first date.

Trooper205 · Answer

Certainly hugging. It depends on how well You know the person.

Dnice1 · Answer

Definitely a hug and maybe a kiss if the date went really well 😊

kitty71 · Answer

I made out on my first date 5 years ago and it was a juicy make out session

Shark_61695 · Answer

I wouldn't say comfortable but I'd be willing to hug.

warrenstone · Answer

Fuck, if the vibe is there. But if she gets on her phone just one time, it’s a handshake.

zagor · Answer

Entirely situational. I've done nothing, and almost everything.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

probly holding hands... maybe hug... unless i know the gal... then i maybe could kiss

Twalli · Answer

Oral, no penetration below the waist. I am willing to go that far, her choice on if we do.

Eve96 · Answer

It depends on how the date goes, but definitely a hug

LukeMerchant · Answer

I leave it to the every situation singularely, but having in mind thing go way too fast.

DrmRcr · Answer

Full sex, ejaculate in the girl, and even fuck her ass, no limits.

Anonymous · Answer

I fuck on the first date. Otherwise why bother, you both know what you are there for... why wait.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not even comfortable going on the date tbh 😂

missy52 · Answer

Kiss on the cheek.

Anonymous · Answer

Back during the days of Craigslist, I would have unprotected sex with random women so...

Pejtu · Answer

Im down to pound that pussy to sleep

slatyb · Answer

Once I went 375 miles. We had sex.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I normally go for a make out unless he annoys me.

DavidFox · Answer

Light make out session, mostly a kiss.

I-have-a-biscuit · Answer

Nothing, to be honest. I'm not the touchy type

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'd go all the way if it felt right

J2ohhhhh · Answer

An eye contact is quite sluty in my culture.

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