If neither one of us text each other often does that mean we have no interest in each other?

[Anonymous]

[cphipps48]

there's various reasons why you may not text often, I rarely text my best friend any more and we haven’t seen each other in a while, I still love her as my best friend but we both are very busy so we don’t text much, depends if you used to text a lot or if you normally don’t text much

[Asker]

We never really texted much. We are more like work friends but I want to extend the relationship beyond work

[cphipps48]

It’s probably just going to remain rather casual but that’s probably a good thing, unless you’re really interested in her then it may become awkward fast

[Asker]

I’m definitely interested in her. I said I won’t get attracted to a coworker but I couldn’t help it

[cphipps48]

I have (have had) the same problem with attraction to coworkers, 2 at this job, one left for school but the other is still there but not anything I want to get involved with for several reasons I won’t get into

[Asker]

You wouldn’t date a coworker?

[cphipps48]

I would; but that is not an option for me due to the circumstances, but I certainly would If the dots connected right