Does it seem like this guy is interested in me just as a friend or as something more?

This guy is definitely interested in you. He might just be slow-walking things because he doesn’t want to ruin anything by going too fast.
You guys have been chatting for a few weeks, and had coffee together, and talked for a few hours a couple of times... He wouldn’t be putting in all this time with you if he wasn’t interested in you a lot.
Don’t worry about the random stops or breaks in his chatting—everyone’s got other things going on, plus he probably doesn’t want to appear too needy by continually chatting with you.
You guys nicely stepped up your relationship—first him by asking you if he could have some of your cupcakes, and then you by responding that he could come over, and then him by getting you a thoughtful tin of hot chocolate.
He definitely sees you as a possible long term thing... unless he is gay (jk).
You should do some “girl things” when you’re around him to let him know that you’re interested in him—like twirling your hair in your fingers, and sitting close to him sometimes and maybe touching his arm a little, and laughing at his jokes and throwing in a compliment here or there (like: “oh, don’t you look nice,” or “ooh, you smell so good,” or “you’re too funny”).
Thanks for your input! I am developing a crush on him so I hope so! Haha
I just worry about the text responding time. Because when he is responding the messages are great and he is asking questions - but I don’t understand why he sometimes waits 1-2 days to respond to me. Is that a bad sign?
Yw... Nah, some people are just so busy most of the time, and only text when they can.
You’re reading too much into the little things. Start reading more into the big stuff—like the hours he spent talking to you, and him being so thoughtful to ask what sweet stuff you liked and to get you that tin of chocolate... right?
You’re totally right!
I guess the question is now - how do I move things forward? Should I text jimmy after Christmas and ask if he wants to come over and watch a movie and maybe try the hot chocolate? Haha I just don’t want to be too forward and scare him away!
Perfect!! I will try that after Christmas!
In the meantime - should I just play it cool and keep flirting a little over text? It’s been a while since I’ve dated (last boyfriend and I were together for a couple of years) lol
Thanks for your help!! I really wasn’t planning on dating anyone this quickly after my breakup, but I do feel a spark between he and I that I am interested in exploring. I just wish he wasn’t so shy and would ask me out again! Haha
Absolutely!! That would be great. I’ll follow you now! :)
Just tell him whether you are interested or not, don't leave him guessing.
He seems interested and sweet. Tell him your interested and ask if he'd like to date. Kiss him.
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