My ex girlfriend is obsessed over me and threatened me she doesn’t know I’m called the police on her?

[Anonymous]

Yes , she has serious mental issues and I told her at this point she needs to her help. We have no relationship and she knows this , but she has to know where I am and what I’m doing. As far as she knows I’m going to another city , but in actuality I’m going to a shelter for a while. I have alerts on my personal information and she can’t track me. She’s clearly gone crazy- plus she’s in a different state

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She threatened to kidnap me and kill my family. I told her not to come to my house

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Louisiana grants us the rights to shoot in defense. No trespassing law

[Walamagicc]

I had an ex who acted exactly like this chick. Blocked his ass from my phone number, he just gave my number out to his friends and family, I blocked them too and the he all of sudden had a lot of money and kept sending me money on cash app, blocked his ass on there too. I blocked him on Snapchat and Facebook too. Somehow he found my email and started emailing me. This was about 5 months later and I already forgot about him and he STILL kept reaching out. I did what you did and called the police and they didn’t even remove him from my apartment.


Many people on here are telling you to just block her or ghost her but it isn’t that easy. If they’re obsessed, blocking means NOTHING. All they need is an app to use a fake number to continue to text you an harass you. Anybody can get one. What you need to do is probably just move away from her completely, and I mean far away. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank as far as she knows I’m in a different city as of right now and supposedly I need space. I don’t know if she’ll come here to find me

[Asker]

She emailed me too today because she realized she was blocked

[Walamagicc]

Don’t tell her nothing. Especially about your whereabouts. She’s a nut case. People like this, potentially can lead to killing you. I’m not trying to scare you or anything but I’m just being real with you. I’m glad you gotten away from her, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but look at the bright side, one day she will get tired of chasing you and move on

[Walamagicc]

Is she emailing you with threats or begging for forgiveness?

[Asker]

She’s demanding we talk and she’s clearly nuts 🌰 so I’m following law enforcement guidelines of blocking her and no contact. I’ve been in worser situations with deranged and abusive men.

[Asker]

I’m a domestic violence survivor and rape survivor

[Asker]

I’m a part of the LGTBQ community and she needs help immediately!

[Walamagicc]

If you don’t want to talk, she needs to respect your wishes. People nowadays are just crazy and yes calling the cops on her would probably be a smart idea

[Asker]

I’ve moved on from her clearly she’s obsessed with me it’s gotten crazy now 😬

[Asker]

You don’t have to worry about me dating for a very long time

[Asker]

I want to be left alone from her and move on

[Walamagicc]

People who are obsessive are just dangerous in general. You don’t have to give up on relationships all together, just don’t feed into anything she emails you. Even saying “Please leave me alone.” Is good because you’re giving the attention she wants from u

[Asker]

There’s no contact at this point yes she’s nuts af she thinks I’m her soulmate and wife 🤪😫 crazy thing is this shyt has went crazy with her sexual obsession towards me. At this point I’m ready to call enforcement on her

[Walamagicc]

Thanks for mho!

[Moonlovespirit]

How can she do all this while living in another state? What the police say? Stay self girl! I’m a domestic violence survivor and that crap is scary

[Moonlovespirit]

She threatened to kidnap you?

[Asker]

Yep she’s a lunatic and we never met - I am too and the police advised me to block her and no contact : as of tonight she’s blocked

[Asker]

Girl I gotta call my therapist as I’m a domestic violence survivor and rape survivor

[Moonlovespirit]

Well crap that’s about all they can do anyhow. Yes just block her. Maybe she’s just happy girl who likes girls. You gotta see your therapist? See her for me too considering that I’m scared to see one

[Moonlovespirit]

How has therapy helped you? I’m scared to see one

[Asker]

Yes I do it’s been well for me abs therapy is good for you

[Moonlovespirit]

I’m glad to hear and I’m thinking about giving it a try but been on the fence for a while about it

[Jmmmfi4]

You probably did something to provoke it

[Asker]

Like what? Nothing she says she’s obsessed over my voice and body it’s crazy how people are behind you

[Asker]

She’s been having these feelings

[chriscdi]

why not go ghost?

[Asker]

I did she threatened me to unblock her and she emailed me. She’s clearly gone 🥜 . Her insecurities have turned into pure obsession over me and now she’s a lunatic

[chriscdi]

and what exactly is she gonna do tho? how she threaten you