Guys, What are some of the hard to swallow truths about dating that you realised?

[dsampath]

This is what I learned the hard way through dating and meeting women:

Women, whether the shy virgin or the party girl, cannot help being attracted to an Alpha man: a man who is tall, strong physically and mentally, great socially, confident and assertive.

Only when all the Alphas are taken, or after an Alpha hurt her, will she go for a Beta, and there is still an off chance she'll cheat with an Alpha. An Alpha doesn't have to be handsome, but if he is, her inclination will be twice as strong.

An Alpha doesn't have to be rich, but it is a nice addition. If a Beta is rich, women will milk him for all they can get because he is spending money to try and get her and people in general to like him. The Alpha already likes himself so he doesn't need anyone else's approval.

So whether a man wants a lot of women, or he just wants one great one, he still has to work on becoming as Alpha as possible, my success didn't come until I did that. Height and looks can't be changed, but with hard work, the rest of the mentioned traits can be developed.

[Avicenna]

Your success rate will be very low

[dsampath]

Develop alpha traits and it will be higher. I'm testimony to that.

[Avicenna]

Possibly, but I define success not as getting a date or a hookup, rather as getting the girlfriend I really want.