Would you date a single mother with mixed babies (read description)?

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This is only my personal experience and may not represent most guys because it's only guys in my city or area. I have two friends. Both are really pretty.
One is a single mother with one mixed baby. Nobody wants to date her. I mean nobody. Not even black guys. White guys just disappear from the chat.
The second is a single mother of TWO white kids. The dad is white and she even has OPTIONS even though she has one more child than the other girl.

What is your reasoning if you answer "no?"

Would you date a single mother with mixed babies (read description)?

TeeBar · Accepted Answer

No, I have no respect for a girl who strays from her ethnic group.

msc545 · Accepted Answer

I would date her. No problem.

fxllenone · Answer

Technically, it would be racist to not date her, simply because she has a mixed baby. This seems to be to maintain racial purity, which is quite racist.

A man or a woman that refuses to date, fuck, or marry someone simply because of the person's race is racist, and it is one of the most common racist things people do. This is justified as having a preference, but that then begs the question, why do you have a preference for a certain race? There are always reasons behind it.

While there may be some behavior that you will see common among certain races, those behaviors are due to the culture those races seem to commonly be a part of, it is not because of their race. For example: People may assume black men and women are trashy, simply because they may see rap culture as trashy, and since rap culture is the most common among black men and women, this leads to people assuming black men and women are trashy. Another example: People seem to assume that Arabs and Asians are conservative, simply because the culture in Arab and Asian countries is conservative. There is a lot more to every individual than the culture they grew up in though. I used to assume that white people are liberal, simply because the culture in white countries is liberal. However, most white people that I've come across are more conservative than the people in my country (Pakistan), when it comes to a few things. People assume I am conservative because of where I am from and because of the way I look. Apparently people assume that men who look more rough and not cute, are conservative and/or narrow-minded. The truth is I am more liberal than even Europeans when it comes to a few things.

Point being, preference for a race is highly influenced by societal perceptions and limited personal experiences with individuals of that race. The same logic can be applied to countries. People assume that men from India are rapists, because of the mainstream media's promotion of India as the capital of rape. There are millions of men in India, and the number of rapists probably do not even cover 1% of the male population of India. To assume a man is a rapist based off of less than 1% of his country's population is the equal of being a racist.

An excellent example of how societal perceptions can turn out to be wrong would be the case of the adult actress Sunny Leone. She spent most of her life in Canada, and felt judged by the Indian community there due to her work as an adult actress. After spending more than enough time in India, she said that the Indians in India have been suprisingly more accepting of her work as an adult actress than the Indians in Canada were. That says a lot!

spork_thief · Answer

1. To raise somebody else's kid is a really big ask. I feel sorry for single moms, but at the same time, why should I take on the extra baggage if I don't have to? I doubt I would start a relationship with a single mom unless we were both in our 40s or 50s and her kids were already grown up. Then again, the world is a big place, so you never know. However...

2. If the kid is mixed race, it will be immediately obvious to everyone that I am raising another man's child. Screw that.

3. I'm against miscegenation in all cases. All people should be loyal to their own race.

If a Sikh & a Christian had a child, and a Muslim & a Hindu had a child--all 4 of them coming from different races, as well--and then a grandchild descended from the 4 of them: where would that child see themselves in the context of history? How would they define their identity? Their culture? In a time where the media is owned almost exclusively by 6 corporations, the answer is that The Powers That Be would be the ones who shape the child's perception of who they are from the top down. Their culture would be Walmart. It would be McDonald's.

fashionguy17 · Answer

I don't care about the race. It's funny that I know I am going to get "beat up" for this, but I am just stating facts. I don't want to date a single mother. However, I would be friends with one or have a friends with benefits relationship with one. But real dating? Marriage? I'll pass. What are my reasonings:

1. What value can a single mother offer to me?

2. What value can her kid offer to me?

3. Why would I want to take care of a kid I didn't create and a kid that already has a father?

I'd rather date a woman who has all of her ducks sitting in a row and DOESN'T have kids. There are a lot of women out there who don't have kids and I'd choose them first.

Anonymous · Answer

I could date a single mother, but it would depend on a lot of factors.

A white single mother of a mixed race kid, on the other hand, is just fuck and dump material to me and I'd never agree to be in a relationship with one of them regardless of personality and attractiveness. They're easy pussy and nothing more.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I recently was talking to a super hot girl and i mean super hot. But she had a baby already and it was mixed and i just stopped that right there. Im not going to date a single mom seriously in the first place but to have a child thats clearly not mine walking around, id be embarrassed to even be her friend really.

Hal2002 · Answer

I am of mixed race, I have no problem with a woman having a mixed kid. I have just had bad experiences with single moms in general, and am not interested in dating any single mom's regardless of the races of their kid (s).

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I personally don't want to date anyone with kids, simply because I don't want to raise them or anyone else's, so no. Race itself isn't an issue.

Anonymous · Answer

If the woman had a body like that in the pic I'd wife her and support her but make it clear that I'm not supporting the baby; thats her and the child's father responsibility. It does not matter to me if the child is mixed or not with that body she has, I'll need to own it! Though if the child's father was locked up or, God forbid, dead, I'll fill in to raise the kid but I am not their father but their mother's husband.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, you've given a bit of an incomplete picture here. What's their financial situation? How reliable is their child care?

genericname85 · Answer

you know there's a LOT of other variables that go into this than the color of her babies. i mean maybe that other woman is just the more attractive one.

Anonymous · Answer

A single mother with mixed babies she rather dates the same race where the origin of her babies were from.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd make my life a whole lot easier and not date a chick with kids

jahaims · Answer

Would never date someone with kixsy

benzocrash · Answer

Nope

hellacray · Answer

Nope

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