This is only my personal experience and may not represent most guys because it's only guys in my city or area. I have two friends. Both are really pretty. One is a single mother with one mixed baby. Nobody wants to date her. I mean nobody. Not even black guys. White guys just disappear from the chat. The second is a single mother of TWO white kids. The dad is white and she even has OPTIONS even though she has one more child than the other girl.
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Would you date a single mother with mixed babies (read description)?
Technically, it would be racist to not date her, simply because she has a mixed baby. This seems to be to maintain racial purity, which is quite racist.
A man or a woman that refuses to date, fuck, or marry someone simply because of the person's race is racist, and it is one of the most common racist things people do. This is justified as having a preference, but that then begs the question, why do you have a preference for a certain race? There are always reasons behind it.
While there may be some behavior that you will see common among certain races, those behaviors are due to the culture those races seem to commonly be a part of, it is not because of their race. For example: People may assume black men and women are trashy, simply because they may see rap culture as trashy, and since rap culture is the most common among black men and women, this leads to people assuming black men and women are trashy. Another example: People seem to assume that Arabs and Asians are conservative, simply because the culture in Arab and Asian countries is conservative. There is a lot more to every individual than the culture they grew up in though. I used to assume that white people are liberal, simply because the culture in white countries is liberal. However, most white people that I've come across are more conservative than the people in my country (Pakistan), when it comes to a few things. People assume I am conservative because of where I am from and because of the way I look. Apparently people assume that men who look more rough and not cute, are conservative and/or narrow-minded. The truth is I am more liberal than even Europeans when it comes to a few things.
Point being, preference for a race is highly influenced by societal perceptions and limited personal experiences with individuals of that race. The same logic can be applied to countries. People assume that men from India are rapists, because of the mainstream media's promotion of India as the capital of rape. There are millions of men in India, and the number of rapists probably do not even cover 1% of the male population of India. To assume a man is a rapist based off of less than 1% of his country's population is the equal of being a racist.
An excellent example of how societal perceptions can turn out to be wrong would be the case of the adult actress Sunny Leone. She spent most of her life in Canada, and felt judged by the Indian community there due to her work as an adult actress. After spending more than enough time in India, she said that the Indians in India have been suprisingly more accepting of her work as an adult actress than the Indians in Canada were. That says a lot!
People should be free to choose who the hell they want to date. You don't hear people calling others "heightist" for only wanting to date 6 foot plus men. You don't hear people calling others "hairist" for only wanting to date people of a certain hair color. This whole "you're racist for not dating a certain race" is just B. S. created by radical liberals who WANT to create racism in the world.
I don't care about the race. It's funny that I know I am going to get "beat up" for this, but I am just stating facts. I don't want to date a single mother. However, I would be friends with one or have a friends with benefits relationship with one. But real dating? Marriage? I'll pass. What are my reasonings:
1. What value can a single mother offer to me?
2. What value can her kid offer to me?
3. Why would I want to take care of a kid I didn't create and a kid that already has a father?
I'd rather date a woman who has all of her ducks sitting in a row and DOESN'T have kids. There are a lot of women out there who don't have kids and I'd choose them first.
I recently was talking to a super hot girl and i mean super hot. But she had a baby already and it was mixed and i just stopped that right there. Im not going to date a single mom seriously in the first place but to have a child thats clearly not mine walking around, id be embarrassed to even be her friend really.
I am of mixed race, I have no problem with a woman having a mixed kid. I have just had bad experiences with single moms in general, and am not interested in dating any single mom's regardless of the races of their kid (s).
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Anonymous
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I could date a single mother, but it would depend on a lot of factors.
A white single mother of a mixed race kid, on the other hand, is just fuck and dump material to me and I'd never agree to be in a relationship with one of them regardless of personality and attractiveness. They're easy pussy and nothing more.
You're a hypocrite! What's repelling about the child? You seem to lack respect for women who date outside their race! You don't even have to take care of the kid just be a leader and example to them! That's if the father is not incarcerated or deceased. Then you may have to put some work in. But you're not a Good Leader are you?
I personally don't want to date anyone with kids, simply because I don't want to raise them or anyone else's, so no.
Race itself isn't an issue.
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Anonymous
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If the woman had a body like that in the pic I'd wife her and support her but make it clear that I'm not supporting the baby; thats her and the child's father responsibility. It does not matter to me if the child is mixed or not with that body she has, I'll need to own it! Though if the child's father was locked up or, God forbid, dead, I'll fill in to raise the kid but I am not their father but their mother's husband.
you know there's a LOT of other variables that go into this than the color of her babies. i mean maybe that other woman is just the more attractive one.
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Anonymous
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A single mother with mixed babies she rather dates the same race where the origin of her babies were from.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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I'd make my life a whole lot easier and not date a chick with kids
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