When a guy calls you his soulmate on the first date?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy a few days ago off a dating app, he was super into me and told me “He thinks I’m his soulmate”. Wanted to literally delete his dating page in front of me bc he was so sure about me. Apparently everything about me is great and he can't find anything he dislikes about me. When we’re sitting across from each other he’ll just stare at me. He told me he’s “drawn to me”. Drove over an hour away to see me on a Sunday night the day he was moving out of his house. Are there red flags here?

[Arivor]

Well, he is definitely not your Soulmate, since you did not feel any connection with him to begin with. There is an intense Intuition and recognition that happens when you meet your Soulmate.

“A soul mate is not found. A soul mate is recognized.”

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The video does an awesome job in explaining it... So, check it out if it piqued your interest. Take care and enjoy!

[WesBrewer]

Sounds like he is either nuts for you or is trying to flatter you to get some easy sex.

[Anonymous]

Personally I think that is way too big a statement to be saying on the first date. He might feel a strong connection towards you, but to tell someone you love them or that you're soulmates before spending a lot of time together is hard to believe. At this stage you are just getting to know each other. I would maybe be careful in case he is just trying to flatter you and has other intentions. But you never know, he could really believe that and is just being honest with his feelings. Trust your instincts and how you feel towards him, it will put you in the right direction. Hope it all works out.

[Paris13]

He may be Smitten, I see this. Unless he is Looking for a Booty and is All Talk. If Not, He is Hot. Just tell Joe to Go Slow. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[Rebeccaguard]

What I’m about to say to you I want you to take extremely serious and not of a mere opinion from a stranger online. I have a support group in Saint Louis for people experienced, surviving and or healing from covert narcissistic abuse. What you just said is classic by the book manipulative behavior with narcissistic personality undertones. If he is a narcissist then you need to immediately cut off this person off. Even if it seems like you hit it off and something was just not right know now they are masterful at the art of drawing out as much information as they can Reading your body language etc and spit back out at you a man that is too good to be true if Jesus himself didn’t just send you Your husband. You need to make sure the persons words and actions align and that you are not feeding yourself a false narrative of them (idealism ). A lot of us hopeless romantics and empaths love to see one act of kindness or connection and run with it. If you are a MBTI personality of INFP that is most definitely what you did 😆. If not good that is my personality and I did that about 4 times in my life lol. If you are a person that loves to help people and put yourself last for the greater good, a people pleaser , push over or someone that is uncomfortable with confrontation or conflict you were targeted. If your Career is anything related to a nurse , counselor, peer support , mentor , special education teacher , customer service , waitress , anything that has anything to do with kindness to others or empathic you were most likely target. If you grew up in a home where sharing your feelings came with a high price tag then you have a narcissistic parent and most likely your last partner/partners were emotionally unavailable as well and treated you the same. If all this is true for you then know the dates with a narcissist usually look like this :

At first they will lavish and spoil you in surprises, support , money maybe , whatever it is it will be above and beyond the norm. Any intentions suggestions or future talk will be extremely fast jumping over the time needed to truly get to know each other because a narcissist is all about instant gratification and to the goal they are after. They ask a lot of questions and or personal information, to be able to manipulate you more later on but your intuition should at this time start to alarm because somehow during his questions you can’t seem to shake off the odd behavior that peeks in here and there. Almost like he don’t care or you took to long to answer or gosh it’s my turn to talk about me. I won’t be surprised if he was a record spinning a bunch of me and i statements at you like you were the employee being interviewed. Your gut is awake and your brain is alarmed at the subconscious level. That means that in your lifetime you have had some kind of trauma or negative experience that made your brain catalog certain behaviors. When your alarms says “ huh” or “ im so confused” its because you’re being manipulated. No matter what of this giant book I wrote the main thing is if he doesn’t take the time to get to know you and let the relationship grow organically he is a bad egg and no there are no sad stories or he just needs love stories that change this. He hurts people look into his exs if he says they were crazy then he just bulls eyed the narcissist description.

[EllieFayre]

I don't think so but I do feel uncomfortable at first. Do you feel uncomfortable when he's with you?

[harry7825]

He wants to fuck your ass

[Rebeccaguard]

As much as your brother fucked yours. Go troll xvideos you dumbass