They don’t those are just the ones you are seeing, maybe many of the ones you don’t see are already married or hang in different circles, more religious or whatever. Being beautiful does not guarantee you a good life you can be disadvantaged by family tragedy and disfunction
I feel it’s because we catch so many guys attention and they only date us because of our appearance not thinking about if they really like who we are and when they find out more about us and realize they don’t like us for who we are they cheat or it turns toxic
OK. I guess it's because they get the chance to have a new partner more easily when they break up. So.. more men met her. Certainly will experience things Bad. Like too many opportunities. Good and bad cannot be filtered out. Unless this woman develops herself and her mindset. See more broadly even from the experiences of others. Maybe she will be more careful to choose a partner
I'm not sure to what extent that is true, but I think a large part of it is choosing the guys that are more glamorous so that they feel they are getting the best deal they can. This includes his looks.
To show you how ingrained this thinking is among lots of women, my stepmother to this day still discourages me from dating women she thinks aren't attractive enough for me (I don't ask her opinion, she volunteers it).
Because most beautiful women think that their beauty will do the rest for them , they don't give enough good aspects to a relationship. Maybe, you should have asked WHY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN HAVE SHORT LIVED RELATIONSHIPS? Because they want everything to be under their feet. They feel entitled to be adored more than normal girls do thus they end up feeling that their boyfriends aren't giving them enough admiration.
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They're probably used to getting their way and being popular because of their looks. Relationships require a person to love someone other than themselves and to compromise and sacrifice in some ways. Beautiful people are not always the most mature or capable. Some of them didn't have to develop much of a social game because of their looks.
Beautiful people try to fit in and follow the crowd. They're probably doing things they don't really like just to get other people's approval. They lack originality.
I can't tell you how many pretty girls all like the same crap.
They listen to the same music, share the same hobbies, and even dress alike.
Not all of them are like this but generally speaking this is sort of the case.
So many variables to consider. "Sometimes", a beautiful woman can be very conceited and self-centered, self-absorbed and even narcissistic. That will kill a relationship. Sometimes they expect too much from their SO's, or their expectations are unreasonable, so they become difficult to be with. Sometimes... they're just plain bitches !!
often its reasons such as trying to base it all off finding someone who looks as good as themselves, thinking that everything will work out because of how "good" they themselves look (used to getting by in life off their looks), they look too hard past looks/ over analyse personality, or lack some sort of fundamental aspect of intellingence to detect major personality flaws in a potential partner (something many people in general have a problem with too).
I don't believe that anyone looks for a bad relationship but that doesn't mean that it can't turn out to be bad and unfortunately some fall for them but they usually don't see it the way it is. And it's really hard to explain it to them and the more you try to help them out of it the more they will stay it's really a bad situation and very difficult to get them to actually see it it's a very long process to get them out of.
Because a lot of confident guys are players and use girls like that just for sex. They see it as a sport and not much else. Plenty of nice guys are shy and less sociable but treat women infinitely better because they value them more.
Cos they like attractive men attractive people like themselves that are attractive , and attractive people think theyre god's gift and think they're better and always looking for someone better , ps before I get a bashing I know not all attractive people are like that
Do you have any data suggesting they have worse outcomes or are you basing this on what you observe with celebrities? Celebrities are not just average attractive people.
I think it's the 'Jauggernaut' effect. Honest. Lots of guys invest more effort into girls they percieve as ugly because they think they'll have less competition and be easier. But the opposite is true because of that (for now).
I guess settling not having the right standards to pick the right guy (s) among the sea of guy that will be attracted to them. Typically, if they go for the more confident guys, it's more likely they will end up with players, manipulators and things like that. Some women do not make the effort to look for a quality guy and only sit back until they pick a guy that goes after them.
They tend to have bad relationships because they think that their appearance entitles them to special privileges and deference, which is very obnoxious and makes others angry. Also, they have profound hypergamy and are always looking for a taller, richer, better-looking man and are never satisfied with who they have.
Not always true, but women tend to overlook personality for looks. Tall, Athletic, Big dick, it gets them every time. A girl will put up with a broke ass abusive dude for a while cause she "loves" him, but really its the physical stuff she doesn't want to let go of.
With hindsight I loved his potential, the sex was incredible but he was nasty. He very rarely showed kindness. But the desperation to be shown the kindness again was crazy. I listened to his excuses and made them too. It's sad. I'm not a beautiful woman but I did fall madly in love with a beautiful man. Biggest mistake of my life.
I can’t imagine tolerating a broke ass or an abusive man just for those reasons, never have I ever. However player types who are tall and good looking ( never been really partial to the big D) can be overlooked at times. But only on the short term when u miss the signs.
They know they can choose any guy they want and so they go for mister sexy with bad boy vibes because she can change him and when she can't change him she labels him as another shit relationship. Maybe try going for substance over the look of the item. I mean you're not going to by a shit burger because they make it look fantastic over a burger that looks like shit but is fucking amazing right, so why do people do this when it comes to dating?
They tend to focus on the wrong things. Beauty leads to the need to become more beautiful. Thus, their focus becomes on looks and vanity, and they are attracted to men who focus on that in women. Bad foundations
They don't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I am very arrogant about my interpretation of that word, because it takes me years of close bonding with someone I deeply care about, too identify and recognize that beauty, which has nothing
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They don’t those are just the ones you are seeing, maybe many of the ones you don’t see are already married or hang in different circles, more religious or whatever. Being beautiful does not guarantee you a good life you can be disadvantaged by family tragedy and disfunction
I feel it’s because we catch so many guys attention and they only date us because of our appearance not thinking about if they really like who we are and when they find out more about us and realize they don’t like us for who we are they cheat or it turns toxic
OK. I guess it's because they get the chance to have a new partner more easily when they break up. So.. more men met her. Certainly will experience things Bad. Like too many opportunities. Good and bad cannot be filtered out. Unless this woman develops herself and her mindset. See more broadly even from the experiences of others. Maybe she will be more careful to choose a partner
I'm not sure to what extent that is true, but I think a large part of it is choosing the guys that are more glamorous so that they feel they are getting the best deal they can. This includes his looks.
To show you how ingrained this thinking is among lots of women, my stepmother to this day still discourages me from dating women she thinks aren't attractive enough for me (I don't ask her opinion, she volunteers it).
Because most beautiful women think that their beauty will do the rest for them , they don't give enough good aspects to a relationship. Maybe, you should have asked WHY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN HAVE SHORT LIVED RELATIONSHIPS? Because they want everything to be under their feet. They feel entitled to be adored more than normal girls do thus they end up feeling that their boyfriends aren't giving them enough admiration.
They're probably used to getting their way and being popular because of their looks.
Relationships require a person to love someone other than themselves and to compromise and sacrifice in some ways.
Beautiful people are not always the most mature or capable.
Some of them didn't have to develop much of a social game because of their looks.
Cause they're fake as hell.
Beautiful people try to fit in and follow the crowd. They're probably doing things they don't really like just to get other people's approval. They lack originality.
I can't tell you how many pretty girls all like the same crap.
They listen to the same music, share the same hobbies, and even dress alike.
Not all of them are like this but generally speaking this is sort of the case.
So many variables to consider. "Sometimes", a beautiful woman can be very conceited and self-centered, self-absorbed and even narcissistic. That will kill a relationship. Sometimes they expect too much from their SO's, or their expectations are unreasonable, so they become difficult to be with. Sometimes... they're just plain bitches !!
often its reasons such as trying to base it all off finding someone who looks as good as themselves, thinking that everything will work out because of how "good" they themselves look (used to getting by in life off their looks), they look too hard past looks/ over analyse personality, or lack some sort of fundamental aspect of intellingence to detect major personality flaws in a potential partner (something many people in general have a problem with too).
I don't believe that anyone looks for a bad relationship but that doesn't mean that it can't turn out to be bad and unfortunately some fall for them but they usually don't see it the way it is. And it's really hard to explain it to them and the more you try to help them out of it the more they will stay it's really a bad situation and very difficult to get them to actually see it it's a very long process to get them out of.
Because a lot of confident guys are players and use girls like that just for sex. They see it as a sport and not much else. Plenty of nice guys are shy and less sociable but treat women infinitely better because they value them more.
Cos they like attractive men attractive people like themselves that are attractive , and attractive people think theyre god's gift and think they're better and always looking for someone better , ps before I get a bashing I know not all attractive people are like that
Do you have any data suggesting they have worse outcomes or are you basing this on what you observe with celebrities? Celebrities are not just average attractive people.
I think it's the 'Jauggernaut' effect. Honest. Lots of guys invest more effort into girls they percieve as ugly because they think they'll have less competition and be easier. But the opposite is true because of that (for now).
I guess settling not having the right standards to pick the right guy (s) among the sea of guy that will be attracted to them. Typically, if they go for the more confident guys, it's more likely they will end up with players, manipulators and things like that. Some women do not make the effort to look for a quality guy and only sit back until they pick a guy that goes after them.
They tend to have bad relationships because they think that their appearance entitles them to special privileges and deference, which is very obnoxious and makes others angry. Also, they have profound hypergamy and are always looking for a taller, richer, better-looking man and are never satisfied with who they have.
Not always true, but women tend to overlook personality for looks. Tall, Athletic, Big dick, it gets them every time. A girl will put up with a broke ass abusive dude for a while cause she "loves" him, but really its the physical stuff she doesn't want to let go of.
With hindsight I loved his potential, the sex was incredible but he was nasty. He very rarely showed kindness. But the desperation to be shown the kindness again was crazy. I listened to his excuses and made them too. It's sad. I'm not a beautiful woman but I did fall madly in love with a beautiful man. Biggest mistake of my life.
@lilyanony1 Happens to the best of us.
I can’t imagine tolerating a broke ass or an abusive man just for those reasons, never have I ever. However player types who are tall and good looking ( never been really partial to the big D) can be overlooked at times. But only on the short term when u miss the signs.
They know they can choose any guy they want and so they go for mister sexy with bad boy vibes because she can change him and when she can't change him she labels him as another shit relationship. Maybe try going for substance over the look of the item. I mean you're not going to by a shit burger because they make it look fantastic over a burger that looks like shit but is fucking amazing right, so why do people do this when it comes to dating?
They tend to focus on the wrong things.
Beauty leads to the need to become more beautiful. Thus, their focus becomes on looks and vanity, and they are attracted to men who focus on that in women. Bad foundations
They don't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I am very arrogant about my interpretation of that word, because it takes me years of close bonding with someone I deeply care about, too identify and recognize that beauty, which has nothing