Why do people say beautiful women get lonely?

Question

I don't agree with that statement at all. Beautiful women can get any man they want, they get asked out everyday, and live great lives. I wouldn't ask a beautiful woman out because they're intimidating, guys always want them, and I don't want to compete for a woman's affection. I'll stay single forever before doing that. Why do people say beautiful women get lonely? What problems could attractive women have?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Both the fact that guys don't ask them out as often as you think, and the problems they have without enough girl support. When your friends are average looking, and you are also average looking, no one gets upset with you for worrying how you look on a date, and they don't tend to be jealous nearly as much. They also assume you have an average life. When your friends are average looking but you are gorgeous, they don't appreciate it when you're worried about your hair, or the way you think your hips are too slim and you wish you had curves like them. "I hate those skinny girls who look like models, always trying to get attention," they complain. Everyone thinks that the boys want you, and maybe they do, but they all assume you're either taken or have guys after you already. You don't get dates and your average-looking friends do, because they're not intimidating. People see you're still single and they criticize and assume you've had your pick of all the men, and are too proud to settle with one, when the only guys who have ever asked you out lost interest when they figured out that you had opinions and feelings, and weren't just there to be a pretty toy. The guys who might actually have treated you well either assume you're stuck up and wouldn't make a good girlfriend, or you're way out of their league and they don't even try. If you approach them, people think you're forward and probably use your looks to seduce men. If you stay back, they think you're haughty and that you think you're "all that." You can't cry to your friends because they think it should be easy for you to get a date. "I wish I had your life." You binge on chocolate cake with them and they act frustrated that you eat whatever you want and don't gain a pound or break out in zits. Beautiful girls do get lonely.

harveykinkle · Accepted Answer

I'm apparently "beautiful" and I never get asked out (which is fine because if I want to date someone enough I'll ask).

Guys say because they think that I could have any guy and I wouldn't choose them.

I don't have girlfriends because they think I'll steal their boyfriend or he will like me more. My sister resents me for the same reason.

I can't have guy friends because hey have crushes on me and it's a one sided relationship.

If I do have a guy friend he leaves me the second he gets a girlfriend because she's insecure he will leave her for me.

Thus, I have adapted to being alone although at the present time it's welcomed.

I attribute it to my looks because I didn't have these problems when I weighed 220bs. Who would have thought taking up distance running could be a bad thing!?

The worst thing is I'm in the sciences at school and every day it's almost as if I have to prove to everyone why I'm there. People also think "oh, you're actually smart!" is a compliment.

Sometimes people attribute my successes to my looks without seeing all the hard work I have to put into everything.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Really beautiful women -- those who aren't just pretty, but also have values and morals that make them beautiful from the inside out -- tend to be lonely because they get hurt by the people who the allow to be too close to them. The result is having a cluster of "close" friends that you still keep at arms length, the circle of jealous gossips, and several rings of hell beyond that. The beautiful woman smiles at them all and accepts them for who they are. She knows who *she* is and doesn't change just because others want her too. They are jealous not only of her looks, but of her mind and heart (qualities you can't acquire, no matter how hard you try).

wanderer83 · Accepted Answer

Beautiful women can get whatever guy they want because they are allowedto be more picky. They also get hit on more often which is flattering at first but after a while too much attention gets annoying for anyone. And then they have guys who don't know boundaries stalking them, they have men whi don't have game, or they have men grabbing there ass. So then they start putting up a wall.

So a lot of them do come across as bitches. Some of them are naturally, some of them gradually turn out that way and some of them are just shy and insecure because they are too beautiful and a lot of guys are just afraid to go up and talk to them.

So just think of beautiful women this way. They are human too. Don't think of only a mans perspective. Try seeing through there eyes and how they feel. :)

Quacken · Accepted Answer

Because we all think the same way you do. I won't a approach a beautiful woman because I would think she wouldn't all be that interested in me

Anonymous · Answer

"they get asked out every day" "I wouldn't ask a beautiful women out because they are intimidating" I think almost all guys think like you so beautiful women actually rarely get asked out because guys are intimidated, especially if that woman is shy and doesn't make it clear to a guy when she likes him. At least that's why my boyfriend told me nobody else has ever asked me out (even though I apparently get checked out by guys all the time and I could have any guy I want? I'm oblivious to that type of thing, but that's what I've been told)

Anonymous · Answer

I am what people would qualify as 'beautiful'

I half agree with your statement.

If beautiful girls is outgoing , funny , sociable and modest then she shouldn't be lonely.

I used to be mocked at for my appearance. Now that I've changed everything else has.

Whenever I go by in the street and there's a couple the guy will look and the girlfriend will insult me and/or insult her boyfriend. I often in the streets have guys come up to me it's true but I don't believe in meeting people that way. At my workplace guys will stare but none will come up to me and I'm not very confident so I won't engage in a conversation.

Until I met some REAL friends, girls would be jealous of me and constantly be putting me down and I wouldn't know how to defend myself well as I'm shy.

So the answer to your question depends on the personnality of this girl :)

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know where these women been ,  Because beautiful women including myself get asked out everyday .  If a woman looks good she will get hit on,  I don't care how shy a guy is ,  Now the statement you made about beautiful women getting lonely .  I disagree with that also ,  Because I just wouldn't say beautiful women .  I think anyone can get lonely if they don't enjoy their life or have a fulfilling life.

Anonymous · Answer

That's because guys will always label them, and put them on pedestal. They see them as high maintenance and lots of other reasons. That's why they get lonely.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you answered your own question. Many guys have that attitude towards beautiful girls.

scnbabe89 · Answer

Maybe that's why I'm always so loney but I tend to differ. I do wish this was the truth.

Abby65uk · Answer

I would actually rather be average. I don't trust anyone. It can be a curse. Think what you like, but I'm jealous of everything, as I trust no one.

dwiller943 · Answer

No the hell we cannot.

MikeRJ · Answer

Anyone can get lonely.

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