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The first is absolutely true, women in general want to be courted and desired, but in this way they select the "professionals"
I thought women weren’t supposed to focus on their education anyway - didn’t you say before that was wasting their prime years? 😊
I think that idea is outdated just because your beautiful does not mean that you don’t want to become more educated if your smart by nature you seek out intellectual stimulation.
@psychoticanimaIIover I never said "don't get an education", I said "use your 20s to focus on getting a long-term relationship/marriage and starting a family if you want to ever have one, because advanced education will be there after your youth and SMV are gone." And in this case, when I said education, I wasn't referring to college/advanced education specifically, but rather education more generally - including grade school, high school, and independent learning - things that don't reduce a woman's ability to seek a lifelong relationship in her 20s.
Ah, so high school is sufficient education for women - gotcha.
@psychoticanimaIIover no dont get educaiton, let the man wokr otherwise many woman get burned out too fast obviously...
Yes of course. I’m just being silly.
@psychoticanimaIIover like nobody know obvously people know your putting people in dumb section smh...
Oh yes uh huh.
2nd thing u said is not true at all. I know many beautiful women who I went to college with that are in school studying to be doctors, pharmacists, psychologists, and lawyers. These women are intelligent, insightful, successful as well being beautiful with amazing bodies and model like looks. Don’t stereotype and put people into a box. That’s totally a misconception that beautiful women aren’t intelligent and funny and sociable as well. It’s a myth made up by insecure women and men who are unable to get beautiful women.
@Mishan97 id like ma girl to be hot but dumb.
Oh yes of course.
@Mishan97 I didn't say ALL, I said "many". Obviously there are going to be women who don't fall into that group, but it doesn't make what I said about that group any less true.
Yeah but there’s many ugly women who aren’t smart or sociable or interesting either. It doesn’t have to do with looks lol. Women can be multifaceted just like men can be. Why put people in two dimensional categories when that isn’t the reality? Looks aren't proportional to how smart or interesting or funny a woman is
@Mishan97 This discussion is specifically about VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. I didn't create the subject, I'm just answering questions on this topic.
Yeah and what u said about very beautiful women isn’t true. You have such an outdated view.
@Mishan97 Again, I said SOME. You keep implying that I said or intended to talk about ALL. I did not.
I never said you said all but you made a generalization which is flat out not true. Even saying that most beautiful women don’t invest in their education or social skills or personality is not true.
@MrOracle It depends on where you are from. If you live in the midwest, most women would be married with 5 kids by the time she is 30. In the mid west or poor towns, females over 30s are undesirable. People marry earlier in those places. But if you go to large modern cities, there are tons of men who would date a 30 something yr old woman. In fact, men in large cities respect and like educated, successful women who can support themselves. Harvard educated men aren't looking for a hot bimbo, who cleans bathrooms at McDonalds, no college education. They have nothing in common with someone like that either. Average age of marriage and kids is later in larger citifies. I have seen way too many married doctors, pharmacists, surgeons, professors, professionals. Different places have different cultural values. In poor places, its creating a family, settling down early rather than to wait for the perfect one. In richer places, its about picking the right spouse, becoming a respectable person of value (education, career), then about family.
Yes, exactly that, saved my the troublenof writing it out.
This is a really honest and valid answer some people don’t want knowledgeable these things.
I disagree with the marriage part but a lot of these things are true
The marriage part is how my friend deals with fukbois. She is quite successful with this procedure. Tell me if you have something better. I will convey it to her. Well. She makes it appear to those guys that she isn't going to have sex before marriage. Doesn't mean she actually follows it.
If it works for her than that is all that matters
I can relate to the last thing you said lol. I'm definitely not good looking enough to believe a really atractive girl would want me so I just stay away from them. Plus I do always see the "player" always around her lingering. So I completely avoid her because I already know she's going to choose that dude. I honestly still don't understand how women still can't figure out when they are talking to a player or a person who just wants to use them. I'm like really? I can look at a guy and girl talking and automatically see his intention but they be to blinded by the fact that this guy approached me and has the confidence to talk to me. Here's an issue, if women just believe that a man must be the one to approach you then you'll only meet players and never meet a good man.
I agree with you to a certain extent. However, shy quiet men do play too. There are many incidents that players are obviouse (at least for me) so I avoid them like the plague. However, I've seen players mastering the conservative/ traditional man persona so they can also sleep with good women. It's not easy sometimes as they're willing to fake it until they get it in a away.
I avoid pretty men. I assume they are not the long relationship type weather players or not. Or I assume they are way too invested in their looks. Both are unattractive. So even when they approach me I gently decline the offer.
The thing here is this Women can ask men out. They are not limited to whomever approaches them. I agree they can still have difficulty bc some guys will be intimidated and sone may only care for looks , but it isn’t as if they only can choose from whomever shows up. If they out it that way themselves, that shows they see themselves as helpless or entitled which would already be a problem.
@KrakenAttackin Thank you.
*in the rough
nobody is attracted to an overweight guy. its kinda like saying, if you do not want to be single, go date an ugly girl that nobody wanna look at
@aliali8 I've seen it personally a girl wrapped around an overweight guyI'm not saying it's ideal but my point was appearances can be deceiving
there are some people who do not need physical attraction. but most of us do need some sort of physical attraction for a relationship to work.
@aliali8 that's fair
This first part is spot on.
With hindsight I loved his potential, the sex was incredible but he was nasty. He very rarely showed kindness. But the desperation to be shown the kindness again was crazy. I listened to his excuses and made them too. It's sad. I'm not a beautiful woman but I did fall madly in love with a beautiful man. Biggest mistake of my life.
@lilyanony1 Happens to the best of us.
I can’t imagine tolerating a broke ass or an abusive man just for those reasons, never have I ever. However player types who are tall and good looking ( never been really partial to the big D) can be overlooked at times. But only on the short term when u miss the signs.