It is only fair to date someone who is comparatively attractive to you. I’m 39 but I also am in excellent shape (still got abs) and all my hair. Can I expect to date a 19 yr old supermodel? Highly unlikely. But maybe a young woman in decent shape from late 20s to mid 30s? I think that’s fair.
It's not a game and thus has nothing to do with fairness. If you accidently step in front of a bus is it "fair" that you probably die for such a tiny mistake? No, its just physics.
Well, the truth is no one owes anyone else anything in dating. That said, you miss out on a lot of good people if you insist on hotness in a partner. If you are super desireable, you have lots of options anyway.
People are entitled to like whoever they like and I'm sure people only date those e Who they're attractive to physically, at least a little bit, most people anyway.
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Crazy to imagine, but women don’t owe anyone anything. People are attracted to whomever their attracted to. Guys don’t have to give ugly girls a chance and girls aren’t obligated to give ugly guys a chance.
Nah thats not unfair if they dont want to date u cause they think your ugly than oh well nobody owes u anything y'all gotta stop acting so obligated istg
No Is natural selection. Each person will try to date the best partener posible, that mean inteligent, beauty, power, job. That how natur work for all the comunity, humans or animals. Is an absolut rule.
Attractive has /o do with how well you take care of yourself and how you behave.
If you're a low achiever and it's evident that you can't even take care of, then you shouldn't be surprised that no one else wants to commit to you.
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Why do "normal guys" only want the hot babes and not look to give "normal girls" a chance? I don't see "normal girls" crying about not dating 8/10 men.
That's because normal girls are getting banged by the 8+/10 men who have no interest in dating them long term, so they think they're doing great and deserve better than a "normal guy" when really they're just getting played.
@Tyrael oh so you only want to fuck the hot babes? I’m talking about dating here, not casual sex you moron. A 6/10 girl knows she has no chance dating a 8/10 guy and she doesn’t cry about it. If he uses her for sex it just proves that males are sick perverts.
Sorry but you're delusional if you think a 6/10 girl doesn't go around thinking she can get the 8/10 guy. It's the reason 6/10 guys can't get 6/10 girls these days. They get that 8/10 dick and get delusions of grandeur. Seems like you might be one of em based on your reaction.
@Tyrael no I’m a 7, and am only interested in other 7s or 6s that are ambitious and driven. I’m not so shallow to date for looks, like apparently all the entitled boys here are. Imagine crying over not getting a chance to be with a hot chick lmao, these type of man children need to get a life and purpose besides simping for girls that are out of their league and start looking at girls on their own level of attractiveness.
It's mentality. Like the way u r not interested in normal girls but want yo date hot girls coz u may not find average girls up to ur mark Similarly they r not interested in guys that they don't find up to the mark
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Do you thinks it fair that hot guys only want hot girls? What about girls with a little extra meat on there bones?
It is only fair to date someone who is comparatively attractive to you. I’m 39 but I also am in excellent shape (still got abs) and all my hair. Can I expect to date a 19 yr old supermodel? Highly unlikely. But maybe a young woman in decent shape from late 20s to mid 30s? I think that’s fair.
If someone is too hot for you and won't give you the time of day, that is her choice... try lowering your standards.
Then in 10 or 20 years when her looks are gone, you can laugh when the hot guy she married is butt arse ugly too.
It's not a game and thus has nothing to do with fairness. If you accidently step in front of a bus is it "fair" that you probably die for such a tiny mistake? No, its just physics.
Of course it's okay for them to choose whoever they want, who reciprocates their feelings.
Right, and you have to give a chance to women you find unattractive? Life is not a video game where women are treasure to collect.
I don't think it's unfair, it may suck, but it's preference and natural. Attractive people want to date attractive people.
Well, the truth is no one owes anyone else anything in dating. That said, you miss out on a lot of good people if you insist on hotness in a partner. If you are super desireable, you have lots of options anyway.
People are entitled to like whoever they like and I'm sure people only date those e
Who they're attractive to physically, at least a little bit, most people anyway.
Crazy to imagine, but women don’t owe anyone anything. People are attracted to whomever their attracted to. Guys don’t have to give ugly girls a chance and girls aren’t obligated to give ugly guys a chance.
Nah thats not unfair if they dont want to date u cause they think your ugly than oh well nobody owes u anything y'all gotta stop acting so obligated istg
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Is natural selection.
Each person will try to date the best partener posible, that mean inteligent, beauty, power, job.
That how natur work for all the comunity, humans or animals.
Is an absolut rule.
Definitely not.
Looks matter. We all are attracted to someone who looks beautiful and presentable. So you are not doing any crime. 😊
First impression is generally based on how we look. Nature and behaviour play their role later.
Just don't be harsh on people who look average/below average and you are all good to go.
should they? or should they have the freedom to date who they are attracted to?
You incels and your twisted understanding of "fairness" crack me up. Nobody should ever have to date anyone they don't want to date. Period.
In general, people date on a similar attractiveness level.
Plain with plain, hot with hot.
Life is not fair is the problem.
Attractive has /o do with how well you take care of yourself and how you behave.
If you're a low achiever and it's evident that you can't even take care of, then you shouldn't be surprised that no one else wants to commit to you.
Why do "normal guys" only want the hot babes and not look to give "normal girls" a chance? I don't see "normal girls" crying about not dating 8/10 men.
They're sexual creatures and perverts that's why they want someone hot.
That's because normal girls are getting banged by the 8+/10 men who have no interest in dating them long term, so they think they're doing great and deserve better than a "normal guy" when really they're just getting played.
@Tyrael oh so normal girls go for these guys who are out of their leagues. Then it's fair that they're getting played.
@Tyrael oh so you only want to fuck the hot babes? I’m talking about dating here, not casual sex you moron. A 6/10 girl knows she has no chance dating a 8/10 guy and she doesn’t cry about it. If he uses her for sex it just proves that males are sick perverts.
Sorry but you're delusional if you think a 6/10 girl doesn't go around thinking she can get the 8/10 guy. It's the reason 6/10 guys can't get 6/10 girls these days. They get that 8/10 dick and get delusions of grandeur. Seems like you might be one of em based on your reaction.
@Tyrael no I’m a 7, and am only interested in other 7s or 6s that are ambitious and driven. I’m not so shallow to date for looks, like apparently all the entitled boys here are. Imagine crying over not getting a chance to be with a hot chick lmao, these type of man children need to get a life and purpose besides simping for girls that are out of their league and start looking at girls on their own level of attractiveness.
It's mentality.
Like the way u r not interested in normal girls but want yo date hot girls coz u may not find average girls up to ur mark
Similarly they r not interested in guys that they don't find up to the mark
Actually I think is very common for hot babes to date average and below average guys.
No more unfair than hot guys only wanting to date girls who look like watermelons on a toothpick.