Ugly or average guys don't deserve hot women, true or false?

[Anonymous]

Those women are reserved for the top percentage of men, agreed?

Ugly/Average men don't deserve hot women: true or false?

True

False

A total of 196 votes were cast: 62 girls and 134 guys. See detailed results

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I see much more gorgeous women with even below average guys than the other way around. I joke you not, yesterday I went for a walk with my girl close to the beach. A couple called our attention. She was tall, long pretty light brown hair, really nicely dressed, high heels, and a nice face and body. He was shorter than her, messy hair, dressed like he just grabed whatever was clean in his closet, not close to fit and not good looking. We were like "What?". First thought "he is rich", but no he didn't look like it and they entered a really normal car and he drove it. So how? Well his personality won her over. It can happen

[coachTanthony]

The problem with average guys are they have an average mindset. Anybody can stop being average but average minded guys have usually already been defeated. Most of their energy is spent in an angry outrage instead of working on themselves. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy once the average guy accepts that there is nothing that can be done.

[Porcelaine]

Hot women, if they have good taste will always go for the guy who treats them right, is funny, smart, kind, he doesn't have to have a face like a model, but will look after himself, work out. and you can see hot women walking around with less attractive guys all the time. because not everyone is that vain, other qualities are more important.

[Asker]

If they had good taste and respected themselves, they wouldn't be with a guy that isn't attractive

[Porcelaine]

attractive guy can be a total asshole or boring. women who respect themselves will want good treatment not a good image

[Liam_Hayden]

@ Asker What you find attractive and what an individual lady finds attractive might be very, very different.

[Porcelaine]

@Liam_Hayden exactly

[Asker]

Statistics show all women find the same 20%of men attractive and the remaining 80% below average

[Porcelaine]

what statistics? your imagination? there is no way to test this lol

[Asker]

They took it from multiple dating websites

[Porcelaine]

Not to brag but I am a hot woman. at least that's what men tell me. and looks are not what matter the most to me. obviously I need to be attracted to him, but he can look average by other people standards. his personality is what attracts me. I don't want a dull boyfriend just because he looks pretty. that's male logic. men will go out with any woman as long as she looks good and allows him to have sex, they don't care if she's boring or a witch, if she is hot they can put up with anything. women aren't like that, hot looks are not on top of the list of important traits.

[Asker]

That's what every woman says, until the hot guy comes around. The evidence is against you.

[Porcelaine]

you probably see them as hot guys just because they are with hot girls. on their own they would look average, you just put them on a pedestal and make yourself blind to see they are normal average guys

[Asker]

Normal average guys generally don't get those types of women, unless they're rich

[Porcelaine]

All of these females are richer than their partners


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[Asker]

But those men certainly aren't poor or of low value

[Porcelaine]

they, by your standards, are lower value than these women. angelina jolie, katy perrie, adriana lima, just three of many examples of extremely hot women who chose to marry less wealthy and looking nothing like models men. there are millions of examples like this. but you believe what you want to believe to feed your insecurity

[Asker]

But those men are still celebrities, and they are better than average men. You're acting like they're dating an average Joe who works as an accountant

[Porcelaine]

see? you will justify anything. they are average by hollywood standards. Billy Bob is not average by anyones standards, he is below average, celebrities or not, and he got Angelina Jolie. I see this everyday, men with no money and no exceptional looks dating very beautiful women. what they have is confidence, good personality, and a lot of other qualities that are very attractive. good looks is just an ingredient in a dish. it's not the whole reason for dating a person. unless you are incredibly shallow and that's all you care about. perhaps you are.

[Asker]

But it's an important, vital ingredient. One that's necessary. And women's idea of normal is very skewed anyways. They think 7/10 is normal, I'm talking truly average guys.

[Porcelaine]

I think you're mistaking attraction for good looks. you'd be surprised what kind of guys all girls find attractive. some guy can be average or below average, but something stands out and they are irresistable. you just have to work with what you have. I've known one girl who stayed with a guy for years just because he was good in bed, but he was extremely fat. no big dick either, average sized, he just had this one thing that she really liked. and there are so many so called hot guys that women just don't feel attracted to. it comes down to each individual taste

[Clo917]

Disagree. 'Deserve'? Huh? If a conventionally hot woman decides to date an average/below average man, then good for them. It's nobody else's business or place to decide what they 'deserve' or not.

[Logorithim]

Looks do not make the person, either male or female.

[OlderAndWiser]

Actually, each lady gets to decide that question for herself.

[RolandCuthbert]

Is this the same guy?

Dude, you can get a hot woman. I have dated hot women before. They are not all what you think. But I hope you get several, so you can see it isn't what you see or what you imagine. They are just regular people with all kinds of problems/issues.

[slatyb]

"Deserve?" There's no one assigning people to partners. You have to attract one yourself. If you aren't attracting to the women you are attracted to, then figure out what will attract them and become it.

It's more than just physical appearance. Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett.. Plenty of short bald guys have lovely partners. If you are amiable and have an interesting life, you won't have any trouble attracting women.

[TonyBologna25]

I think most people have the ability to be attractive if they put the right amount of effort. Most guys could land a very attractive quality girl if they workout, have confidence, are ambitious and driven, and good social skills. A guy who puts no effort into his appearance is generally not any of those things that I listed.

[Isten]

Why would they "deserve" anyone's attention just for existing?
Could an average or unattractive guy land a hot woman? Yes, it could happen. Will it happen in most cases? Nope, because people generally date within their league.

[qxeenrrose]

A really good personality can make up for an average face in my opinion.

[zuricose]

Bullshit!

[qxeenrrose]

not sure if you know how to read full sentences but the last part said in m y opinion.
Not yours.

[zuricose]

I know and I still mean what I said, Bullshit! Don't give people fake hope!

[qxeenrrose]

I’m not giving ‘fake hope’ you nonce. I’ve seen plenty of women date questionable creatures.
As well as I’ve dated guys with an average appearance which does not matter to me as it does to some.

[zuricose]

Perhaps what you call average is not average at all

[qxeenrrose]

Perhaps you’re wrong.

[zuricose]

Oh, yeah, prove it!

[qxeenrrose]

I don’t need to prove myself. That’s irrelevant.

[zuricose]

I knew that you would do this, all of you are the same

[qxeenrrose]

you don’t know me you fucking weirdo.

[qxeenrrose]

i think you’re just upset at the fact that you can’t get women to like you. go cry to your mom for fucks sake.

[tyepo]

spicy : )))

[Sonorous]

@zuricose - Come on man. Try and be nice to people regardless if they have a different view than you.

[zuricose]

@Sonorous fuck off

[qxeenrrose]

here we have an astounding example of an insecure loser taking his anger out on people as if he’s know them. 10/10

[qxeenrrose]

He*.

[Sambelfast85]

Your 100% right. Nice to see your not shallow.😁😁😁

[zuricose]

Nice try, fuckface

[Sambelfast85]

@zuricose don't be a hater because you look like s bulldog chewing a wasp

[Sambelfast85]

@zuricose nice comeback lol

[qxeenrrose]

give up already. This is probably the most attention you’ve got today.

[Sambelfast85]

@zuricose kitchen?

[Liam_Hayden]

@zuricose If your attitude sucks then yeah, pretty girls - most girls - with automatically reject you. And if you hang out at clubs, yeah, those people are looking for what they deem the hottest for a hook up. If, however, you are looking for someone who will treat you right, all of the presuppositions about the arbitrary beauty scale can go right out the window. I have dated a lot of conventionally attractive girls, but most of the keepers have been Plain Janes who were nice, thoughtful, and fun.

[Chris_Grey]

This is a rather weird question.

First off, no one deserves anyone. Either two people like/love each other or they don't.
It's not so much about "deserving" rather than mutual attraction.
Being ugly or average has nothing to do with it, if, then only in the way it affects attraction.

[Anonymous]

With guys the only thing that matters is attitude. Ofocurse to be handsome is a plus but check how many are out there wirh more beautiful women. It's their attitude that wins their hearts.

[Kit_Kat88]

Usually I see pretty girls who are with ugly or average guys because they either have success or are smooth.

[Kit_Kat88]

Confidence is what gets the hot girls and if success is added to that then those guys can easily get a hot girl

[Mr_Mystery]

I have used to think the same, but now i find the concept of ugly and attractive stupid because i see on ourselves , if five of male friends sit together and we try to rate girls every of us will find different girl the most attractive.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

No one, "deserves" to date anyone. When exactly was the concept of loving someone and choosing to be with them replaced with this puerile superficiality of simply caring about how hot people are?

[genericname85]

Deserving is a bullshit concept in this regard. If you earn a lot of money you worked for it. You enjoy the money cause you were successful, not cause you deserve it.

[genericname85]

besides, there's an equally ugly and average match for those guys anyay. just don't try to get with a top model if you are like that and you're good.

[zagor]

That is just stupid. There are plenty of average men who end up with hot girls. And the same for attractive men.

There were some very attractive women who were interested in me, when I was younger and too insecure and shy to do anything about it.

[worldscolide]

Lol my wife is way hotter than me.. and you know what.. I deserve her.. everyone deserves someone to love and be loved by.
And I'm glad the votes agree with me.

[thechesseman]

This question is stupid. Why do you narcissistically link you self worth to opinions of others? Find satisfaction in a job well done instead of attention you weirdo.

[capncool]

Nobody is entitled to anybody regardless of their physical appearance, that's not how the world works nor should it work that way.

[OvershareGamer]

Well, if you are a guy and you use the word "deserve" than no matter how good looking you are a girl will dump your submissive ass. hahaha

[MackToday]

Maybe and maybe not but not because of their looks also lots of women are hot but not necessarily someone you'd want to be with.

[Anonymous]

If a girl works out eats healthy or pays to look pretty you best believe she isn't going to settle for someone that isn't putting in the same work into not just their looks but health

[jessicarosen]

Completely false! Looks don't mean everything. They could be very driven, highly motivated successful men!

[TheSikuu]

No one deserves our is entitled to anything regardless of what you look like.
If you get a hot girl it's cause you did all the right things at the right time, that's all.

[WhoDatGuy]

You'll never get one with that attitude.
I've dated some stunners but the looks and your attraction to them fade.
Everyone needs to stop obsessing over looks

[Giggletr0n]

Obviously false but that's also entirely dependant on who they are trying to get with and that persons view on the matter

[Notabadguy]

yes i believe that, the top tier should only date the top people, I don't know why or how some ugly and average dudes get a top tier girl

[Lord_Thy_Gawd]

Nobody 'deserves' a hot woman, or any woman. That's implying everyone should have a woman, consent be damned.

[adolescentswede]

If an ugly person can attract a beautiful person its their business. But generally all covet good looking people including good looking people.

[Mr_Mystery]

I have gived my sister a picture of top male model , and didn't told her who is he and she was disgusted how ugly face he has. So my friends who can judge what is beautiful and what is not.

[Brady]

B - false, also what someone looks like is someone's opinion. There are girls I think are ugly and people think they are attractive.

[Sambelfast85]

I've seen a lot of ok looking men with very hot looking girlfriend's so they must be doing something right

[Lance1965]

Nobody deserves anything. You have to work for it like everyone else. Ugly guys just have to work that little bit harder.

[Browneye57]

It really depends on how fat your wallet is. Just look at DJT!

[ROCKS128]

Deserve? Yes, they do.
Get? Nope, hot girls are too unavailable for them.

[GoodGuyGregGGG]

To be honest most average looking guys can become hot if they get in shape.
But I known ugly dudes with hot wifed

[PrettyRegular]

Probably true. I've never had a girlfriend, but I wouldn't even try to get like a model looking woman.

[xkforcesc2]

Physically attractive people with awful personalities have the shelf life of milk left out on the counter.

[Anonymous]

Ugly or average guys who have nasty personalities and are not good people don't deserve hot women.

[Asker]

In general*

[Opinion Owner]

Anybody who is a good person no matter what they look like deserves something nice.

[Under_Maps_OF_twigs]

False. Ugly is an opinion and all men deserve a woman who wants him.

[Liam_Hayden]

Not sure if I deserve them, but there seems to be a surplus where I live.

[loosekunt]

And Im a prime example of ugly don't deserve girls, like Im that ugly I'm still a Virgin at 43

[MarketData]

It's natural selection. If you don't have looks you'd better have money.

[HereIbe]

They deserve whomever they can get. Same is true of ugly chicks.

[patrickstarz]

According to women they don't. A woman could be fat and ugly and she'd want herself a Ryan gosling, a Idris Elba

[Anonymous]

No one "deserves" anyone, regardless of how they look.

[Xbox720guy]

False, I'm fine if they date or marry hot women, I can handle it.

[Anonymous]

All women deserve hot tall men, loser men should just go gay.

[Celtero]

Nobody deserves anything.

[JerryReed]

If they got the money, they're getting the honey.

[outside_Toronto]

Sense of entitlement is ridiculous

[XxSnowbirdxX]

True.

[inmensus]

"Deserve"?

[Laggy]

False.

[CT_CD]

True

[BronzedAdonis]

True

[Anonymous]

absolutely