I see much more gorgeous women with even below average guys than the other way around. I joke you not, yesterday I went for a walk with my girl close to the beach. A couple called our attention. She was tall, long pretty light brown hair, really nicely dressed, high heels, and a nice face and body. He was shorter than her, messy hair, dressed like he just grabed whatever was clean in his closet, not close to fit and not good looking. We were like "What?". First thought "he is rich", but no he didn't look like it and they entered a really normal car and he drove it. So how? Well his personality won her over. It can happen
The problem with average guys are they have an average mindset. Anybody can stop being average but average minded guys have usually already been defeated. Most of their energy is spent in an angry outrage instead of working on themselves. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy once the average guy accepts that there is nothing that can be done.
Hot women, if they have good taste will always go for the guy who treats them right, is funny, smart, kind, he doesn't have to have a face like a model, but will look after himself, work out. and you can see hot women walking around with less attractive guys all the time. because not everyone is that vain, other qualities are more important.
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If they had good taste and respected themselves, they wouldn't be with a guy that isn't attractive
Not to brag but I am a hot woman. at least that's what men tell me. and looks are not what matter the most to me. obviously I need to be attracted to him, but he can look average by other people standards. his personality is what attracts me. I don't want a dull boyfriend just because he looks pretty. that's male logic. men will go out with any woman as long as she looks good and allows him to have sex, they don't care if she's boring or a witch, if she is hot they can put up with anything. women aren't like that, hot looks are not on top of the list of important traits.
you probably see them as hot guys just because they are with hot girls. on their own they would look average, you just put them on a pedestal and make yourself blind to see they are normal average guys
they, by your standards, are lower value than these women. angelina jolie, katy perrie, adriana lima, just three of many examples of extremely hot women who chose to marry less wealthy and looking nothing like models men. there are millions of examples like this. but you believe what you want to believe to feed your insecurity
see? you will justify anything. they are average by hollywood standards. Billy Bob is not average by anyones standards, he is below average, celebrities or not, and he got Angelina Jolie. I see this everyday, men with no money and no exceptional looks dating very beautiful women. what they have is confidence, good personality, and a lot of other qualities that are very attractive. good looks is just an ingredient in a dish. it's not the whole reason for dating a person. unless you are incredibly shallow and that's all you care about. perhaps you are.
But it's an important, vital ingredient. One that's necessary. And women's idea of normal is very skewed anyways. They think 7/10 is normal, I'm talking truly average guys.
I think you're mistaking attraction for good looks. you'd be surprised what kind of guys all girls find attractive. some guy can be average or below average, but something stands out and they are irresistable. you just have to work with what you have. I've known one girl who stayed with a guy for years just because he was good in bed, but he was extremely fat. no big dick either, average sized, he just had this one thing that she really liked. and there are so many so called hot guys that women just don't feel attracted to. it comes down to each individual taste
Disagree. 'Deserve'? Huh? If a conventionally hot woman decides to date an average/below average man, then good for them. It's nobody else's business or place to decide what they 'deserve' or not.
"Deserve?" There's no one assigning people to partners. You have to attract one yourself. If you aren't attracting to the women you are attracted to, then figure out what will attract them and become it.
It's more than just physical appearance. Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett.. Plenty of short bald guys have lovely partners. If you are amiable and have an interesting life, you won't have any trouble attracting women.
Dude, you can get a hot woman. I have dated hot women before. They are not all what you think. But I hope you get several, so you can see it isn't what you see or what you imagine. They are just regular people with all kinds of problems/issues.
I think most people have the ability to be attractive if they put the right amount of effort. Most guys could land a very attractive quality girl if they workout, have confidence, are ambitious and driven, and good social skills. A guy who puts no effort into his appearance is generally not any of those things that I listed.
Why would they "deserve" anyone's attention just for existing? Could an average or unattractive guy land a hot woman? Yes, it could happen. Will it happen in most cases? Nope, because people generally date within their league.
I’m not giving ‘fake hope’ you nonce. I’ve seen plenty of women date questionable creatures. As well as I’ve dated guys with an average appearance which does not matter to me as it does to some.
@zuricose If your attitude sucks then yeah, pretty girls - most girls - with automatically reject you. And if you hang out at clubs, yeah, those people are looking for what they deem the hottest for a hook up. If, however, you are looking for someone who will treat you right, all of the presuppositions about the arbitrary beauty scale can go right out the window. I have dated a lot of conventionally attractive girls, but most of the keepers have been Plain Janes who were nice, thoughtful, and fun.
First off, no one deserves anyone. Either two people like/love each other or they don't. It's not so much about "deserving" rather than mutual attraction. Being ugly or average has nothing to do with it, if, then only in the way it affects attraction.
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With guys the only thing that matters is attitude. Ofocurse to be handsome is a plus but check how many are out there wirh more beautiful women. It's their attitude that wins their hearts.
I have used to think the same, but now i find the concept of ugly and attractive stupid because i see on ourselves , if five of male friends sit together and we try to rate girls every of us will find different girl the most attractive.
No one, "deserves" to date anyone. When exactly was the concept of loving someone and choosing to be with them replaced with this puerile superficiality of simply caring about how hot people are?
Deserving is a bullshit concept in this regard. If you earn a lot of money you worked for it. You enjoy the money cause you were successful, not cause you deserve it.
Lol my wife is way hotter than me.. and you know what.. I deserve her.. everyone deserves someone to love and be loved by. And I'm glad the votes agree with me.
This question is stupid. Why do you narcissistically link you self worth to opinions of others? Find satisfaction in a job well done instead of attention you weirdo.
Maybe and maybe not but not because of their looks also lots of women are hot but not necessarily someone you'd want to be with.
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If a girl works out eats healthy or pays to look pretty you best believe she isn't going to settle for someone that isn't putting in the same work into not just their looks but health
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