Do women genuinely like it when their man sends them flowers after an argument?

[carmanCA]

Yes

No

Yes but I’d associate flowers with being hurt in the future

[Screenwriter]

I don't know about OTHER women. But now that you mention it...
I don't think I'd like it. I associate flowers with birthdays, Valentine's an anniversary or some other special occasion. Could just be that it's a nice day and the person was thinking of how you like flowers.
What I want after an argument is an apology. Screw the flowers.

[_s_ara_e_liz18]

It’s not necessary... and if the relationship was healthy, even if it was a fight... the men shouldn’t have to give the women gifts after every single fight... it’s unfair

[IsuckIguess]

I HATE flowers.
If someone buys me flowers, it is a sign that they just think of me in a generic manner. I do not get offended if a colleague or some random acquaintance or my senile grandma buys me flowers, but if someone who is supposed to know something about me buy me flowers, I get livid.
I pity flowers. I feel bad for them. They are just there. Looking at me, slowly dying, while I can't do anything.
Do I comfort them? Uhhh... can they even understand? I can't eat them, I can't use them... dried flowers usually make a mess so meh... my philosophy is only to kill things you eat/use, flowers have no use to me. And then I feel bad for calling them useless, because they are gorgeous...
SEE IT GETS ME INTO AN EXISTENTIAL RANT SO I DON'T WANT ANY BLOODY FLOWERS, they just make me sad.
If someone buys me flowers and I can tell them not to (like it would be rude to just I don't know, reject them at work) I will gently tell them to not do that again. If they still do it I will tell them to f off :D

I also associate flowers with "GENERIC MAN EXCUSE TO A GENERIC WOMAN"... just too generic... nothing I am looking for.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I like flowers in general, especially if he comes over on some random day & brings me a bouquet of ANYTHING except roses, & tells me he was just thinking of me & got/picked me some flowers.

But if he's apologizing for an argument, he better send my favorite chocolates along with a beautiful bouquet & a note.

[hopefulness101]

A women that telling the truth. Most women in this feed is full of bs because they be they first one taking selfie and pics of the flowers taking about oh look what my man got me. I love ur honesty. Thank u

[Altarichiru]

1. Flowers die quickly, I'd suggest being poetic and buying her a potted plant like a succulent that doesn't take much work. Use symbolism "So we can grow from it together" instead of "Here are flowers, forgive me" type a thing.

2. An argument is a two-way street, and so she has to be involved as well. I know my boyfriend always apologizes so much after an argument, and it's sweet that he wants to make it up to me because he feels bad, but also I know that I had some part in the escalation.

[PROCESS]

Most people do not know how to verbally hold themselves accountable for messing up. It is not just most men.
Giving flowers can be interpreted In lue of "I am really sorry for what I did".
A compassionate and loving partner is always willing to forgive.
Receiving flowers is honestly good enough to see that he is at least trying. Is the action taken and the intention behind it. Not necessarily the flowers

[Prettygurl12]

My friend's boyfriend at the time would send her flowers after he cheated. Now she's thankfully moved on from him but she gets like ptsd when she gets flowers now.

[Espresso-Grande]

No. Arguments are inevitable in a relationship. Resolving the issue then making up with a cuddle and kiss is suffice

[MindYourEyes]

I don’t need flowers but just admitting when they are wrong and apologizing for it. Is more then enough 😛

[Browneye57]

They see it as a suck up. Their conquest. They lose more respect.
Any woman that thinks she should argue with everything is a giant fail. Not worth spending any time with. They will make your life miserable, I guarantee it.

[modelUN242]

Personally, I’m don’t like gifts and all that because I feel like I don’t really deserve it. I think a nice hug would be better.

[123lucy]

I would rather they actually like apologized or talked about whatever it was but I guess

[JosyJosy]

I couldn't care less about some flowers. Talking it out and coming up with a solution is what I like.

[sheikalana]

It's a sweet gesture but sending flowers doesn't make me forget about what happened if it was something really upsetting.

[Coulis]

I find it disingenuous. Just do better and work hard not to mess up like that again.

[I-C3_ME]

I think they prefer if you just talk to them instead, getting flowers to make up is kinda cheap

[bulletbob555]

You should try it when you haven't done anything wrong they really like that generally. When they are mad some do and others get madder

[KrakenAttackin]

Why TF would you send her flowers? This is you surrendering.

[Anonymous]

No, sending flowers is a reminder of male patriarchy and dominance over women. It is a hate crime and a macro aggression

[Anonymous]

Why is the women always the victim? Maybe they were arguing because the women did something wrong.

[jgibsonian1986]

It depends on your woman.

[iseekpinetrees]

No its more a piss off for me.