This is the first time I’ve ever had a girlfriend l with “guy friends”. Anytime I’m seeing a girl and she has guy friends I never let it get past protected safe sex. This the first time I’ve had a relationship with a girl who only has guy friends and it does make me very uncomfortable 🥵. For some reason I really like this girl. We’ve been in a relationship since September.
She does everything a woman should do for a man. But due to the fact that her friends are guys I’m having trouble getting serious with her. I haven’t introduced to my parents yet. She leaves her phone open and lets me read her texts to show there’s no funny business between her n these guys. But I still get an uneasy feeling. Because she texts/talks to them a lot.
The other day she got mad that I wouldn’t let her look in my phone. Now she’s suspicious of me. I didn’t want her to see my ex texting me her breasts. I liked to picture my ex sent but I did reply. So I was still being faithful!
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What’s your experience with dating a girl who has close guy friends?
This mentality confuses me SO much. Are you completely incapable of trust? Have you never had a female friend who was just a friend and nothing more? Or who you were perhaps attracted to, but wouldn't make a move on if she was dating someone else? It may be that girls with lots of male friends are more directly sexual; I don't know. But you DO know that you can ask them their sexual history, right?
Insisting on protected sex is fine, but do you not go and get tested, and have your potential partner do the same, before you start having sex? I suppose that wouldn't work in a ONS situation, but if you're dating, that's not an issue, is it? If you know she's clean, what's the worry? "My new girlfriend is extremely skilled at blowjobs, oh no!"?
If you're worried about her cheating on you, that I can understand, but here's the thing: having a bunch of guy friends and hanging out with them gives a girl insights into how men think. It also gives her an appreciation for it (if it didn't, she wouldn't keep it up very long). And human evolution being what it's been, loyalty and accountability are prized a lot more highly among guys than among girls.
1) She has guy friends. Making a big deal about it makes you look insecure. Not a good look. She knows that you are concerned and shows you her phone. That should be good enough. 2) You're ex should not be sending you pictures of herself. That is worse than having guy friends. 3) Do you have any female friends? Do you have sex with them?
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Yes I have female friends. I did sleep with the ones I got super close to. The ones who I haven’t slept with are the ones who I never got close to!
If you really want this relationship to work, take her phone, put it in your driveway and drive over it. Then take your phone, put it in the driveway and back over it twice.
I think its bad you didn't show her phone. Equally bad to have ex girlfriend boobs on phone.
If you dont want her to think your cheating then why keep the evidence on phone. You not letting her see phone is a mistake. She might hold it against you or cause a fight.
I get she has guy friends. With the world changing things. Friends with benefits, open relationships. I get how it make you feel the way you do.
I like women who like men and choose to spend time with me. That way I know they are seeing me because they enjoy being with me, not because they need me to check off some box on their bucket list.
I don't know why she was texting. An yes I should’ve probably blocked, but I’m also on the edge of breaking up my ex in the first place. If I wasn’t I would’ve blocked my ex the moment she texted me.
I worded that wrong. I meant to say “I’m on the edge of breaking up with current girlfriend anyways”. This autocorrect keeps changing my words. I don't know how to shut it off!
It really depends, and this is gross generalization, but I would advise against dating someone that surrounds themselves with people that want to sleep with her.
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Hmm i think it's obvious who is the unfaithful one her. She should dump you
