Is it a phase that my 18 yo sister is dating a 32 yo guy?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if he only using her for sex or what. Should I just wait and see or say something to her?

[ohshee]

We'll just remember between her and him if you talk to her about it don't be negative ask positive questions it will tell you the same answer as negative question if you do get a lot further just remember she's your sister and do care I remember time this time that has no time it might happen to you one day to so do it lovingly and carrying Lee because whether you know it or not one day you will need each other you always want that bond to remain good

[user2345354]

Wow I'm just floored by the age discrimination. If she was dating an 18 year old male, guess why he's dating her? Uuuuhh let me think... for sex. There's absolutely nothing wrong with an older man dating a younger woman, and if anything, he's going to treat her a lot better than someone her age. You should be happy for her.

[btbc92]

Using her for sex guaranteed. But that's her personal choice. There's no point in getting involved because now she's technically Wiggly old enough to make those decisions. But if that don't last, and she's messed up, remember that she made that choice. Nobody can baby her now.

[btbc92]

Legally*

You need to just say something to her. But not attend time she's going to be disagreeing with you. Those men don't go after young women for no logical reason. They want them young so they can use them for sex. They'll promise you all that kind of stuff to them, and they don't really deliver. And if they do get married to them it tends not to be healthy relationship to begin with.

[Truthbewithyou]

He is. He is also looking for someone to mold. You could do either. You could say something but if it doesn't have any effect then you would have no choice but to wait and see.

[rachel776]

i go out with older guys and it's been no problem. my older sister has had the same guy her age for like 5 years now

[exitseven]

Do you have any male friends who could pay this guy a visit? He is a creep.

[msc545]

Why would you say anything to her? She is an adult.

[Hotshowers]

Most age gaps over 5-10 dont last.

[scott04sa22]

That's not true. My best friends ex girlfriend 37F is happily married to a 74M dude and they have kids and grandkids together.

[scott04sa22]

Their happily married for 17 years now

[zagor]

Most gaps under 5-10 don't last

[scott04sa22]

Yeah... Adam Sandler and his wife are still kicking and still married. My ex crush still happily married to her husband and she blows him every night to keep his dick wet and polish. My childhood best friend also blows her 300 pound husband every night before bed too. So.. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[GAGSucksBalls1]

Yep

Your parents don't know, I'm guessing

[jjj101010]

Maybe she just likes older guys

[Anonymous]

I'll bet the sex between them is incredible

[Anonymous]

Somebody is jelly

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't see an issue