Is 5’8 too tall for a woman?

Question

I’ve heard a lot of men say they prefer short girls or average height girls (like under 5’7.) Is 5’8 too tall? I like my height at 5’8 but I feel it sometimes stops guys from approaching me because they don’t like tall women.

Dazed0N0Confused · Accepted Answer

No, it isn't too tall. I think it's very horrible that as a society that we are "height shaming". I'm 5'7", because of my work, I shrunk from being 5'8" (spinal compression from being on my feet & walking a lot). We shouldn't shame people for things they cannot change about themselves. It's like saying that that guy is "too short". Genetics cannot be changed.
Not wanting to be with someone because of their height is rather shallow, in my opinion. You miss out on some amazing people because of perceived social norms for relationships. My boyfriend is 3" shorter, yes you read that right, than me. We get weird looks all the time, the last time we went for a walk around his place some kid obnoxiously laughed from the passenger side of the car at us & he went on a little tirade saying "at least I'm getting some pussy" & "yeah, one of us short guys got a beautiful, tall woman on his arm" along with a few more choice phrases...
No one is too tall or too short unless they have an actual medical condition resulting from dwarfism or gigantism.
With most guys going for "shorter" girls, a lot of us "tall" girls become cat ladies, or we can be adults & date people shorter than us.
Be confident in who you are, & be open to all the love, not just the ones that are "socially acceptable".

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

not at all I'm 6'4 and I haven't had any problems well except for hitting my head when I wear heels or not paying attention. Sometimes it's annoying being so tall but it can be helpful I almost never have to worry about not being able to reach something

razelove · Accepted Answer

That's personal preference. Your height wouldn't seem tall to me unless you had on platform shoes or something. At 5'11" or so I'd think tall, sexy, let's try to make this happen. If you're a tall guy there's a lot that can be awkward with shorter women, like cross shower or any standing sex (not completely awkwardly done) off the list, kissing without basically bending over.

Yeah, there is the big strong man pounding and owning the tiny woman thing there, but that doesn't feel nearly as good as doing the same to someone closer to your size or larger.

About the only thing that comes to mind that is inconvenient with taller women would be pulling hair doggy style, but that's such a minor thing it's barely worth mentioning. Also way down the line, taller with wide hips, less chance of c-sections being needed, unless the plumbing has issues easier pregnancies, the benefits far outweigh the negative of "no hair pulling doggystyle"

That's just me though, I don't know what goes through other people's heads. It doesn't seem worth it to chop off your feet to be shorter either, so try to be a little more comfortable in your skin. If guys aren't hitting on you, ok, find particular guys you like and hit on them. What's the worst that can happen, someone says no?

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

No. 5'8" isn't even really tall on a girl. It's "tallish." Almost tall. The majority of all men are 5'9" to 5'11" (short AF in my opinion, but the current statistical mean due to most people on the planet living in less-than-optimal environments with poor diets and health, including First World countries). So to most men, any female height under 5'9" will be acceptable to them, not that men really care about their partner's height anyway. That's exclusively a female trait.

5'7"/170 cm is considered by most men to be the ideal female height anyway. It's considered not too tall and not top short, or "just right" for most men. And 5'8" is close to that.

Mr, personally? I wouldn't want a girl less than 5'8" cause I'm already a short sh*t (at 71 inches short). At least ONE of us should be tall if it can't be me.

Craftsman · Answer

I'm about 5' 11", so 5' 8" is just about right. That way neither one gets a crick in the neck when hugging and kissing, and neither one needs to put the other on a stool just for hugging and kissing.
Then again, if the height difference is too much, there's always lying down. Doesn't matter how tall or short if lying down; just scootch around for comfortable cuddling.

slatyb · Answer

Too tall for what? It's not tall enough to be a runway model or a top volleyball or basketball player.
It may stop some guys from approaching you but so what? No one can be all things to all people. Taller guys will enjoy your height. I'm 5-8 and happily dated a woman almost as tall as me. It was great because we could kiss while having sex.

Nalix · Answer

It's all about finding someone compatible with you. That includes preferences like height. If you don't mind guys shorter than you, then you can probably find a guy who doesn't mind women taller than him. Also, 5'8" is the male average height for the US, so you should be able to find taller guys, if that's t your thing.

Guys aren't approaching your because most guys don't approach most women, even if they're interested. Especially these days.

RingOfFire · Answer

At 5' 8" you are taller than at least 90% of girls your age. But so what? Some guys like tall girls some guys like short girls. You don't have to worry about what some guys like, you only need one.

Here is a chart that shows the percentiles of height for white women.

shade_19 · Answer

Which guys are you talking about?
Which guys say they are into short girls?
Seeing such questions i put up a poll question..

Check it in my profile... it's the girls who r more biased than guys
Even look at the comments... at that post maybe they'll help better

TadCurious · Answer

Of course not. If a girl is 5' 8" that's a product of her genes. Asking if that (or 5' 10" or 6') is "too tall" begs the question: "Too tall for what?" That particular girl is supposed to be 5' 8".

AD240pCharlie · Answer

Women tend to prefer tall men but it seems to be much more important for them to simply have someone who's taller than they are themselves. I think that's often the case for men as well, they just want a women who's shorter than them. So a man who's 6 feet and above is most likely not going to find your height to be a turn-off.

Dez_37_46 · Answer

I think tall is sexy. At 6’2” I would love to date a tall women. It would be nice to not have to lean down to kiss her for one thing. If I could put my arms around her and look eye to eye without looking down that would be fantastic.

taleswapper · Answer

It will stop some guys. If you still want them, you need to approach them and show them you're no less of a woman for your added inches. Oterwise, let them go, and look for other guys! :)

AaronKrieger · Answer

Fuck no lol

My girlfriend right now is 5'8 and I like tall girls in general even if they're very tall. The closer she is to my height the better.

Own your height and be proud of it, it's what you were born with.

Vetis · Answer

Here's a secret, the only people who criticize taller than average girls are other girls who want to make you insecure and average height guys who need you to be significantly shorter than them for attraction.

jshm2 · Answer

There is no such thing as "too tall" You're probably just coming across low self-esteem males that think you're dominating.  Maybe dress a bit more feminine or have a friendlier expression.

0112358 · Answer

5'8" is technically tall... but not all that tall. A lot of guys are still way taller. Most of my exes were around that height I actually thought it was normal height till I was
like 30 when I found out it wasn't.

rodeschaap · Answer

Probably depends on where you live. I’m 6’0 and never had any issues. But here most men are also 6’0 or taller.

Dayana28 · Answer

i m 5'7 and 1/2 and i feel tall, i was used to feel prettier when i was 5'7

is 5'7 1/2 too tall? this study makes me depressed

i was used to be 5'7, i took some height pills for sport reasons, now i m 5'7 1/2

because preferred height is 5'6

TheorionMage · Answer

Only insecure men avoid tall women, whom seldom feel confident enough to wear heels... perhaps they fear a TRULY 'king-sized' Queen! Tall women need loving too! <3 ;)

HawkPerception · Answer

As long as I'm taller, I'm good with it. But I do prefer a much shorter girl than me than just 1 inch (I'm 5'9). It makes it easier to toss her around and pick her up in bed.

LivingExample · Answer

No, an inch or two does not make that much difference. Be Proud of your height! If someone doesn’t like your height that means they are Not the person for you!!

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I don't think guy's would care that much TBH. In theory, I like the idea of dating a taller woman, but it's not mandatory.

jasco · Answer

That's starting to become the average height for a lot of women so no. As time goes on and people get taller, sooner or later some women may be 6 feet and it could be the norm but who knows. Genetics is always so easy to figure out

caitlin36DD · Answer

I think 5’ 8” is fine. There a lot of tall guys out there that like taller women. Some shorter guys may be intimidated, but I wouldn’t worry about it.

EmmaMary · Answer

Well I'm 5' 10" and never, ever experience any issues whatsoever, in fact my husband is 6' 3".

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Too tall for some men, but not for me; for me, such a girl would be tall, elegant, and attractive.

RenegadeSailor · Answer

Yes, you're doomed to be alone forever in a painful everlasting firey hell! Actually, it don't matter. Be interesting and take good care of yourself.

humanearth · Answer

Too short, the best girlfriend I ever had was 6 foot 5 and I am 6 foot 4. Thats right she was taller than me.

NMMan · Answer

No, it isn't. And anyone else would claim you're "too" anything, isn't worth your time.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

I don't think so. I think women of that height are stunning.  Now if I could date on (being 5'4"). And now you got me thinking of legs... mmmm

Avicenna · Answer

Not at all. I'm much more likely to approach a woman your height than one shorter than you.

JDavid25 · Answer

No, your height is just fine.. I actually like taller girls around your height..

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yeah i mean im taller than that but i usually only approach girls about 5'2" or less. And my girlfriend now is 5'4" which is fine but if she was any taller i dont think id find her attractive tbh.

exitseven · Answer

No. It's is a nice height in fact. Use good posture and don't slouch.

Josh4206 · Answer

No, although I'd prefer someone a bit shorter, im still taller than them so would be good

HuTao · Answer

No, one of my 6 ft friends is still in a good place regarding dates

TallAnon · Answer

Too tall? That's not even average, is it? I'm 6'7, so I would think you're small regardless, which is fine.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

it may stop guys... Q - Q tall womens can be a little intimidating, but if they're super cute, i dont see it as a problem

BlackPrince1 · Answer

Nope above 6 ft is too tall because then most men you meet are shorter than you and nowadays because of ongoing trends tall guys tend to go for short girls

Browneye57 · Answer

Just find one that likes YOU, just the way YOU are. Don't worry about the ones that don't.

worldscolide · Answer

Unlike women, men generally don't care how tall a woman is.

yazerr · Answer

It doesn't matter  Anyway , Tall girls are attractive and good in bed and also have many other benefits

BloJo · Answer

You need to date taller men. I am 6’5” tall. You are barely tall enough for me to date.

Anonymous · Answer

It would be for a liberal (girl) because unless she is perfect looking I am already not attracted to her. If she was conservative I could live with it because our relationship would be more harmonious

Caunsos · Answer

Nope. Your 5'8 and a woman there for it is not to tall.

SirJohn42 · Answer

Nope not to tall. I think it really doesn't matter the height just as long as we make a connection.

jhnny1331 · Answer

No it's a great height, I'm six foot tall we would fit nicely

Surely · Answer

You are still a half foot shorter than me! So of course I would date you, shorty.

Mangospacho · Answer

I like tall girls. I would consider 5’8-5’11 the perfect height.

Iron_Man · Answer

No it’s a great height be proud but don’t put on 6 inch pumps it’s an overkill

treehouse90 · Answer

Your height is quite fine. There's nothing wrong with girls beeing tall.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 6'2" so 5'8" is comfortable, but I'd accept any woman 5'0" - 6'4" who was Christian an mutually attracted.

Nick245 · Answer

What would be your behaviour when a short guy approaches you...

Ryfyle · Answer

No, that a ridiculous notion, 6'2'' is a Tall Woman.

imfreeze95 · Answer

No there is no wrong height. You can’t help how tall you are.

Twalli · Answer

I don't mind tall women, the inverse is not true. I am short. They mind that.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

well you are taller than me but i would date or even marry you

Anonymous · Answer

Ideal. I’m 6’2. Short girls can look cute but tall girls look better for sure. I think it’s because women have very high standards so it’s easier for men to find a shorter girl as a taller one would be more picky about height

Anonymous · Answer

It's not that i don't like tall women it's that short women are just generally friendlier.

douride2 · Answer

I sure hope it isn't to tall. That is my height.

Anonymous · Answer

It's definitely tall a f most probably too tall for short males.

romanticpepe · Answer

This height is literally the sexier in woman.

pigoat · Answer

5 8 is not too tall It's just tall

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