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Isn’t it wrong for guys to check other girls out if they have a girlfriend? (Page 2)
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A girl with a boyfriend who doesn't check out every single girl that passes him by should be concerned there is something very wrong with him because there is..
No there’s not it just means that he’s respectful
It depends how overt the checking out is. It’s disrespectful if he’s making it REALLY obvious he’s checking her out. However if he’s just looking- who cares? He’s allowed to find other girls pretty. Just bc you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you don’t look at pretty things anymore.
Both sexes do it.
me and various ex’s would people watch, invariably both would comment on a girl.
On one level it’s fine, it’s natural.
however they should not be a meerkat when with you and checking everyone out.
it does show a lack of ‘skill’ in that he can’t check out girls without making it obvious.
just punch him arm when he over does it.
Just bc you have a girlfriend doesn't mean your attraction for the opposite sex will become nonexistent. Girls do it just asuch if not more than guys. Girls are just sneakier about it. Haha. The important thing is being confident in yourself and your partner is only looking.
It happens that people notice someone attractive while in a relationship. The problem is when they are literally checking out random person in front of their partner or looking at bunch of "insta models" or other "models" online. That goes hand in hand with fantasies and those can be really harmful for the relationship.
It really depends on the person actually. I mean there are girls who think that it's normal since us girls too, if we see someone beautiful we kind of appreciate that person's features. Same goes to your boyfriend. He might just be appreciating someone's looks but deep inside he still loves you. We're humans. We see something pleasing, we tend to appreciate it. Just my 2 cents.
It's normal to 'check out' other people. Staring and making it obvious is too much though. It's uncomfortable in general, especially if you're the one being stared at. (Happens at work. Lots of weird men check me out when their wife/girlfriend is right next to them)
I remember the first time my last ex caught me checking someone else out. We had just been to the aquarium and in a moment of inspiration I said it's a bit like those fish in the tank, I may look at them from time to time but I don't want to take them home with me. 😂
She was absolutely fine with it really. We trusted each other enough to know neither of us would ever cheat on the other.
It’s ok to find other people attractive when you are in a relationship, and for your partner too. It’s wrong when they are obviously checking out someone’s butt and not even bothering to hide it ! And if they are making comments about how hot the other person is I would probably run. It means that they don’t respect you enough.
because technically speaking that’s only ok if you are Polly or are looking for someone to have a threesome with.
We all do it to some degree. Well most of us. There is a code of respect though that most guys just don't get. I have no problem if my gal checks out a buff guy or a well dressed dood as long as it isn't a Wahoooogaaahhh look. You know like the cartoons when the eyes pop out and they make the sound Wahooogaaahh... Be cool and no one gets hurt.
Its disrespectful to check out girl if he's in your presence but if you not around he's definitely checks out other girls and there is nothing wrong with that he's in a relationship he isn't dead. Just like I'm sure you check out other guys
I don’t check out other guys and I’ve never seen a girl do this before
So you don't have a celebrity crush
I find it okay
There are beautiful people on this planet, appreciating that happens, it's not like everyone else becomes ugly because you've got a partner now. Looking is fine, just don't stare like "Hello your partner exists too"
I would think there would be something wrong if they didn't I'm married but I still check out the men
100% of guys will check other girls while in a relationship. Some will be discreet and never let their partner know which is the right way and some idiots will not be able to do that.
Girls on the other hand do it also. It’s just a natural human behavior.
I dont do it lol and i feel like it can't be 100 percent of men that would be crazy
You’re 1 out of billions of people. Majority of people do it. All men will do it in some part of their life. If they didn’t do it during their 20-30 doesn’t mean they will not do it in their 40-60’s that’s why they will do it eventually.
No not unless he is doing it in a really obvious disrespectful way.
It is no different than women who do the same. I had an ex who often did and she was rather obvious about it. The bizarre part was how she would get jealous when women would look at me. Majority of the time I wouldn’t even notice that they were till she would point it out. Worse, was how she felt every women wanted me. Not remotely. Whatever...
Absolutely wrong. If he does that, I’m out here. there's many guys checking me out, why date someone who doesn’t appreciate me
No, it absolutely isn't. On the contrary, imprisoning a guy's eyes and mind would make other women that much appealing. Checking out is harmless. Look, admire, move on with your day, zero harm done unless his partner is an insecure controlling bitch.
by the way, an anacdote: why do you think there are so many pedophiles who are religious leaders of some sort?
LOL no.
Thankfully my girlfriend is like my partner in crime. She would even randomly point out on a stranger saying something like "look at those boobs" lol.
Yes, it's wrong but I guess sadly it happens but there's nothing like having a real girlfriend to love and not worry about the women/ girls he is checking out
When I was with my ex-girlfriend in public, I never checked other girls out and my girlfriend was age 18 and I was age 35 at the time @pink_and_inlove