Do all boyfriends check out other girls than their girlfriend?

[kristinam93]

well my boyfriend says he doesn't check out girls and that I should believe him. when I am with him he does look the other way if a girl does come, but at times I feel like he does look at other girls. but I wanna make sure he doesn't lie to me if he has I wanna know how I can make sure he is telling the truth.

[Anonymous]

Okay, if you're boyfriend does not look at other girl's he's lying or blind. You're man will look at other guys, but the thing is this, there are also plenty of guys who are only really attracted to the person that they're with. For example the girl I'm with is the only girl that really matters to me on an intimate level. Yes I will look at other girls. I'm not going to ignore a beautiful piece of art (not saying women are just pieces of art by any means) as it passes by, but that doesn't mean I'm going to chase it down and leave something that I actually care about, for some stupid thing that probably will leave me feeling miserable and regret how I acted. I mean not saying all guys are like that either, some guys look at other girls because they do want something else, but I mean if you have a good relationship, you really don't need to worry about that with most guys, and usually you will know if you're relationship is bad, because you too will often find yourself looking for something / someone else...

[samantharah]

That was a really good answer. Sometimes I feel insecure if my boyfriend looks at other girls, or thinks theyre hot, but I really just think he looks and that is it....bc he loves me and thinks I look good so yea

[zemushy]

Yes and no, guys naturally get turned on by other people than their girlfriend, and you can't change that. But, they don't stare at EVERY girl that walks by, and they aren't complete and total pigs like some people portray them, they can be jerks though... :l

[Mande1985]

As much as I hate that my boyfriend looks at other women... he is honest about it. But to completely honest with you... I would rather him just "humor" me and tell me that he doesn't. Just like most who answered your question... if he's not looking at other women, either he's blind or lying. Does it really matter though? I don't drool over any other guys but if something catches my eye.. I'm going to look. I know a lot of this comes from insecurities... again, I don't like the fact that my man looks at other women but its human nature. Its just wrong when they start flirting and crossing into a whole other territory. So, my advice to you is to not let it get to you so much. We as women have this insecurity that we want to be the one and only... and we are to that special someone.

I hope that helps.

[kikilove]

So if a gorgeous male model walked past you, you wouldn't take a second glance? It's human nature for men to look at attractive women, they can't help it. I've seen my boyfriend glance at pretty women a few times, but I don't have a problem with it because I know he wouldn;t dream of actually cheating on me with any of them. Quit being so controlling and start to realise that there is a difference between looking at another woman and actually doing something with that other woman. If you keep voicing these concerns to your boyfriend he may be turned off by your insecurity and will resent you.

[justadork]

Lol I love the fact that women are being so honest and most of these guys are just full of bs lol...

[Anonymous]

pretty much all guys will look at other women. they're not blind

but if your guy tells you he doesn't look at other girls and looks the other way when a girl does come, then he is being respectful of your feelings and that's what's important. stop being psycho and insecure. be glad he isn't drooling over hot girls in front of your face. ALL men look but the good ones will be discreet about it and respectful. no offense but I could see how you'd be annoying, chill out.

[BrettH]

most guys are shallow enough to look at other women. very few guys have the decency and respect to ignore other women and pay attention to you. especially at your age the guys only care about looks and don't know what personality means.

[Kaysin]

I couldn't agree more... Respect is a rare thing to have these days. In my opinion it's a respect thing... I can honestly say even though I'm single I don't bother. But to be honestly I'm sure some guys might find it "easier" not to if women dressed modestly..

[Blackkid]

No, they don't. You're an annoying pile of insecurities.

[Littletad]

Check out? No, some might. Glance? Most likely.