What does it mean if a guy knows I'm attracted to him and then he blushes whenever he sees me?

[aliali8]

we barely know each other and I usually don't pay much attention to him.

[TheorionMage]

There's a tell-tale oxymoron in your ancillary information.
HOW can this guy KNOW you're attracted to him and simultaneously
"... i don't pay much attention to him."

He's either 'embarrassed by your "not paying MUCH attention"
or he's harboring SOME feelings toward you as well! ---

[JPrez]

If you're attracted to him, why do you not pay attention to him?

[aliali8]

im just lusting after him. there's no mental attraction involved.

[JPrez]

Oh, well, it must mean that he's picked up on that since he's blushing. My guess is that he is flattered.

[aliali8]

well he doesn't know the difference between if i have a crush or if im just lusting for him

[JPrez]

True, but for most guys, we’d be flattered either way.

[aliali8]

so guys who are flattered usually blush?

[JPrez]

Yes.

[aliali8]

Do you think he is also attracted to me?

[JPrez]

Does he stare at you or look you up and down with elevator eyes?

[aliali8]

no he doesn't. i don't look at him very much either way because i have no interest in dating him. but it seems like sometimes when i look back and i see him, his eyes would get red/ pink. Sometimes from the way he looks at me, I get the sense that he knows that I'm attracted to him.

the reason why i am asking this is purely for ego purposes. i have no real interest in him

[JPrez]

The usual clue would be him looking back at you and staring at your bod. Sometimes guys will find an excuse to stand near a girl they are attracted to so they get a good view of her and figure her out. Those are external clues. Now, he could secretly like you or think dirty thoughts but he could be hiding those feelings. No other way to know for sure unless you or someone asks him what he thinks of you.

[aliali8]

hmmm alright.

[JPrez]

Hope that helps. 🤷‍♂️👍

[Coulis]

What is a guy looking for by staring and "figuring her out"?

[aliali8]

@jprez it did help and i have to say you sound pretty accurate.

[JPrez]

Thanks. If I can help further just let me know. 👍😎

[JPrez]

@Coulis if a guy stares or comes close he usually trying to check out your bod first. Then he’s gauging your personality and seeing if you smile and if you’re outgoing or if you’re introverted and maybe shy.

[Coulis]

Just for a friends with benefits situation or more?

[aliali8]

@jprez This occurs at a workplace. Whenever he is around, I never look at him (cuz im afraid of him detecting my attraction ). I only look at him when i need to. I never small talk with him either. But sometimes i do catch glimpses of him by accident.

I act like he isn't there most of the time.

[aliali8]

@Coulis Lust is different from love. Its just pure physical attraction

[Coulis]

Yes, I am aware. I was piggybacking your question since @jprez is being so generous with his insight.

[Coulis]

@jprez if a guy is studying lkke a book is it for friends with benefits or more?

[JPrez]

Glad I can help. 👍

[JPrez]

If he’s looking at your body a lot it usually implies sexual intentions and he may be bold enough to try a touch of some sort. If he smiles and maybe is a little flirty and just glances at your face, that usually means he’s got interest but not up front sexual interest. More like he wants to date you.

[Coulis]

@jprez yes, i guess the more overthinking the higher the stakes are for the guy.

[JPrez]

@Coulis what do you mean exactly? 🤷‍♂️

[Coulis]

@jprez guy who will literally conceal himself so he can watch every interaction she has. Not following but if she is around he will watch every last thing about her. How she is withbher friends family. When she looks at him lkke I see you he just turns beet red leaves then comes back. Then just smiles at her no stop and talks with his friends whole blatantly looking at her.

[JPrez]

@Coulis yes you are right, some guys can take it pretty far and that gets into obsession territory. A lot of loner, shy type guys with no confidence usually do that and they are fueled mostly by a a sexual attraction. You may also have a boyfriend type who does this as well. There are guys who stalk and observe and try not to let you see them. So true.

[Coulis]

@jprez oh so this is someone to steer clear of. They only want sex.

[JPrez]

@Coulis yes if they are not your type and you no sexual interest from them, definitely steer clear of them. 👍

[JPrez]

“Have no sexual interest” is what I meant to say

[Wise4myage]

He's very shy, so flirt a bit and see if you can get him to open up.

[andy530]

Sounds like he’s attracted to you too

[EaterPeter]

It is exactly what you think.

[Anonymous]

Because of what he is thinking when he sees you

[Coulis]

And what might that be?

[Opinion Owner]

@Coulis sexual thoughts about her and how they could have babies

[Coulis]

Well babies is a serious thing... so this person really likes the other person.