Why do guys not respect women on Tinder? (Page 2)

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I've been single for some time and I have come to realize that most men don't respect the women they meet from Tinder. Or perhaps that's just my experience.  Let's say this guy John, who's 35, goes on a Tinder date with Kate, 25. He automatically feels that she owes him sex. But had John been introduced to Kate by his mate Philip (she's Philip's ex-coworker's sister's cousin), would he treat Kate the same way on the first date, by asking her to sleep with him straight away or the date is over?  Does it really matter how a man meets a woman, as men like to compartmentalize, like "all women from online apps for hookups, all women I've met in real life are for relationships? Or is that a myth?

EmotionOfFear · Answer

If you went to Tinder expecting respect and to find an actual guy, you went to the wrong place. Tinder is just for hookups, men/women to get a quickie, and I'm pretty sure it's advanced the spread of AIDs by at least 28%.

tallcuck · Answer

Man dates to fuck. Women often don't know why they date and get offended cause the man knows what he wants and expects.
It is a complete myth. We want to fuck all attractive women no matter how we met them. It is what we are made for.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's just the site more than anything people don't call it as dating. It's why I got rid of my tinder account and went to another dating site.

Honestly as dating sites go tinder isn't great. I tried it for a while and I only got to types of response. One kind was from women trying to sell there only fans.
The other was just once woman who wanted me to send nude photos.

Anonymous · Answer

Most of us Guys that have been single for a while don't really know how to flirt with a Girl and can easily come of as a bit weird or disrespectful to you Girls, We usually try to be Charming and Confident but it can come across as mean and disrespectful especially online.
Of course that's no excuse but we are not going to get experience if you don't give us a chance.

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is a site for people looking to fuck. That's it.  If that's not what you want, then I hope you've deleted the app.

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is geared towards hookups, so going on there gives a certain impression. I don't consider Tinder a dating app. I consider it a hookup app. There are plenty of dating/relationship apps out there that are not that way.

Juxtapose · Answer

Because all the nice guys get the politeness beaten out of them by the vicious environment there. If you want to meet a nice guy, go to your local library and try to find a nerd.

Unit1 · Answer

Online dating isn't serious as it does not filter out the incompetent members, who ignore or ghost other members. It does not reward active users nor punish the inactive ones like ghosters.

exitseven · Answer

If you think you don't get enough respect on Tinder, why not just delete your account and never give it another thought?

Wiredone · Answer

Most Guys today don't know how to respect women. They were never taught to respect people by their parents. Everything with them is me, me, me. You might have to sift through all the bad apples to find the good one

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

Fallin for wrong type.. also tinder is mainly for hookups..

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Because tinder is used to hook up not to date (at least that is the impression I have gotten).

REALSTEEL · Answer

simple cause they weren't raised right they must of been raised in a barn guys today have absolutely no respect no morals and definitely no manners

EyesOfGod · Answer

Tinder is for finding easy fucks. Women on tinder are all tinder sluts that want stud cock and studs want to fuck those slut but date them? Lol no on tinder its lets fuck or gtfo.

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

Disrespect back. Anyway it is an app for incels and male cunts lol. So dont except much from internet male cunts. Anyway dont worry since i think that most men are great and respectful

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Why do you say they don't respect them? They treat them like girls looking for a hookup, which had always been Tinder's goal and definition before some morons went there looking for love and marriage.

TheFlak38 · Answer

tinder is an online whorehouse. you're not entitled to respect if you're a tinder whore. even real whores who actually give sex deserve more respect than you.

karaspara · Answer

Some do but all the doucebags come out on social media of all descriptions but especially dating apps

TaeTaeTeaBTSSS · Answer

Tinder is a hookup app. I had tinder when I was 12. I thought I could find a relationship there.

msbrightness · Answer

Because far too many read Cosmo and trivialise sex into positions, duration, his length, orgasm count etc

hello_kitty_man · Answer

My experience with Tinder is either within a few messages asking me to some explicit adult website or to ask me for money, Amazon or Google gift cards.

convo_king89 · Answer

tinder is gotten the rep to be a brothel. go in and get what you want. im not sure how that happened.. its it preety much a dating site like pof and ok cupid.

Twalli · Answer

Real life connections means she's doesn't seem as desperate as she does on a dating app.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I have never used tinder in my life,  I dont like to treat a girl/lady with disrespect no matter what happens by the way Im single and looking for a girl nowadays even online world

BUNroaster · Answer

Its just an app with a bad name for itsself. a lot of sluttiness is connected with it so its jokedabout but many people get in wonderful relationships with it too so

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is a hook up site. People go there in the hope for sex. How can you even expect respect there LOL?

zagor · Answer

It's the same guys who don't respect women they meet in RL. They're just concentrated on tinder.

pigoat · Answer

I will try to be nicer but no one swipes right on me for months now

Clarke498 · Answer

Because many women on there don't respect themselves to begin with? Objectifying themselves out of the gate.

amaguqe · Answer

If they actually knew how to treat a woman like a person, they probably wouldn't rely on Tinder to cure their loneliness

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Well tinder is supposed to be for hookups isn't it. If you think you're gonna find prince Charming on there, you'll be looking for a long time

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Tinder is still considered a hookup app. But being set up in person by a friend isn’t a hookup

Anonymous · Answer

If you ever feel a bad vibe, don’t ignore it. The signs are usually there soon enough. ABORT and move on to better.

newfreshstart · Answer

Tinder is NOT a dating app it is just a app for casual sex hookups app

AFellowWeeb · Answer

why dont guys respect women that dont respect themselves?

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is a hookup app. Anyone using it should be aware that the people they meet there are looking for sex. I don't know why you seem surprised that guys you meet would expect sex.

DevanRowland · Answer

I think its because you only use a dating app if your really desperate so it takes away some respect.

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is for thots and fuckboys. No intelligent or decent person is on Tinder.

222333444 · Answer

This is coming from a girl, but I have lots of experience with tinder and used some other online apps. They treat me the same way. I feel a lot of guys go into it, looking for sex.

BubbaTech · Answer

Or is it that the Guys on tinder, don't respect women? Its a chicken or egg question.

Clairvear69 · Answer

Some good some bad some arsehole. I get many strange on tinder

Wise4myage · Answer

Because Tinder is a meat market, and I've seen some of raunchy things women say on their profiles.

Aphrodite801 · Answer

That was your experience. Not how it is for majority of women lmao

Paul09 · Answer

Tinder is a fuck app and nothing more. I am not surprised.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Women go on Tinder to get some dick. It's a hook-up site.

Anonymous · Answer

Is this coming from the same species that constantly judges men by things that they can’t control? Constantly ignores men? Constantly thinks that they are above most men? Don’t lecture to men about respect unless you show respect yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

It's complicated.

Anonymous · Answer

because the women on the tinder are simple whores who are money hunters for a one night stand.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most women treat guys like trash irl (or at least that's there view). On Tinder you can't hide why you're there. So guess what? It's payback time.

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is for sluts of both sexes looking for carnal penetration If you want a serious relationship then you are on the wrong site

fred_durst · Answer

Dating app is bad idea , i only met with online scammers there.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I think because Tinder has developed the reputation of being a hookup app, not a dating app.

jerdanro · Answer

I do. At least the ones that aren't catfish or after money.

themythos · Answer

You swipe left or right based on someones photos so of course guys just want sex

Anonymous · Answer

Guys don't respect women at all. Has nothing to do with tinder

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder has a reputation for hooking up; perhaps you should try a different app with a more conservative reputation.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

why don't women respect men in any part of western culture?

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder is a fucking meat market  nothing more, nothing less

Anonymous · Answer

What ever happened to Kate Upton? You never see her anymore.

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